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Anyone else have a partner that complains about your "wasteful" three monitors or "unsightly" VR cameras or mistakes boxed games/blurays on the shelf for books only to become disappointed upon up-close inspection? ?

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No, i do have a variation to this tho . . .

She HAS to use everything tech, and everything is awesome, but for her, it never seems to work, ever.

(upon closer inspection, its working just fine, just not to her expectations)

 

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Yea I know right!

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Although I am aware that others in my life don't really understand my love for tech/computers. But that isn't even my biggest/most expensive hobby/collection. Most people don't get that one either, so bleh.

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6 minutes ago, Cylon Agent said:

Anyone else have a girlfriend that complains about your "wasteful" three monitors or "unsightly" VR cameras or mistakes boxed games on the shelf for books only to become disappointed upon up-close inspection? ?

Mine just asks why I have so many webcams pointed at our bed...

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When I used to have one mine would complain about the obscene amount of money and time I gave to my laptop xD 

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3 minutes ago, jstudrawa said:

Mine just asks why I have so many webcams pointed at our bed...

Speaking of.  One moved slightly if you could fix it please.  

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My ex would get upset at me when I was really into rooting my phone as it would make me unavailable and I would occasionally miss/lose text messages.  

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My gf is in IT herself, so HOARD ALL THE TECH.

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1 minute ago, NelizMastr said:

My gf is in IT herself, so HOARD ALL THE TECH.

I'll do you one better: I am the girlfriend in IT myself, hoarding all the tech!

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4 minutes ago, WereCatf said:

I'll do you one better: I am the girlfriend in IT myself, hoarding all the tech!

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My girlfriend really isn't into tech, but she's into video games.  So still a win, lmao

Currently focusing on my video game collection.

It doesn't matter what you play games on, just play good games you enjoy.

 

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39 minutes ago, Cylon Agent said:

Anyone else have a partner that complains about your "wasteful" three monitors or "unsightly" VR cameras or mistakes boxed games/blurays on the shelf for books only to become disappointed upon up-close inspection? ?

For me, its not my GF, its my dad.

Dad: "You are always OPTIMIZING your pc, is it not fast enough?!"

Me: "No dad, its called overclocking!  It is part of the custom PC experience!"

 

Dad: "Isn't your monitor good enough?  Its a whopping 75fps!"

Me: "No dad, i want 144!"  

Dad: "You have spent so much money on this!"

Me: "It is my money right?"

Dad: "Fine, go waste your money!"

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8 minutes ago, rx590overclocker said:

For me, its not my GF, its my dad.

Dad: "You are always OPTIMIZING your pc, is it not fast enough?!"

Me: "No dad, its called overclocking!  It is part of the custom PC experience!"

 

Dad: "Isn't your monitor good enough?  Its a whopping 75fps!"

Me: "No dad, i want 144!"  

Dad: "You have spent so much money on this!"

Me: "It is my money right?"

Dad: "Fine, go waste your money!"

Lol, I'm both you and your Dad :)

 

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Just now, jstudrawa said:

Lol, I'm both you and your Dad :)

 

haha lmao

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I used to have a client who was both fascinated by tech, and at the same time, quite useless with it.

She once bought a very fancy wireless mouse, with many buttons and scroll wheels.

 

Installed batteries (correctly), plugged in wireless dongle (also correctly), turned mouse on, set it down and tried to use it.

When she pushed the mouse upward, the cursor moved downward. Left was right, etc. Obviously she'd placed the mouse wrong way 'round, and the solution would be obvious, turn it around, right?

 

No, she learned to use it that way, and got highly upset if you "fixed" the mouse and tried to use it the correct way.

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My ex loved technology, but she was so bad with it. I have no idea why. She was very intelligent, PHD student. She just could not get around the simple aspects of it. Took me like 2 weeks to get her comfortable with her Switch  

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Unless shes paying for them she can get the fuck over it tbh.

 

Im married so it complicates things a little as we have a joint account. But for the most part neither one of us cares what the other buys.

 

 

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46 minutes ago, Radium_Angel said:

No, she learned to use it that way, and got highly upset if you "fixed" the mouse and tried to use it the correct way.

I just flipped my mouse 180 to see what it would be like...

 

Other than not being able to reach my scroll wheel easy, I could see how someone could get used to it, if it was their first time using it. 

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Nevermind, bad joke

Hand, n. A singular instrument worn at the end of the human arm and commonly thrust into somebody’s pocket.

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My X only liked it when I did dangerous things that could kill me.  

She did get me into programming computers because she told me I was too stupid to do it.

That started my hobby.

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