How to get a girlfriend????
Haha, I'd never have thought of dating a girl that was younger than me when I was in my teens, but each to their own I suppose.
I'm going to assume that the way you worded your post is more of a result of a lack of English; you don't make someone your girlfriend.
If her friend was crushing on your brother, I'm sure she didn't need much persuasion to hang out with him 
Anyway, I'll give you a few tips:
- Be yourself. If she doesn't like you for you, move on.
- Go up to her and say hi. Ask her how she's doing, or comment on something you know she likes.
- Let her talk. Most people like to talk about themselves, more than listen. Just keep asking questions about what she's talking about, and the conversation will progress naturally.
- Don't be overbearing. Don't spend too much time around her, don't bombard her with questions. Just let her know you're there. Sometimes just smiling at someone will work a lot better than words.
- Be confident. Confidence is one of the most attractive traits.
- Find out what she's into, and see if you share any common interests. Build upon that.
- Don't ask for her number right away (or I guess social media if that's how you kids are communicating these days). If anything, wait for her to give it to you.
- Actually get to know her. It sounds like you might like her based on her looks, or how you see her act; without knowing her on a deeper level, it's merely infatuation. You might not like who she actually is.
- She might not like you back, and that's ok. There's tons of girls out there.
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Really, and most importantly it all starts with one action. I think James May put it best.
Good luck!
Also, I 25% apologize to those that hate multiquotes. But only 25%. The feature is there for a reason, nerds.
21 hours ago, lewdicrous said:I really hope that this is a joke..
Haha, why? People tend to ask questions where they feel most comfortable, and this is likely a safe place for him.
You make it seem like people on a forum are incapable of having a life.
21 hours ago, Zeddex said:No offense, but this is probably the worst place you could ask for dating advice. This is a tech forum, not an advice column.
Hey, at least he managed to post it in the Off Topic section.
20 hours ago, Arika S said:Have you ever spoken to this girl before?
If not, start there, but do NOT start with "be my girlfriend". If her friend and your brother are already hanging out, see if you can plan an event with all 4 of you.
Hahah, what, you mean it's not like picking out a pet? 
18 hours ago, Levent said:I am also waiting for that cheat code.
The code is: don't get caught.
18 hours ago, GenericFanboy said:On a serious note, if you're asking questions like this i think you're not ready for a relationship nor do you know much about it. If anything it shows you're a bit young. Probably a better idea to just focus on learning. Relationships come out of nowhere. its best to just let it happen instead of chasing after it
How do you figure that?
Relationships don't necessarily come out of nowhere.
Some you have to pursue, or nothing will happen at all.
18 hours ago, LinusTechTipsFanFromDarlo said:One word:
Don't...
Someone sounds salty.
17 hours ago, spartaman64 said:-snip-
My current girlfriend I met in a mmo. To be honest the first time i met her was when i was coming to say hello to my guild master and watch him grind and she was in his grind party and she killed me so i thought she was a jerk. But later as i got to know her and as i got more into the game i learned that she was just being playful and getting pked in the game isn't really a big deal and shes a really nice person. I also found out we share a lot of interests like pokemon and she played runescape in the past also. After talking like pretty much every day for a while I asked her if she can be my girlfriend and at first she wasn't sure if she was emotionally ready for a boyfriend so I said ok we can be just friends. But after that the way we talked with each other clearly changed and we were basically talking like boyfriend and girlfriend so after a few days i asked again and she said yes.
So this isn't something that you can force unless you are hot or something and i'm not really sure if you want that even if you were since once she sees a hotter guy she might dump you. Also it seems that you dont know her very well either so first get to know her beforehand. But don't worry if I can get a girlfriend you definitely can. Also i think you should leave your and her friend out of it since you probably don't want to break their heart.
I understand how you feel I had crushes before also but I don't think a crush is a solid thing to build a relationship off of.
That's actually pretty cute.
16 hours ago, cluelessgenius said:really not a great place to ask but here i go:
show interest in her interests
dont idolize her - boys usually start mumbling and stuttering around their crush in the younger years, try not to.
pick a local event in your town/area and just ask her if she wants to go their with you - preferably not to private of an event as that can get akward for a first "date" and but make sure you 2 are somewhat alone when you ask her, so she doesnt feel weird in front of her firends and you get les nervous.
thats all i got.
and dont go in there thinking about her being your gf. just show actual interest in her and let the relationship grow slowly.
You say that, but look at all the genuinely decent advice he's gotten! Including yours.
...we'll just ignore all the BS in between and hope he does as well.
16 hours ago, SeAsOn3 said:I get nervous around pretty girls and can someone tell me a dating tip forums
"Loveguru date tips.com" or something like that. Till then it's a meme topic
Most do. You've just gotta be around them more, you'll get more used to it.
The most important thing to remember: the prettier the girl, the more chance there is of her being self conscious.
Very few people like themselves.
12 hours ago, wasab said:Surround yourself with pretty girls and build up confidence. Try befriending as many of them as you can.
Legit works. Not too many though, and not too often.
After I graduated, I bumped into a few girls I'd gone to school with, and they all said "you know, I really wanted to come up and say hi in the hall...but you always had girls around you."
It was news to me. I was always awkward as fuck.
12 hours ago, kelvinhall05 said:Just get really rich and there's aprox a 50/50 chance she'll suddenly find you super attractive and really want to be with you.
Mmmm, no son. You should know the ratio.
It's 33%.
- Rich
- Attractive
- Big dick
If you don't have one of those three, you're kinda up shit creek.
12 hours ago, redbread123 said:Roofies, (for legal reasons that's a joke)
That's...not even a funny joke. Anyone that has to use those is beyond pathetic.
12 hours ago, Silentprototipe said:Lol take a look at this nerd asking us for advice. We are the absolute worst demographic for that
Genuinely it just happens naturally, Nothing you can do to speed that up. Just wait and the time will come
Haha, speak for yourself, my friend, speak for yourself
It can be made to happen. In my younger years that was half the fun.
12 hours ago, Radioactive Snowman said:Really not gonna mention anything to do with that username of yours? Some girls love a guy willing to do that
You millennials...
12 hours ago, Derkoli said:Worked for me!
Are you sure she doesn't just love the money
12 hours ago, Derkoli said:Profit you say?
See below.
11 hours ago, tankyx said:Poor choice of wording. You cannot make much profit when dating someone
Nah, profit doesn't always have to be monetary. You can a lot from a relationship; health, happiness, completeness..
6 hours ago, manchild said:in my experience its simply about being at the right place right time. most important thing is she doesnt already have a bf, though at ur age im pretty sure she doesnt, then just be in her social circle and things will happen. if u have to try to get her, then u've already been rejected, chasing is a meme, people decide if they like u rather quickly (something im guilty of). just socialize more, dont be a loner, at ur age its easy to find a good gf since most females are single. just hang out with her social circle then ask her out, dont "try to impress her" it wont change her mind.
Well. I mean. Even if they do, being friends doesn't hurt. Nothing lasts forever, and sometimes they'll see on their own that you're a better choice anyway.
You know. Not saying I've been the other man. Or anything.
5 hours ago, Deaderpool said:
As much as I love C&H, you've gotta use the good lines...
3 hours ago, VenomZ_ said:Don't be the stereotypical nice guy but don't a complete douche bag either. Don't be afraid of rejection, and learn to be confident. Workout, groom yourself, don't spend all day looking at p0rn, don't look at them as objects look at them like humans. Keep in mind they eat and shit just like we do. Taking a shower and not smelling like raw ass also helps.
im sure @dizmo has more he can add to this.
Haha, I find it ....flattering/amusing that you think I'd be able to add to this conversation
3 hours ago, scuff gang said:your asking how to get a girlfriend on a tech forum you are a troll
Nahhh just someone who wants some information from people he (for whatever misguided reason) trusts!
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