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i feel ready to come out to my dad but how should i do it? (im bisexual :) )

Is he relgious, or has he showed any sign of hate for alternate sexualities?

When my father found out about my sexuality it was because of my niavaity. I thought that becuase he was my father, he'd be accepting. Good ol' Catholicism. Unless you have too, just keep it quite. Heck my mum and stepdad are so supportive, I wish they didnt know. Its annoying!

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Is he religious, or has he showed any sign of hate for alternate sexualities?

nope and nope.

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I think you've covered the answer in your question: Consenting and sentient. That's basically my be all and end all.

Maybe that's just my love for the various Star Trek novels characters who are gay and members of different species speaking. But barring biological incompatibility... I don't see any issues.

EDIT: Our ancestors got jiggy with Homo Neanderthalensis back a few millennia anyway :P

kip, i have mated with the alien woman. isn't that what man first dreamed of when he first glaced up at the stars?

KIP, i'm asking you a question! answer me!

 

i feel ready to come out to my dad but how should i do it? (im bisexual :) )

are you the first born son?

as a heterosexual with a liniage to maintain i'd only be dissappointed if my first son was gay.

i'm the third, so my son would be the forth, and if he doesn't name his son the 5th i'd be pretty upset, because reasons.

eh, if he was bi i wouldn't be dissapointed. unless he refuses to give me a grandchild named the 5th.

 

unless of course he was willing to have an egg donor, whom would then carry the child. which he could name the 5th. then if he was gay i'd be fine with it.

anyway. my case is quite unique, and yes it is i know it is shallow, but that's the only time i'd be dissapointed to have a homosexual child, but even if he was, i wouldn't patronize him. it's all about the 5th, not my child's actual sexuality.

 

moral of the story, if your dad really loves you and cares about you he'd be fine with it. if you tell him you're bi he might not care as much because he'd think "that's okay i can "fix" him" which is bullshit. you aren't broken.

 

long story long, another bi friend i had in high school had a chronically drunk christian dad who said that being Bi was just a phase and proceeded to get my friend a playboy subscription. it was mega lolz

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nope and nope.

well shit, this should be easy. as long as it doesn't go over like this:

https://youtu.be/xc4qKDDx3XE?t=18s

 

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im actualy thinking of waiting to the perfect moment to just all calmly mention my ex bf and then current gf or something.

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im actualy thinking of waiting to the perfect moment to just all calmly mention my ex bf and then current gf or something.

in my opinion, not a bad plan.

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Isn't that what man first dreamed of when he first glanced up at the stars?

 

 

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-SNIP-

you guys go find a thread and discuss your freaky stuff there.........  ;)  (just kidding you can stay)

 

that thread would probably get realy popular  :P

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if your dad really loves you and cares about you he'd be fine with it.

 

This just caught my eye ^

 

If someone cares about you they might tell you they're fine with it, because they love you, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's something they're not struggling with. :0/

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I guess it depends on the guy...  ;0P

 

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This is more my speed...  ;0)

 

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I forgot to add yesterday, when I was 16, I was allowed to feel my best friend at that time's bum. 

He was straight, I think. I don't even know, I haven't spoken to him in 3 years. 

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12+ Years of playing, I am decent. Not as of now (broken hand)

being the best is skill based, not just about popularity. He's popular but pretty underwhelming ;)

I must say, as I do play many instruments and have had the honor to meet Mr. White. He is very good player. It is not a matter of skill, but finesse is lot of it too and skill is something he has, not many guitarists will solo without a backing band. 

 

Clapton is bae

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@kidjt94 @STRMfrmXMN

 

How do I know if I actually am gay? I've had no real feelings for anyone. I think I am but am I? I don't even know.

I don't know man. It's up to you to figure that out. I am straight, so coming out isn't any sort of issue for me. Never been super concerned that I wasn't straight.

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How do I know if I actually am gay? I've had no real feelings for anyone. I think I am but am I? I don't even know.

That is a tough say. 

If the thought of having sex with a woman turns you off then that may be a sign? Idk just throwing things out there.

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Clapton is bae

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Clapton is my number 2, then Page. 

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yay finally get to redye my hair :D I use to dye it a lot but I haven't been doing it recently

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I identify sexually as a Churchill VII Heavy Infantry Tank, Please respect that I do not like normal gender pronouns, use the pronoun HIT when referring to me thank you.

 

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yay finally get to redye my hair :D I use to dye it a lot but I haven't been doing it recently

I've been thinking of dying mine silver-ish and cutting it short. My hair's pretty long right now.

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I've been thinking of dying mine silver-ish and cutting it short. My hair's pretty long right now.

Nice! I'd love to do silver or pastel purple, but I'm a very sensitive person and wouldn't want to deal with the comments from school mates etc :(

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Nice! I'd love to do silver or pastel purple, but I'm a very sensitive person and wouldn't want to deal with the comments from school mates etc :(

Gumi Green for me <3

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Nice! I'd love to do silver or pastel purple, but I'm a very sensitive person and wouldn't want to deal with the comments from school mates etc :(

That's the one thing I'm worried about. I already wear a beanie in school so I'd just keep wearing that. The only issue would be that people would notice that there is no longer any hair sticking out of it and ask to see mah hair.

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yay finally get to redye my hair :D I use to dye it a lot but I haven't been doing it recently

Dying your hair?

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Hair dye is in, gotta wait 25 min now (I'll post a pic when its done if you guys want :) )

 

But onto a more serious topic, my parents accept me and dont mind dying my hair, but they always say stuff

"Why do you do things like this to yourself? Why bring the bullies too you?"

 

It's obvious they just dont want me to be made fun of, but that's not how you should look at life imo

 

any ideas?

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Hair dye is in, gotta wait 25 min now (I'll post a pic when its done if you guys want :) )

 

But onto a more serious topic, my parents accept me and dont mind dying my hair, but they always say stuff

"Why do you do things like this to yourself? Why bring the bullies too you?"

 

It's obvious they just dont want me to be made fun of, but that's not how you should look at life imo

 

any ideas?

Are you actually being bullied?

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Hair dye is in, gotta wait 25 min now (I'll post a pic when its done if you guys want :) )

 

But onto a more serious topic, my parents accept me and dont mind dying my hair, but they always say stuff

"Why do you do things like this to yourself? Why bring the bullies too you?"

 

It's obvious they just dont want me to be made fun of, but that's not how you should look at life imo

 

any ideas?

Please post pics! Also, I do understand why they would say that though.

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