Lesson learned boys (and girls) don't date crazy

[GirlFromYonder]

40 minutes ago, djdwosk97 said:

She still broke into the apartment....unless she was paying part of that months rent, then you can't do anything. 

OOOh yeah... there is no proof really that she lived there unless she paid or something. Just moving in doesnt mean much. 

 

40 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

Eviction takes 7 days in michigan

Did she pay rent?

[loganshaw9]

2 minutes ago, DeezNoNos said:

Like there must be some shit for this type of stuff.

I wish man I've tried every possible route, it's a harsh lesson 

[Princess Luna]

I'm so sorry something like this happened, I would never do that to my boyfriend... just because I'm who built his PC that'd hurt me

[loganshaw9]

38 minutes ago, DeezNoNos said:

OOOh yeah... there is no proof really that she lived there unless she paid or something. Just moving in doesnt mean much. 

She had her license changed when she renewed it two weeks ago that is enough in flint

 

37 minutes ago, Princess Cadence said:

I'm so sorry something like this happened, I would never do that to my boyfriend... just because I'm who built his PC that'd hurt me

Thanks 

 

38 minutes ago, DeezNoNos said:

Did she pay rent?

Nope that doesn't matter though

[GirlFromYonder]

Just now, loganshaw9 said:

She had her license changed when she renewed it two weeks ago that is enough in flint

fucking hell. WHY THE FUCK ARENT YOU LEGALLY PROTECTED AGAINST THIS.

[NumLock21]

5 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

No she left I took her key, she broke in somehow broke everything and let my dog loose

Basically she has destroyed your property. Who owns this place, you or her, should say on the contract papers.

[GirlFromYonder]

Just now, loganshaw9 said:

Nope that doesn't matter though

she didnt even pay

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2 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

I wish man I've tried every possible route, it's a harsh lesson 

What kind of "lesson" is that?  If there is realyl nothing you can do then the laws are seriously fucked up and the only lesson is that they need to be corrected.

[loganshaw9]

3 minutes ago, TacticlTwinkie said:

What city/country do you live in? My roommate is a lawyer, I'll ask him if there is anything you can do.

Flint Michigan. There isn't without hiring a lawyer and that would cost as much as the damage. Plus she doesn't have a job anyways

[GirlFromYonder]

35 minutes ago, Ryan_Vickers said:

What kind of "lesson" is that?  If there is realyl nothing you can do then the laws are seriously fucked up and the only lesson is that they need to be corrected.

exactly 

 

35 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

Flint Michigan. There isn't without hiring a lawyer and that would cost as much as the damage. Plus she doesn't have a job anyways

but you cant rip her off cant you?

[loganshaw9]

Just now, Ryan_Vickers said:

What kind of "lesson" is that?  If there is realyl nothing you can do then the laws are seriously fucked up and the only lesson is that they need to be corrected.

That's part of it for sure man. There is no protection for people in Michigan the cops will literally sit and watch you destroy your own property or your spouses

[Technomancer__]

2 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

That's part of it for sure man. There is no protection for people in Michigan the cops will literally sit and watch you destroy your own property or your spouses

Wtf

[loganshaw9]

5 minutes ago, DeezNoNos said:

fucking hell. WHY THE FUCK ARENT YOU LEGALLY PROTECTED AGAINST THIS.

I wish I could tell you man it sucks

[kirashi]

2 minutes ago, djdwosk97 said:

She still broke into the apartment....unless she was paying part of that months rent, then you can't do anything. 

2 minutes ago, DeezNoNos said:

but you kicked her out

Unfortunately, due to tenant laws in many places, domestic abuse/vandalism/crimes are extremely difficult to prosecute, since you've effectively both agreed legally to rent the same place together and live together. When a fight or split happens, just because it occurs overnight does not mean anything in the eyes of the law because legal procedures require painstaking amounts of time because bureaucracy.
 

In BC, Canada, tenant laws even protect the tenant so much that being a landlord sucks so much that it's not worth it unless you're making sick money because the tenants are so well protected. However, in this case it doesn't matter that she was legally renting with you - destruction of property is destruction of property, regardless of how you're related. If my theoretical wife of 70 years decides to shit on all of my $3,000 dress suits, it's still destruction of property which is a crime you can press charges for in most places.

 

Now, I'm not telling you to sue her, because that actually only increases our legal problems around the world as a whole, to which only lawyers see a benefit from. However, the police definitely need to be involved if you can prove it was her who did this, since it's no different than destroying a park bench in a park paid for by taxpayers. (Since you're a taxpayer, you legally own access rights to the park, similarly to how she would legally still live there.) I'm oversimplifying things a lot, but I hope I make my point.

 

That being said, ultimately this sucks to see, regardless if it's a computer, car, or just furniture being trashed. It's destructive toxic behavior so at the end of the day, you're way better off not having to deal with her anymore, even if you still feel for her.

[loganshaw9]

Just now, kirashi said:

Unfortunately, due to tenant laws in many places, domestic abuse/vandalism/crimes are extremely difficult to prosecute, since you've effectively both agreed legally to rent the same place together and live together. When a fight or split happens, just because it occurs overnight does not mean anything in the eyes of the law because legal procedures require painstaking amounts of time because bureaucracy.
 

In BC, Canada, tenant laws even protect the tenant so much that being a landlord sucks so much that it's not worth it unless you're making sick money because the tenants are so well protected. However, in this case it doesn't matter that she was legally renting with you - destruction of property is destruction of property, regardless of how you're related. If my theoretical wife of 70 years decides to shit on all of my $3,000 dress suits, it's still destruction of property which is a crime you can press charges for in most places.

 

Now, I'm not telling you to sue her, because that actually only increases our legal problems around the world as a whole, to which only lawyers see a benefit from. However, the police definitely need to be involved if you can prove it was her who did this, since it's no different than destroying a park bench in a park paid for by taxpayers. (Since you're a taxpayer, you legally own access rights to the park, similarly to how she would legally still live there.) I'm oversimplifying things a lot, but I hope I make my point.

 

That being said, ultimately this sucks to see, regardless if it's a computer, car, or just furniture being trashed. It's destructive toxic behavior so at the end of the day, you're way better off not having to deal with her anymore, even if you still feel for her.

This so much man thanks for the write up, it's rough I just miss my dog and my pc. Hopefully in a few months or 6 after I fix up the damage I can afford a new one...

[paps511]

Lawyer up

Next she'll say you raped her

[loganshaw9]

27 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

This so much man thanks for the write up, it's rough I just miss my dog and my pc. Hopefully in a few months or 6 after I fix up the damage I can afford a new one...

The police were involved and watched her throw around more stuff, they told me I couldn't do anything but commit her. And count it all as a loss

 

24 minutes ago, paps511 said:

Lawyer up

Next she'll say you raped her

No the police were here and I filed for a ppo I'll be ok

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Well since it's apparently a lawless wasteland I guess you gotta just take care of yourself.  If there is any shred of civilization however, I'd advise making full use of it.  Even if it costs more in the end at some point it's just the principal of it.

Best of luck with whatever course of action you decide.

[loganshaw9]

1 minute ago, Ryan_Vickers said:

Well since it's apparently a lawless wasteland I guess you gotta just take care of yourself.  If there is any shred of civilization however, I'd advise making full use of it.  Even if it costs more in the end at some point it's just the principal of it.

Best of luck with whatever course of action you decide.

I wish I could afford a lawyer but I can't, and if I could I would just get my pc back tbh it's worth more then spending my free time dealing with her any longer

[NumLock21]

13 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

The police were involved and watched her throw around more stuff, they told me I couldn't do anything but commit her. And count it all as a loss

So that means you can destroy her stuffs too then?

There was a article not too long ago where some woman had a suspended or no driver license and drove into a house and he broke the guys legs. The police can't do anything about it, so she got away with it, while the victim has to pay for his own medical bills.

[Guest]

10 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

The police were involved and watched her throw around more stuff, they told me I couldn't do anything but commit her. And count it all as a loss

Wtf, did they cite a reason or did they just not wan't to deal with it?

10 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

No the police were here and I filed for a ppo I'll be ok

Not familiar with how PPOs, but be careful, if she really is crazy/spiteful then she may still continue regardless.

[TheRandomness]

Well when it comes to that PC, I’m sure it’d be possible for the cooler and PSU to still be alright. 

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16 minutes ago, loganshaw9 said:

The police were involved and watched her throw around more stuff, they told me I couldn't do anything but commit her. And count it all as a loss

to what, an insane asylum? might not be a bad idea if that's an option.

[Guest]

1 minute ago, NumLock21 said:

So that means you can destroy her stuffs too then?

There was a article not too long ago where some women had a suspended or no driver license and drove into a house and he broke the guys legs. The police can't do anything and she got away with it, while the victim has to pay for his own medical bills.

Ohh how much the law urks me at times. This reminds me of burglar attempts where the burglar got injured and sued the homeowners. (I believe I have seen this multiple times too.)

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1 minute ago, TheRandomness said:

Well when it comes to that PC, I’m sure it’d be possible for the cooler and PSU to still be alright. 

and SSDs, and probably even the CPU itself if you can extract it from the rubble