My friends parents think im a bad influence.

[Nicholas15]

On halloween I put my middle finger up in a photo with my mates, now two of them's parents think im a bad influence, Im scared to go round to my mates' house now and one of them isnt allowed to talk to me (even though he still does) what should I do?

[CydiaDash]

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Are your two friends the same age?

[Ozukar]

What.

[Nicholas15]

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Are your two friends the same age?

15, theyre the same age

[Midnitewarrior4]

On halloween I put my middle finger up in a photo with my mates, now two of them's parents think im a bad influence, Im scared to go round to my mates' house now and one of them isnt allowed to talk to me (even though he still does) what should I do?

wow ya umm how old are you ?

edit: ok 15 im the same, age, id say f*ck it and go over there, be polite, prove you note just some dickhead, everybody makes mistakes and at the time it doesnt seem like something bad but ends up stupid like this. 

[minibois]

Flip them the bird, lel.

/jk

 

Uhh.. I really don't know.

[Ghostay]

On halloween I put my middle finger up in a photo with my mates, now two of them's parents think im a bad influence, Im scared to go round to my mates' house now and one of them isnt allowed to talk to me (even though he still does) what should I do?

Tell them that instead of making obscene gestures, you were actually doing Japanese sign language for "Se"

[Nicholas15]

wow ya umm how old are you ?

They live in strict house holds

[Bsmith]

dependant on your age(10-15) I can see the parents concern.

but above a certain age(>16) of your mates it can be complicated.

[Kobathor]

Some parents are pussies, don't sweat it.

 

Though, be careful. Before you do something publicly, think "would (INSERT FRIEND HERE)'s parents approve? Would I show this to them without thinking about it?"

 

My parents don't appreciate anything obscene, so I don't flip people off around them. I definitely wouldn't do it in a picture.

 

Sounds like your friends are young, if their parents stopped letting them talk to you. Are you a bad influence?

[Nicholas15]

Some parents are pussies, don't sweat it.

 

Though, be careful. Before you do something publicly, think "would (INSERT FRIEND HERE)'s parents approve? Would I show this to them without thinking about it?"

 

My parents don't appreciate anything obscene, so I don't flip people off around them. I definitely wouldn't do it in a picture.

 

Sounds like your friends are young, if their parents stopped letting them talk to you. Are you a bad influence?

No, I act like a really good kid around my friends parents

[Nicholas15]

wow ya umm how old are you ?

edit: ok 15 im the same, age, id say f*ck it and go over there, be polite, prove you note just some dickhead, everybody makes mistakes and at the time it doesnt seem like something bad but ends up stupid like this. 

Good advice, thanks

[CydiaDash]

Some parents are pussies, don't sweat it.

 

Though, be careful. Before you do something publicly, think "would (INSERT FRIEND HERE)'s parents approve? Would I show this to them without thinking about it?"

 

My parents don't appreciate anything obscene, so I don't flip people off around them. I definitely wouldn't do it in a picture.

 

Sounds like your friends are young, if their parents stopped letting them talk to you. Are you a bad influence?

I agree with everything in that post. ^^^

[Kobathor]

No, I act like a really good kid around my friends parents

Well then, I guess they didn't like it when you turned completely different just because they were not around.

[Midnitewarrior4]

so i edited my post but ill write it again so you can see it, id go over to their house prove your a decent guy and not a dickhead, it will take time but should come out good again, i had something like this happen but it was something a little worse then flipping off the camera, and il leave it at that. it turned out ok  just again think about things, especially if it going on any type of social media you gotta be careful cause it can get around pretty quick

[Nicholas15]

The best thing you can do is apologize and explain yourself to the parents. It shows maturity.

 

That being said, I know 15 year olds that are pregnant, that black out on the weekends from alcohol, and that sell illegal drugs. You seem like a pretty good kid if this is the worst thing you've done

I guess, thanks

[AstroBenny]

Just go round. They won't kill you (probably)

Just do your best to be polite as that will be your only way to prove you aren't so bad after all.

[Midnitewarrior4]

The best thing you can do is apologize and explain yourself to the parents. It shows maturity.

 

That being said, I know 15 year olds that are pregnant, that black out on the weekends from alcohol, and that sell illegal drugs. You seem like a pretty good kid if this is the worst thing you've done

oh i know those kids to and thats why im jst telling him the same as you, go there apologize and act good, gain their trust back 

[Thebman712]

why would you stick up the middle finger in a picture your friends parents would see, and more importantly your parents could too.

 

respect is the key my friend, would you flip off a teacher at school (one that is not being a twat) or flip off your boss, no, then dont do it to anyone else then either.

[Made In Canada]

The best thing you can do is apologize and explain yourself to the parents. It shows maturity.

 

That being said, I know 15 year olds that are pregnant, that black out on the weekends from alcohol, and that sell illegal drugs. You seem like a pretty good kid if this is the worst thing you've done

Society these days...

 

That and peer pressure.

Edited November 1, 2015 by Made In Canada

[SamwiseDB]

Society these days...

 

That and peer pressure.

Old man: I remember a time when...

[Guest]

You can't choose you battles.

 

The best thing you can do is apologize and hope for the best.

[Darkman]

Some parents are pussies, don't sweat it.

 

Though, be careful. Before you do something publicly, think "would (INSERT FRIEND HERE)'s parents approve? Would I show this to them without thinking about it?"

 

My parents don't appreciate anything obscene, so I don't flip people off around them. I definitely wouldn't do it in a picture.

 

Sounds like your friends are young, if their parents stopped letting them talk to you. Are you a bad influence?

Or think, "would I do this with or to my grandparents?" If they're still alive, if not, think of with any family member.

[Godlygamer23]

Moved to Off Topic.

[Albatross]

Parental units.

 

 

 

Continue to hang out with your friends or respect your friends' parents' wishes? Or try to show them you aren't a bad influence?

 

Not much you can do, really.