Girl I like won't text me back.

[Mr.Meerkat]

1 hour ago, Energycore said:

It's actually fun once you get the gist of it

So being rejected 4 times? 

 

(to be fair, I have had yes-es 2 times so...its not all bad) 

[Energycore]

Just now, Mr.Meerkat said:

So being rejected 4 times? 

 

(to be fair, I have had yes-es 2 times so...its not all bad) 

If you get 4 nos and 2 yeses, that's the same as saying that you got 2 yeses

[Mr.Meerkat]

Just now, Energycore said:

If you get 4 nos and 2 yeses, that's the same as saying that you got 2 yeses

I know but its like 2 years since I got a yes and 1 year since a no...

Well 2 balls (or proms as some people call em) are coming up with the first one in a month~ before Christmas so I probably will need to up my game if I don't want to go alone  

[cluelessgenius]

4 minutes ago, Mr.Meerkat said:

I know but its like 2 years since I got a yes and 1 year since a no...

Well 2 balls (or proms as some people call em) are coming up with the first one in a month~ before Christmas so I probably will need to up my game if I don't want to go alone  

somehow i feel like you take each yes or no way too seriously. ive probably gotten about a hundred nos. sometimes immediatly. sometimes i fuck up over time. but i also had a couple of really good yeses i mean its a numbers game really. not saying girls ar just a number but if you spend to much time crying over one no you wont get anywhere.

[Energycore]

21 minutes ago, cluelessgenius said:

girls ar just a number

You jerk!

[cluelessgenius]

7 minutes ago, Energycore said:

You jerk!

 FAKE NEWS

[PCGuy_5960]

2 minutes ago, cluelessgenius said:

 FAKE NEWS

[Urishima]

1 hour ago, Energycore said:

What has this thread become

WHAT IT WAS ALWAYS MEANT TO BE!

[IKnight]

She just not that into you. 

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please tell me someone got the reference.... 

 

[Guest]

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CPU: Intel i5 6500 || GPU: EVGA GTX 1070 FTW Edition

Maybe she only likes i7, 1080 TI people...

 

On a more serious note, if you text her more than 2 or 3 times before she replies period, then you're probably just getting annoying to her. Don't text right away. Text like.... with days, or hours between. Mimic her lack of instant replies. It shows you're not clingy. 

 

And Be a man. Girls want decisive men. 

[BlueChinchillaEatingDorito]

30 minutes ago, ImadKnight said:

She just not that into you. 

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please tell me someone got the reference.... 

 

But it's not Friday.

 

Eh.... mine is just the quiet type and my friends who were in High school with her said the same. So I'm just used to starting all the conversations and dealing with the occasional no replies. We've went out for lunch before, and bought each other food during our vacations so I guess it's going well. 

[Guest]

Beta? Alpha? Red Pill bullshit? Friendzone? 

 

What is this, a neckbeard gathering place? That's not how humans and relationships work. Those terms don't apply to humans. (hell, alpha doesn't even apply to wolf packs)

[AshleyAshes]

1 hour ago, coolkingler1 said:

Beta? Alpha? Red Pill bullshit? Friendzone? 

 

What is this, a neckbeard gathering place? That's not how humans and relationships work. Those terms don't apply to humans. (hell, alpha doesn't even apply to wolf packs)

It basically runs this way every time someone posts a relationship issue in this forum.

 

'Women only want your money!'

'You gotta be more alpha!'

'This is why I don't date women and I've never been happier!'

 

And general childish bullshit.

 

I mean, honest to god, if you go out with someone and afterwards they didn't continue strong communication, then almost certainly they aren't that interested so just let it go.  Relationships require both parties to 'feel something', however you want to define it, if one individual doesn't feel that, well, that's just not happening.

[NumLock21]

8 hours ago, Urishima said:

Spoiler

 

Can't believe that picture or portrait is actually real

[RuffRuffmcgruff]

On 05/09/2017 at 3:10 PM, MadyTehWolfie said:

Not a shit post. Men and women have different likes when picking a mate. To not acknowledge this is stupid. Women know after seeing you if they'd ever want to sleep with you even potentially in the future. If they don't they'll never be interested in you. This goes for even older women. Knew this ancient women at my school who worked for student services over heard her wanting to do "things of a lewd nature" just from looking at a guy and liking how he looked. Don't blame me for pointing out the obvious in a thread that asks why she doesn't text him back. Also don't try to be a moderator moderators don't tend to like that.

Not trying to be a mod at all, and I'm not disputing the laws of nature and attraction. Just that your post didn't really seem helpful in anyway. I'm not OP so I don't their constitution whether it be weak or strong, posting something like that could have a knock on affect with some people. Again just saying. Have a good day.

[Guest]

38 minutes ago, RuffRuffmcgruff said:

Not trying to be a mod at all, and I'm not disputing the laws of nature and attraction. Just that your post didn't really seem helpful in anyway. I'm not OP so I don't their constitution whether it be weak or strong, posting something like that could have a knock on affect with some people. Again just saying. Have a good day.

It's mostly Red Pill bullshit anyway. (sad train of thought that goes negatively far beyond the normal advice of  'having confidence and take care of yourself', if you disagree with the propaganda they will insult you, don't bother, they have minimal understanding of the human mind, humans are complex and relationships more so)

[Guest]

17 hours ago, AshleyAshes said:

It basically runs this way every time someone posts a relationship issue in this forum.

 

'Women only want your money!'

'You gotta be more alpha!'

'This is why I don't date women and I've never been happier!'

 

And general childish bullshit.

 

I mean, honest to god, if you go out with someone and afterwards they didn't continue strong communication, then almost certainly they aren't that interested so just let it go.  Relationships require both parties to 'feel something', however you want to define it, if one individual doesn't feel that, well, that's just not happening.

Both the pity card and the beta/alpha card are pathetic beyond belief. It doesn't surprise me though, some become 'victims'  and some become severely bitter to the point of following a garbage train of thought that is full of negative behaviour. 

[MadyTehWolfie]

56 minutes ago, RuffRuffmcgruff said:

Not trying to be a mod at all, and I'm not disputing the laws of nature and attraction. Just that your post didn't really seem helpful in anyway. I'm not OP so I don't their constitution whether it be weak or strong, posting something like that could have a knock on affect with some people. Again just saying. Have a good day.

That doesn't constitute a shit post. It's not your job to protect people from life. He asked why I answered. Thus was directly responding to the OP's question making it useful even if he didn't like what was said. Stop trying to make sure this is a safe space for people's emotions coddling people will only lead to them being a giant pussy.

[MadyTehWolfie]

18 hours ago, AshleyAshes said:

It basically runs this way every time someone posts a relationship issue in this forum.

 

'Women only want your money!'

'You gotta be more alpha!'

'This is why I don't date women and I've never been happier!'

 

And general childish bullshit.

 

I mean, honest to god, if you go out with someone and afterwards they didn't continue strong communication, then almost certainly they aren't that interested so just let it go.  Relationships require both parties to 'feel something', however you want to define it, if one individual doesn't feel that, well, that's just not happening.

Meh, it's true though women prefer alphas which are usually tall, extroverted, and have decent bodies or great bodies. Men have other things that women have to deal with which is wanting someone shorter, who doesn't nag, who's not fat, and has a good personality. If any of these things aren't met to the degree the person wants it's not going to work. An yes, all women want money that's why you see perfect 10's will million and billionaire that are short fat and nasty looking. Can't get rid of our lizard cave man brains evolution made us to have certain wants and dislikes on both sides of the genders.

[cluelessgenius]

18 hours ago, AshleyAshes said:

It basically runs this way every time someone posts a relationship issue in this forum.

 

'Women only want your money!'

'You gotta be more alpha!'

'This is why I don't date women and I've never been happier!'

 

And general childish bullshit.

 

I mean, honest to god, if you go out with someone and afterwards they didn't continue strong communication, then almost certainly they aren't that interested so just let it go.  Relationships require both parties to 'feel something', however you want to define it, if one individual doesn't feel that, well, that's just not happening.

look who's a big grownup  

 

some of it maybe bullshit but i stand behind alpha / beta personalities and not even just about dating you can call it "born leader" or whatever but being outgoing and taking charge at times is really freaking important nobody wants to be a push-over that makes you look boring

[Guest]

19 minutes ago, cluelessgenius said:

look who's a big grownup  

 

some of it maybe bullshit but i stand behind alpha / beta personalities and not even just about dating you can call it "born leader" or whatever but being outgoing and taking charge at times is really freaking important nobody wants to be a push-over that makes you look boring

We're not saying not to have confidence. We're saying Alpha/beta/friendzone are made up concepts that don't apply in a scientific way to humans .  Minds and relationships aren't black and white like that.

 

They're made up words born out of a need to overcompensate or a lack of confidence.

 

When I see a guy talk about being 'alpha' or a guy complaining about friendzone I see a lack of understanding and confidence.

[AlTech]

On 9/5/2017 at 11:55 PM, TVwazhere said:

Next time you meet a girl grill

 

LMAO .

[AlTech]

16 minutes ago, MadyTehWolfie said:

Meh, it's true though women prefer alphas

I hate to be the buzz killer but Alpha Males don't exist.

 

Source: Adam Ruins Everything

 

And no I'm not fun at parties cos I don't go to most parties.

16 minutes ago, MadyTehWolfie said:

which are usually tall, extroverted, and have decent bodies or great bodies.

Yayyyy...... I completely failed at this except for being tall.

16 minutes ago, MadyTehWolfie said:

who's not fat,

K then.......

 

I see how it is....

 

I'm not "fat" but that's mostly because of my height. if I was any shorter then I'd definitely look fat.

16 minutes ago, MadyTehWolfie said:

and has a good personality.

Define good personality.....

16 minutes ago, MadyTehWolfie said:

have certain wants and dislikes on both sides of the genders.

Yeah.

[MadyTehWolfie]

Just now, AluminiumTech said:

I hate to be the buzz killer but Alpha Males don't exist.

 

Source: Adam Ruins Everything

 

And no I'm not fun at parties cos I don't go to most parties.

Yayyyy...... I completely failed at this except for being tall.

K then.......

 

I see how it is....

 

I'm not "fat" but that's mostly because of my height. if I was any shorter then I'd definitely look fat.

Define good personality.....

Yeah.

Not true. Alphas exist in animals and humans. Adam ruins everything is hardly a good source to debunk this. Case in point my father 6+ feet tall, ripped and had a good job pulling in 100k+ bucks and is a extrovert. My mom went to him he didn't need to ask anyone out. People who say alphas don't exist are most likely just jealous of alpha males. Indeed all you have to do is go on Grindr and see that even transgender women want masculine alpha males to betas. Unless you've ever thought like a girl before you'd never know. So I'll just laugh to myself while you believe there's no such thing as a alpha male.

[FuzzyYellow]

11 minutes ago, AluminiumTech said:

I hate to be the buzz killer but Alpha Males don't exist.

 

Source: Adam Ruins Everything

 

And no I'm not fun at parties cos I don't go to most parties.

Yayyyy...... I completely failed at this except for being tall.

K then.......

 

I see how it is....

 

I'm not "fat" but that's mostly because of my height. if I was any shorter then I'd definitely look fat.

Define good personality.....

Yeah.

because Adam Ruins Everything is a credible source...