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So my Mom and that of my friend think that we are wasting all of out money on these computers. Whether it be software, hardware, games or modding tools every time i buy something or ask her if i can buy something i always get and heres an example "Well don't you already have a.. whatever you said, graphics card". My response was "Yes... but it doesnt play all of the games at the resolution i want". I usually get a well the one you have works fine or something like that. The same thing happened when i asked if we could buy a new computer for the "Computer Room", it was "well the one we have works fine", uh no, it has 1GB of RAM, a 250GB HDD and a freaking Pentium that sounds like a leaf blower.

 

Kinda got off topic in there but basically my mom discourages me from buying computer stuff. Do you think this is in her right? I plan to go into a CAREER with computers involved so i see it as i learn something new almost every other day.

 

Did or does your mom/dad/guardian do the same thing?

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maybe your mums just being smart with money...

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I think she just doesn't like how much the stuff costs

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Mom's house, mom's rules.

 

If you're spending her money, you have no say. If it's your money, however, I think you should spend it on whatever you want.

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This is exactly the case I have with my dad. His money, his rules. My money, STILL his rules. WTF, man?

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If you want to pursue  a Carree in PC's then she should be happy that you know what you want to do. It's the standard scenario of someone not understanding a hobby because it's not their hobby. I would just ignore her and do what you want to do.

 

 

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pretty sure you are using solvent in the wrong way..

More like solute.

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this is probably the only place i'll hang out anymore: http://linustechtips.com/main/topic/274320-the-long-awaited-car-thread/

 

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Either it's her money and she is being smart with it or it's your money but she is trying not to let you waste it.

 

Quit complaining, there are people with much worse hardware *cough* Lanoi *cough*

 

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If you want to pursue  a Carree in PC's then she should be happy that you know what you want to do. It's the standard scenario of someone not understanding a hobby because it's not their hobby. I would just ignore her and do what you want to do.

 

 

@Whiskers

Again, you ruined the quote. BTW, why are you even doing this?

"If it has tits or tires, at some point you will have problems with it." -@vinyldash303

this is probably the only place i'll hang out anymore: http://linustechtips.com/main/topic/274320-the-long-awaited-car-thread/

 

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yeah my mom is the same way, although i am 13 and shes pretty protective 

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pretty sure you are using solvent in the wrong way..

Not at all.

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My mom doesn't tell me anything about all the money I spend on computer hardware since I work for my money so I am allowed to spend it on whatever I want as long as I still have enough to pay bills.

 

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Again, you ruined the quote. BTW, why are you even doing this?

As I said on the other thread where you mentioned the same thing you misunderstand what I'm doing. @Whiskers and I are having a disagreement of sorts.

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As I said on the other thread where you mentioned the same thing you misunderstand what I'm doing. @Whiskers and I are having a disagreement of sorts.

Interesting, no wonder I see you tagging @Whiskers in every post!

Someone told Luke and Linus at CES 2017 to "Unban the legend known as Jerakl" and that's about all I've got going for me. (It didn't work)

 

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my parents don't like that I spend so much but they let me spend my money within reason. If I just bought a $600 gpu they wont let me buy another one for at least a year. That is why i have a 780 ti and not 780 cause they said they wouldn't let me buy two gpus. 

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Even though I have the money, My mom discourages me from doing this as well.  If I buy something online and it gets delivered, then I'm grounded for sure.  Try not to let it get to you, just offer to help friends build PC's and when your mom sees that you really are into it then she'll reconsider.  Either way I feel you man, I build gaming rigs for my friends that I wish I could take home with me.  For now I continue to watch LTT and read about hardware.  In the end just save up money for it.  Budget is all I can say, make sure you don't spend that set aside money on ANYTHING. Again sorry for your dilemma try to talk to your mom and sit her down and have an honest discussion with her.

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Hey, @AMD Lover, what about your dad?

"If it has tits or tires, at some point you will have problems with it." -@vinyldash303

this is probably the only place i'll hang out anymore: http://linustechtips.com/main/topic/274320-the-long-awaited-car-thread/

 

Current Rig: Intel Core 2 Quad Q6600, Abit IN9-32MAX nForce 680i board, Galaxy GT610 1GB DDR3 gpu, Cooler Master Mystique 632S Full ATX case, 1 2TB Seagate Barracuda SATA and 1x200gb Maxtor SATA drives, 1 LG SATA DVD drive, Windows 10. All currently runs like shit :D 

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Hey, @AMD Lover, what about your dad?

He really has no opinion. I asked him about the GPU and he was like "Hey if you think you think you should buy it go ahead"

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My mum doesn't really care as long as it's my money. 
She thinks that I waste them and spend way too much, but since it's my money, she lets me do it.

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He really has no opinion. I asked him about the GPU and he was like "Hey if you think you think you should buy it go ahead"

Damn lucky! I can't even buy a 550Ti, only low cards like a GT520.

"If it has tits or tires, at some point you will have problems with it." -@vinyldash303

this is probably the only place i'll hang out anymore: http://linustechtips.com/main/topic/274320-the-long-awaited-car-thread/

 

Current Rig: Intel Core 2 Quad Q6600, Abit IN9-32MAX nForce 680i board, Galaxy GT610 1GB DDR3 gpu, Cooler Master Mystique 632S Full ATX case, 1 2TB Seagate Barracuda SATA and 1x200gb Maxtor SATA drives, 1 LG SATA DVD drive, Windows 10. All currently runs like shit :D 

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I showed the average salary of computer engineers (what I want to become) and that shut them up lol

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So my Mom and that of my friend think that we are wasting all of out money on these computers. Whether it be software, hardware, games or modding tools every time i buy something or ask her if i can buy something i always get and heres an example "Well don't you already have a.. whatever you said, graphics card". My response was "Yes... but it doesnt play all of the games at the resolution i want". I usually get a well the one you have works fine or something like that. The same thing happened when i asked if we could buy a new computer for the "Computer Room", it was "well the one we have works fine", uh no, it has 1GB of RAM, a 250GB HDD and a freaking Pentium that sounds like a leaf blower.

 

Kinda got off topic in there but basically my mom discourages me from buying computer stuff. Do you think this is in her right? I plan to go into a CAREER with computers involved so i see it as i learn something new almost every other day.

 

Did or does your mom/dad/guardian do the same thing?

No, it's not in her right to do that. My mom is the exact same way. I always tell her that my computer is not fast enough to play the games I want but she thinks it's fine. She doesn't understand the technical part of it, only the money part, if that makes any sense.

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