Does she like me?

[1funnygame]

i think your asking on the wrong forum............

[SpaceSquid]

it was a trap and you fell for it, they probably played you like they play their candy crushes

[JohnnyGrey]

I think he was making a joke that not a lot of people here are likely going to know a lot about girls.

 

Thanks for throwing us into the stereotype of nerds/techies. I agree that some don't, but saying "few would" is a tad insulting.

 

And I don't think the OP asking her if she'd gotten his texts classifies as "desperation," but it does hint at being "needy." She doesn't answer after the first two texts, just back off and let her come to you. Dating in high-school sucks ass, and as others have mentioned, the social standing and peer pressure is prevalent times ten. Glad most women leave that shit behind when they leave high school. (Some chicks cling to that shit like it's a family heirloom)

[Camul]

Thanks for throwing us into the stereotype of nerds/techies. I agree that some don't, but saying "few would" is a tad insulting.

Don't shoot the messenger. I was just translating what he said to make it less subtle. Unless I totally misunderstood his point.

[Art Vandelay]

it was a trap and you fell for it, they probably played you like they play their candy crushes

Why is being a trap a dealbreaker?

[elecxonica]

Fedora master race.

It's actually a trilby....

[SpaceSquid]

Why is being a trap a dealbreaker?

Not that, I meant trap as in prank

[gastew15]

I know how to seal the deal no matter how she feels right now.. Always works for me man

 

[XTankSlayerX]

I feel like this picture is relevant...

 

 

On a serious note, she's probably busy...

[JamGorby]

She obviously wants to do things that are against the CoC.

Isn't there a K missing?

[MrRavens]

Best way to stay out of the friend zone is to not be a friend. I don't mean to not be friendly. I meant don't allow her to put you in the position of being treated like another one of her "girlfriends". 

Sure, babe, you can call me. No, I don't give a shit what color nail polish you bought at the mall. I don't care what Rachelle said about Sarah. I'm not here for that. I'm here for fun. Let's not talk about how bad your day was. What color panties are you wearing? 

My point is make interest known, make it known early, and take control of what you want the relationship to be. 

I freaking love this guy haha! I spat my mountain dew at my laptop screen god damn!   

[Sintezza]

Well i would say just be patient, i know its hard somethimes, but we as girls can be a bit complicated.

 

I would just advice not to push anything, and don´t push to much messages. She probably allready knows that you like her, we as girls have a sort of 6th sence for it.

But shes probably busy, or have some other things on mind... Offcourse every girl is diffrent, and some are chill some are realy complicated.

 

The only thing what i would recommend, is to speak to her at school, i know speaking over text message, is alot easier. But just ask her if she still want to see the movies.

 

There is no need to be desperate at all.

[TheProfosist]

Ask her?

[dizmo]

Unless you threaten her when you asked her out then she wouldn't say yes if she didn't like you

Girls say yes when they don't like someone all the time. Maybe she just wanted to see the movie? Maybe she felt uncomfortable saying no because she didn't want to hurt his feelings.

It happens.

 

the only person here who have been in contact with the opposite  sex is Linus and slick

everybody else is a god damn liar !!!

Haha, speak for yourself my friend.

 

Here's some advice from a man (and I don't say "man" for the macho insinuations of the word but more pertaining to age and experience). Most girls under the age of 25 are impressionable drones and followers. Her friend's approval of you matters more to her than her "feelings" (if any) about you.

Good luck. 

Everything he said here is true. Well put.

 

Girls don't have straight "guy" friends it always gets complicated between the bf and gf or the friend gets feelings then gets shut down by the girl coz he's in the friend zone then u stop talking that way.

Haha, that's so not true it's not even funny.

 

They're usually not that interesting to talk to, if I'm honest. If that makes me sexist then guilty as charged. The only females that have anything interesting to say are usually the ugly ones. I can be friends with ugly girls who are smart or funny though because I don't want to bone them. The pretty ones are good to look at for a while but the relationship winds up being long tolerances of boring conversations about superficial bologna in between "relations". 

I disagree here, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I've met lots of gorgeous, extremely interesting girls over the years.

Perhaps you just need to expand your circle to catch the good ones.

 

@OP

I guess it's just best to move on. If she's read your messages and not replied it's a no go. There's tons of girls out there.

[GeekySole9354]

Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate eachother. - Jay Pritchett

[JAKEBAB]

 

Haha, that's so not true it's not even funny.

 

lol yea im sure u know...

[dizmo]

@JAKEBAB

I have a lot of female friends with boyfriends. Some of which I've slept with, and some I haven't. It's really not really an issue.

It might be for others, but everyone's different. I find most are fine with it.

[vaerk]

 Same on thursday, I sent her a message on facebook asking if she had seen my texts.

 

ya blew it

[JAKEBAB]

@JAKEBAB

I have a lot of female friends with boyfriends. Some of which I've slept with, and some I haven't. It's really not really an issue.

It might be for others, but everyone's different. I find most are fine with it.

lol the guys are ok with the girls hanging out with guys they have slept with? wtf!! i would not be ok with that nor do i think any of the people i know would be but i guess everyone is different.

[dizmo]

lol the guys are ok with the girls hanging out with guys they have slept with? wtf!! i would not be ok with that nor do i think any of the people i know would be but i guess everyone is different.

To be fair I don't think a few of them know. The rest stick with the "he's my good friend, I don't ditch friends for flings" mentality. Which, really, is the way it should be. If it evolves into something more than the guy should be comfortable and confident enough in the relationship to not let it bother him. Life happens. Most people have slept with other people.

[Sintezza]

Some reactions are realy funny.

 

Grtz a Girl

[JAKEBAB]

To be fair I don't think a few of them know. The rest stick with the "he's my good friend, I don't ditch friends for flings" mentality. Which, really, is the way it should be. If it evolves into something more than the guy should be comfortable and confident enough in the relationship to not let it bother him. Life happens. Most people have slept with other people.

If u came to australia u would realize how every guy just wants a root so its really rare to see a guy who just wants to be friends they always have the fake them where there all like we are just friends etc but thats not there real intentions hence why i just say no to guy friends cbf unless there gay then i dont really care.

 

P.S 2 of my mates gfs there so called "guy friends" nearly raped them.

[dizmo]

If u came to australia u would realize how every guy just wants a root so its really rare to see a guy who just wants to be friends they always have the fake them where there all like we are just friends etc but thats not there real intentions hence why i just say no to guy friends cbf unless there gay then i dont really care.

 

P.S 2 of my mates gfs there so called "guy friends" nearly raped them.

Weird. And very unfortunate with the last bit. I guess that speaks to the kinds of people your friends gf's hang out with though.

Or maybe just what happens on an island full of criminal descendants

I kid. But really. Most of my friends aren't like that. We all have friends that are girls with no intentions of having sex with them. The ones I haven't slept with are more like sisters than anything else.

[JAKEBAB]

Weird. And very unfortunate with the last bit. I guess that speaks to the kinds of people your friends gf's hang out with though.

Or maybe just what happens on an island full of criminal descendants

I kid. But really. Most of my friends aren't like that. We all have friends that are girls with no intentions of having sex with them. The ones I haven't slept with are more like sisters than anything else.

yea well i did come from a pretty rough part so i guess that has something to do with but it is really hard to find a descent place here its probably because they were criminals lol

[dizmo]

yea well i did come from a pretty rough part so i guess that has something to do with but it is really hard to find a descent place here its probably because they were criminals lol

I don't live in the best area either, someone was killed on the next block a couple nights ago.

However, there is a micro brewery that sells 2L of beer for $12.50.

It's worth it.