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Hello so I have just moved forms and it happens that the girl I have fancyed for 3 years is in that form I have know her all my life and we are really close friends I don't know whether to ask her out. We are really close friends and if she said no I would probably be alone and have no friends but I don't know what to do ah please help

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What's going to be worse:

Dealing with a slightly awkward period for a little bit if she says "no"?

or

Spending the rest of your life wondering "what if"?

I would say go for it, but that's just me speaking from my experience of regrets.

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not worth it... if shes as good a friend as you say she is you dont want to screw it up 

 

you can easily go find another girl but its hard to replace a life long friend 

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Hello so I have just moved forms and it happens that the girl I have fancyed for 3 years is in that form I have know her all my life and we are really close friends I don't know whether to ask her out. We are really close friends and if she said no I would probably be alone and have no friends but I don't know what to do ah please help

Ask her out before its too late. Trust me, happened to my friend, he was devastated. 

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If you haven't dated, you never will. You're too far in the friend zone. 

 

But you could bring it up casually just be like 'I don't want you to take this wrong way, or to ruin our friendship, but I have been having feelings for you. I want to know if you're interested in me.'

 

Most girls will respond well to the honesty. 

 

If you want to take a bigger risk, but with better pay off, just get progressively flirtier, like start off slow one day, compliments and stuff, and move up to calling her sexy and stuff. 

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Grow a set and ask her out. Confidence! Thats my advice!

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Just take all of the advice from the people here. When I like someone I just flirt with them for a long time and see what happens from there. 

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Holy crap, if you're freaking good friends with her, dude, just ask her... Don't be all suave or romantic or anything, just start out by asking her if she'd like to go somewhere for dinner or something along those lines. If she likes you at all then she's not gonna turn you down flat because she thinks you're a loser, is she? Just ask her like you would ask one of your dude friends if he wanted to go hang out someplace.

Girls ain't a different species dude, especially one's you're good friends with. She won't bite.

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I am in the same situation as you i feel you bro

 

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not worth it... if shes as good a friend as you say she is you dont want to screw it up 

 

you can easily go find another girl but its hard to replace a life long friend

We are good friends but I don't think we will be life long friends as we will probably never see each other after I leave school

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Holy crap, if you're freaking good friends with her, dude, just ask her... Don't be all suave or romantic or anything, just start out by asking her if she'd like to go somewhere for dinner or something along those lines. If she likes you at all then she's not gonna turn you down flat because she thinks you're a loser, is she? Just ask her like you would ask one of your dude friends if he wanted to go hang out someplace.

Girls ain't a different species dude, especially one's you're good friends with. She won't bite.

Ok thanks but she did accidentally bite me once

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so um....are you 13? because thats not how that shit works

just ask

He's saying she's his only friend.

If he asks her and it goes badly he has no friends

Use some common sense dude

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Weird I actually just went after the guys I wanted in the past or things just clicked randomly. Weird only been with one guy I didn't go after myself. Though I never been one for waiting. GL just ask her!

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He's saying she's his only friend.

If he asks her and it goes badly he has no friends

Use some common sense dude

Honestly if I had a guy friend who asked me out, I would not end a friendship over that. Thats something someone whos not worth your time would do. Since hes the one interested and she says no, she shouldnt have any reason to end a perfectly good friendship.

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We are good friends but I don't think we will be life long friends as we will probably never see each other after I leave school

well then shit... yolo go for it 

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Do it :D

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A co-worker of mine told me this. She could either make one of your days bad, or your whole life amazing. 

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Honestly if I had a guy friend who asked me out, I would not end a friendship over that. Thats something someone whos not worth your time would do. Since hes the one interested and she says no, she shouldnt have any reason to end a perfectly good friendship.

Yea, not all things would end like that

That's why I added in the "if it goes badly" part.

He said he's in school, so he's just a kid who doesn't know how a girl will react.

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Hello so I have just moved forms and it happens that the girl I have fancyed for 3 years is in that form I have know her all my life and we are really close friends I don't know whether to ask her out. We are really close friends and if she said no I would probably be alone and have no friends but I don't know what to do ah please help

"Hey would you like to go out on a date"

 

and then wait for her reply.

 

If you fail then it'll hurt for a bit but it'll be fine.

 

You are pretty damn deep in the friendzone though so I wouldn't plan on success.  I escaped the friendzone but I was only in it for 3 months.

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If she says no then so be it, friendship lasts more that boyfriends/girlfriends anyway.

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