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I've had this crush on a girl in my school, but I haven't made a move. I'm not looking for encouragement for me to do anything about it, because nothing anyone has said to me has made me make a move.

 

Pretty much, she's pretty popular, she plays sports, etc. I'm am/do none of those things. Whenever she talks to the sporty guys, I always get jealous and she laughs and smiles and whatnot. I can't talk to her, much less make her smile (although I did once, but that's not important for this). I get super jealous of this and and it makes me think, if I made a move what would she think of me getting jealous?

 

I need advice to stop being jealous because I feel like it would make me a bad boyfriend. Help is appreciated, thanks.

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Welcome to life.  Now calm down and do some meditation.

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"I need advice to stop being jealous because I feel like it would make me a bad boyfriend. Help is appreciated, thanks."

1st - you are not her boyfriend
2nd - you are acting like a stalker
3rd - you are just going to have to accept this and move on

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Plenty of fish in the sea. Forget about her and you will eventually realize how silly it was to lust over this one particular girl.

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Stop creeping. Trust me you will have like 50 crushes after her anyway.

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"I need advice to stop being jealous because I feel like it would make me a bad boyfriend. Help is appreciated, thanks."

1st - you are not her boyfriend

2nd - you are acting like a stalker

3rd - you are just going to have to accept this and move on

I said would, not I am.

No I'm not, bro I have the same classes as her.

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Stop creeping. Trust me you will have like 50 crushes after her anyway.

Ik but she's my first and I'm  probably blowing out of proportion but I don't know what to do.

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I mean... You're being a creep lol

 

She's not with you, you don't have the right to be jealous. Man up or move on. 

 

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Sounds like you need more experience being more than 6 feet from a girl first.

 

How can you even get jealous of something that's not yours? Sure I'm jealous of who ever invented Google, but I don't get pissed every time there's a new nexus phone.

 

Girls hate jealous guys. All girls want a guy who could give a **** about them honestly. The girls who always liked me the most were the ones I liked the least.

 

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I mean... You're being a creep lol

 

She's not with you, you don't have the right to be jealous. Man up or move on. 

I don't get how it's creepy I don't do anything I just overhear the only conversation in the room, not that hard. I keep my thoughts to myself all the time.

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STEAL THE GIRL

 

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Sounds like you're a creep. Do you slime your way around the hallways bringing in glasses to evesdrop on her conversations through the wall?

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I said would, not I am.

No I'm not, bro I have the same classes as her.

No you won't be her boyfriend, i can 100% guarantee that and yes, you are acting very creepy - you might end up with a restriction on how close you can go to her if you take this any further.

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Everyone has crushes. The fact your crush makes you jealous is basically a warning.

You are 14. You have a lot of time to find a girlfriend. Heck, you could find one in your 20s.

Focus on stuff that will actually affect your future.

 

Maybe use this as motivation. I had a crush on a girl I sometimes saw on the bus to school. The fact I didn't have enough confidence motivated me to excercise which made me healthier.

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Ik but she's my first and I'm  probably blowing out of proportion but I don't know what to do.

She's your first because you are in puberty. Read up on what happens to your brain during puberty. You are basically on more drugs than you will ever be in your life. ( without taking some yourself)

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Sounds like you need more experience being more than 6 feet from a girl first.

 

How can you even get jealous of something that's not yours? Sure I'm jealous of who ever invented Google, but I don't get pissed every time there's a new nexus phone.

 

Girls hate jealous guys. All girls want a guy who could give a **** about them honestly. The girls who always liked me the most were the ones I liked the least.

 

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Ik they do, that's my I'm asking.

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Opposites Attract.

 

Ask her, and if she says no, than you tried.

find some one who is quiet, not many people know, and who really just wants a friend.

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Everyone has crushes. The fact your crush makes you jealous is basically a warning. You are 14.

You have a lot of time to fins a girlfriend. Heck, you could find one in your 20s.

Focus on stuff that will actually affect your future.

I am 14, but I didn't mention that in this thread...

 

And I know that I'll have other girlfriends and there's more life in front of me, but you've in in middle school/high school. People blow crushes way out of proportion at my age.

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I am 14, but I didn't mention that in this thread...

 

And I know that I'll have other girlfriends and there's more life in front of me, but you've in in middle school/high school. People blow crushes way out of proportion at my age.

If you know that then why are you fretting over this so much, just move on. You have mo reason to be jealous if you haven't even spoken to her or made a move of any kind.

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I've had this crush on a girl in my school, but I haven't made a move. I'm not looking for encouragement for me to do anything about it, because nothing anyone has said to me has made me make a move.

 

Pretty much, she's pretty popular, she plays sports, etc. I'm am/do none of those things. Whenever she talks to the sporty guys, I always get jealous and she laughs and smiles and whatnot. I can't talk to her, much less make her smile (although I did once, but that's not important for this). I get super jealous of this and and it makes me think, if I made a move what would she think of me getting jealous?

 

I need advice to stop being jealous because I feel like it would make me a bad boyfriend. Help is appreciated, thanks.

 

 

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"I need advice to stop being jealous because I feel like it would make me a bad boyfriend. Help is appreciated, thanks."

1st - you are not her boyfriend

2nd - you are acting like a stalker

3rd - you are just going to have to accept this and move on

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