Love.

[Sularin]

Okay. is it just me or the more i try and help and care for women the more they stab me in the back. yet i am good friends for this gay guy and he treats me like his fucking brother and tells me everything. why is it that women cant accept that i'm not an ass seaking fuck boy, yet they treat them like gods, but an ACTUAL man like me comes along threats her like a GODDAMN princess and cheats on me with a fuck boy even tho she TOLD ME HERSELF that she hates them and they have been nothing but heartbreak to her. 

 

 

i fucking hate women i swear. 

[dalekphalm]

28 minutes ago, Sularin said:

Okay. is it just me or the more i try and help and care for women the more they stab me in the back. yet i am good friends for this gay guy and he treats me like his fucking brother and tells me everything. why is it that women cant accept that i'm not an ass seaking fuck boy, yet they treat them like gods, but an ACTUAL man like me comes along threats her like a GODDAMN princess and cheats on me with a fuck boy even tho she TOLD ME HERSELF that she hates them and they have been nothing but heartbreak to her. 

 

 

i fucking hate women i swear. 

I can't speak to your specific situation, but lots of girls ultimately don't want to be treated "like a princess". Others may think they do, but discover they don't. These girls just want to be treated like an equal who doesn't have to be dandied around or placed on a pedestal.

 

Sounds to me like your ex lady friend there was just a terrible person.

[Sularin]

57 minutes ago, dalekphalm said:

I can't speak to your specific situation, but lots of girls ultimately don't want to be treated "like a princess". Others may think they do, but discover they don't. These girls just want to be treated like an equal who doesn't have to be dandied around or placed on a pedestal.

 

Sounds to me like your ex lady friend there was just a terrible person.

I used the analogy "like a princess" because i treated her well and anything she wanted i provided for her. and she took advantage of me

[dalekphalm]

45 minutes ago, Sularin said:

I used the analogy "like a princess" because i treated her well and anything she wanted i provided for her. and she took advantage of me

My final statement in my previous post applies then. She was just a terrible person.

[Mooshi]

Time for a harsh reality check. The "good guy"  type come off as hella ranty and that's a super turn off. I've been there and cringe so hard thinking back on it. Fast forward to present day and I'm heading on 5 years with my girl. 

 

Some girls are cunts, but the "nice guy" type isn't really a nice guy  if that makes sense. 

[Mug]

Breathe

 

Some people are arseholes

 

/thread

[LAwLz]

Judging by your post, you're not a nice guy. You sound like the type of guy who acts very beta and submissive to a girl, then when she doesn't love you back you starts ranting, resent her and calls her a bitch behind her back. You know, the type of thinks they are nice guys and wonder why nobody gets together with them, except women see through that facade as if it was made out of the thinnest sheet of glass ever.

You know, guys like Elliot Rodger who ran into a school in California, killed 6 people and injured 14, all because no girl wanted to go out with him.

A real nice guy wouldn't say "I fucking hate women I swear".

 

You say that she cheated on you, but were you actually in a relationship to begin with?

You even bring up that you treat them like Gods and then get mad when they don't give you anything back, but that just means you aren't treating them like Gods because you want to. You are only being nice to them for selfish reasons, expecting things in return.

[Misanthrope]

Jeff Walker said it better:

 

[Mug]

1 minute ago, Migo said:

Do you have a life at all? I see your posts literally everywhere. I bet if LinusTexTipses closed down, your life would not continue.

• I'm a student
• I'm an efficent poster
• I'm a great procrastinator

[Guest Kloaked]

1 minute ago, Migo said:

Do you have a life at all?

Says the guy who at random called me a hillbilly Trump supporter.

[BuckGup]

Like I have said before a Titan XP doesn't cheat on you, always is there for you, costs much less, and will provide you with happiness every single time.

[Mooshi]

4 hours ago, LAwLz said:

Judging by your post, you're not a nice guy. You sound like the type of guy who acts very beta and submissive to a girl, then when she doesn't love you back you starts ranting, resent her and calls her a bitch behind her back. You know, the type of thinks they are nice guys and wonder why nobody gets together with them, except women see through that facade as if it was made out of the thinnest sheet of glass ever.

You know, guys like Elliot Rodger who ran into a school in California, killed 6 people and injured 14, all because no girl wanted to go out with him.

A real nice guy wouldn't say "I fucking hate women I swear".

 

You say that she cheated on you, but were you actually in a relationship to begin with?

You even bring up that you treat them like Gods and then get mad when they don't give you anything back, but that just means you aren't treating them like Gods because you want to. You are only being nice to them for selfish reasons, expecting things in return.

Yeah, basically a more in depth version of what I was thinking. The whole "nice guy"  act is basically a woe is me rage rant that says a lot about a person. Women don't want a guy who beats them, they want confidence. Don't ever get the two mixed up. 

 

The last bit especially.  Was there myself in a bad relationship and learned a lot from it. 

[handymanshandle]

38 minutes ago, Migo said:

Do you have a life at all? I see your posts literally everywhere. I bet if LinusTexTipses closed down, your life would not continue.

m7, I've been on this site longer than @Mug and I have a little over double his posts. There are users who've posted a lot more than I and have been on here far less time than I. 

 

So like w/e, but that's irrelevant.

 

 

@topic

I agree most with @LAwLz's post.

I'm gay so like I don't know completely how to comment to your specific issue, I guess continuing what LAwLz said, perhaps you need to change your tone, don't be a dick but don't like expect reciprocation every-time you do something nice?

[Sularin]

5 hours ago, LAwLz said:

Judging by your post, you're not a nice guy. You sound like the type of guy who acts very beta and submissive to a girl, then when she doesn't love you back you starts ranting, resent her and calls her a bitch behind her back. You know, the type of thinks they are nice guys and wonder why nobody gets together with them, except women see through that facade as if it was made out of the thinnest sheet of glass ever.

You know, guys like Elliot Rodger who ran into a school in California, killed 6 people and injured 14, all because no girl wanted to go out with him.

A real nice guy wouldn't say "I fucking hate women I swear".

 

You say that she cheated on you, but were you actually in a relationship to begin with?

You even bring up that you treat them like Gods and then get mad when they don't give you anything back, but that just means you aren't treating them like Gods because you want to. You are only being nice to them for selfish reasons, expecting things in return.

i love how me being depressed because i was getting cheated on all through my 2 year relationship bothered you so god damn much that you had to speraticly type at your keyboard to tell me im a shitty person, while your weeb ass comments on fucking dank meme pages.  

[Ringthane]

1 hour ago, Mooshi said:

Yeah, basically a more in depth version of what I was thinking. The whole "nice guy"  act is basically a woe is me rage rant that says a lot about a person. Women don't want a guy who beats them, they want confidence. Don't ever get the two mixed up. 

 

The last bit especially.  Was there myself in a bad relationship and learned a lot from it. 

Woah, hold up there.  Who said anything about this guy beating women?  He's frustrated, sure, but there's a long way to go from "I hate this" to "I go around bashing people in the mouth".

 

You've never said "I hate (such-and-such)"?  Ever?  Nobody's ever made you angry enough to say that?  Did you mean it?  No, of course not.  And I'll bet this guy didn't either.  And who does good things for people and doesn't expect something in return?  Even if it's just a thank you?  (Note: that's completely different than someone doing nice things and hoping it gets them what they want.  I simply mean that I do nice things for people, and hope that one day, they may be able to do something nice for me.)

 

Sounds like there's some projecting going on here.

[Sularin]

24 minutes ago, Ringthane said:

Woah, hold up there.  Who said anything about this guy beating women?  He's frustrated, sure, but there's a long way to go from "I hate this" to "I go around bashing people in the mouth".

 

You've never said "I hate (such-and-such)"?  Ever?  Nobody's ever made you angry enough to say that?  Did you mean it?  No, of course not.  And I'll bet this guy didn't either.  And who does good things for people and doesn't expect something in return?  Even if it's just a thank you?  (Note: that's completely different than someone doing nice things and hoping it gets them what they want.  I simply mean that I do nice things for people, and hope that one day, they may be able to do something nice for me.)

 

Sounds like there's some projecting going on here.

Thank. you. like seriously i cant be mad that 2 years of my life was nothing but lies to a girl i gave my heart to, without someone TELLING me who i am and what I did wrong. like @Sam Strecker said " a titan xp wont cheat on you and costs less too" 

[Mooshi]

1 hour ago, Ringthane said:

Woah, hold up there.  Who said anything about this guy beating women?  He's frustrated, sure, but there's a long way to go from "I hate this" to "I go around bashing people in the mouth".

 

You've never said "I hate (such-and-such)"?  Ever?  Nobody's ever made you angry enough to say that?  Did you mean it?  No, of course not.  And I'll bet this guy didn't either.  And who does good things for people and doesn't expect something in return?  Even if it's just a thank you?  (Note: that's completely different than someone doing nice things and hoping it gets them what they want.  I simply mean that I do nice things for people, and hope that one day, they may be able to do something nice for me.)

 

Sounds like there's some projecting going on here.

It's less against OP and more against the "nice guy"  stereotype. Projecting projections isn't good. The thing is, the whole treating her like a princess, but she falls for assholes falls under that and I've been there in an old relationship so it wasn't a good time. 

 

Life lessons aren't always about sugarcoating, sometimes you need to hear things you don't want to hear. The girl in general could have been awful, but the OP isn't  exactly going to win one over either with that attitude. 

[Mooshi]

1 hour ago, Sularin said:

Thank. you. like seriously i cant be mad that 2 years of my life was nothing but lies to a girl i gave my heart to, without someone TELLING me who i am and what I did wrong. like @Sam Strecker said " a titan xp wont cheat on you and costs less too" 

Ha, that's around the same length of time as that awful relationship, maybe it was 3..been forever. I was there too, same betrayal, same fuck women blah blah and it sucked at the time, but it's not healthy. 

 

I'm not saying these things to rub things in, I say these because I don't want another person making the same dumb mistakes I did. Best advice is do some self evaluation and really think about what happened. You'll be surprise what you find out when you're not blaming her. 

 

Trust me, I know how much it sucks and how much time invested adds the extra sting. Look on the bright side,  you can find someone that will last and potentially got out of a future mess. 

[Ringthane]

31 minutes ago, Mooshi said:

It's less against OP and more against the "nice guy"  stereotype. Projecting projections isn't good. The thing is, the whole treating her like a princess, but she falls for assholes falls under that and I've been there in an old relationship so it wasn't a good time. 

 

Life lessons aren't always about sugarcoating, sometimes you need to hear things you don't want to hear. The girl in general could have been awful, but the OP isn't  exactly going to win one over either with that attitude. 

That's still a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong way from saying someone is abusive to women (or anyone for that matter), don't you think?  I'm sorry that you were in such a bad relationship, but not all men are like that guy.  You may not want to hear that life lesson, but it is true.  You have no idea what the OP is like in real life - you're basing your entire perception of him off one post that was probably made in frustration.  And to be honest, you're not coming over too well yourself with your attitude, sunshine.

 

And if you don't want a jerk, and you don't want a nice guy, what in the world do you want?   You say "respect us, honor us, trust us", and when we do, you turn around and run for the hills or say things like what you say here.  Is it any wonder no one can seem to keep a relationship together any more?  

[Bleedingyamato]

 

2 hours ago, Mooshi said:

Yeah, basically a more in depth version of what I was thinking. The whole "nice guy"  act is basically a woe is me rage rant that says a lot about a person. Women don't want a guy who beats them, they want confidence. Don't ever get the two mixed up. 

 

The last bit especially.  Was there myself in a bad relationship and learned a lot from it. 

Isn't it possible to for someone, guy or girl, to legit be nice in that sense without it being an act?

 

Sure it can be an act but not everyone is fake nice.  Some are actually nice I'd think.

 

 

Any advice about to do that confidence thing?    I get the impression I'm not good at that...

 

 

 

1 hour ago, Sularin said:

i love how me being depressed because i was getting cheated on all through my 2 year relationship bothered you so god damn much that you had to speraticly type at your keyboard to tell me im a shitty person, while your weeb ass comments on fucking dank meme pages.  

I suggest you bite your tongue if you're going to use profanity and name calling to attack what LAwLz said instead of focusing solely on the comments he made.  

 

You're free to disagree with what is said to you but you cross a line when you attack the person instead of their comments/points being made.  

[LAwLz]

2 hours ago, Sularin said:

i love how me being depressed because i was getting cheated on all through my 2 year relationship bothered you so god damn much that you had to speraticly type at your keyboard to tell me im a shitty person

Dude, I am sorry you got cheated on. Like I said in my post, I was judging you based on this post alone.

On the bright side, if the girl you were in a relationship was a cheating cunt then it's good that you broke up. It might hurt now, but in the long run it's better for you. But don't go around and hate on all women just because one happened to be a bad person. That will just make you feel more miserable.

 

2 hours ago, Sularin said:

while your weeb ass comments on fucking dank meme pages.  

And yet, here I am bright as a sunshine on a Sunday evening, playing some Overwatch with my friends. And you? You are ranting on LinusTechTips about how you hate all women just because you happened to pick one of the apples that were rotten. So maybe my weeb ass has the right idea about life and you don't? After all, I am the happy one.

 

I've been depressed before. It sucks. But you won't feel better by feeling sorry about yourself and hating others. Fun things and happiness will make you feel better.

[Mooshi]

2 hours ago, Ringthane said:

That's still a loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooong way from saying someone is abusive to women (or anyone for that matter), don't you think?  I'm sorry that you were in such a bad relationship, but not all men are like that guy.  You may not want to hear that life lesson, but it is true.  You have no idea what the OP is like in real life - you're basing your entire perception of him off one post that was probably made in frustration.  And to be honest, you're not coming over too well yourself with your attitude, sunshine.

 

And if you don't want a jerk, and you don't want a nice guy, what in the world do you want?   You say "respect us, honor us, trust us", and when we do, you turn around and run for the hills or say things like what you say here.  Is it any wonder no one can seem to keep a relationship together any more?  

Big difference between "fuck women"  and "fuck that one person who hurt me personally" . If you can't see that's the problem, then that's all I really have to say.   

 

Putting down an entire gender because of one person is a bad way to handle breakups. 

 

But what do I know, I'm only heading on my 5th year anniversary and live with the person I love. Experience and stuff. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[jeremymwilson]

9 hours ago, LAwLz said:

Judging by your post, you're not a nice guy. You sound like the type of guy who acts very beta and submissive to a girl, then when she doesn't love you back you starts ranting, resent her and calls her a bitch behind her back. You know, the type of thinks they are nice guys and wonder why nobody gets together with them, except women see through that facade as if it was made out of the thinnest sheet of glass ever.

You know, guys like Elliot Rodger who ran into a school in California, killed 6 people and injured 14, all because no girl wanted to go out with him.

A real nice guy wouldn't say "I fucking hate women I swear".

 

You say that she cheated on you, but were you actually in a relationship to begin with?

You even bring up that you treat them like Gods and then get mad when they don't give you anything back, but that just means you aren't treating them like Gods because you want to. You are only being nice to them for selfish reasons, expecting things in return.

Nailed it

[Ringthane]

1 hour ago, Mooshi said:

Big difference between "fuck women"  and "fuck that one person who hurt me personally" . If you can't see that's the problem, then that's all I really have to say.   

 

Putting down an entire gender because of one person is a bad way to handle breakups. 

 

But what do I know, I'm only heading on my 5th year anniversary and live with the person I love. Experience and stuff. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Oh, come on.  Just come on.  First of all, you want to talk anniversaries?  I was married for over ten years.  I got over five years on you.  I don't have a silly little graphic at the end of my post, but I do have over ten years of experience being with someone I love.  And that person, when she left, decided that I would have no further contact with the stepchild I raised for those years as my own.  So I happen to have some idea about how relationships work.  I also know that sometimes they go bad through no fault of either person.  What do you know?

 

Now, i don't date.  I haven't had a relationship since then.  Know why?  I'm going to school, working at my job, and trying to get my life to where I want it to be.  I've been depressed as well, and I'm done living that way.  Priorities and stuff.  But there were a few times after I was first single when I said "I'm never putting myself in that place again.  I don't want to be hurt like that again."  Now, according to people here, that makes me some sort of Neanderthal that pounds on women?  That's what was inferred in one post, and something that still hasn't been addressed since.  

 

Now, you don't know me from Adam.  You have no reason to believe anything I say.  But to pretty much call someone a criminal just because of one misguided internet post is not just wrong, it's idiotic.  But what do I know?  I'm only heading on over 40 years on this planet, with a great job, four months to go to a degree, and pretty much everything I could ask for.  Actual, real life being lived and stuff.

[dizmo]

Ah yes. Heartbreak. Sucks dude, sorry to hear that?

What does being friends with a gay guy have anything to do with your dealings with women?

I don't think you should generalize women. I mean yes, there are some that go after bad boys, or fuck boys, or any number of stereotype. Just like there's women that go after nice guys, tall guys, bald guys...

You don't hate women, you simply don't like the characteristics of the one you chose to be in a relationship with.

Giving someone everything they ask for doesn't make you an "actual man".

 

I think you might have to take a step back and take a look at the overall relationship. If she'd been cheating on you the whole time, then maybe there was something you were doing wrong. Most people don't cheat just for the sake of cheating.

Could also have something to do with age.

 

I think you've been given some solid advice and insight from some of the members here. Much better than you would have received a couple years ago.

 

 

18 hours ago, Sularin said:

I used the analogy "like a princess" because i treated her well and anything she wanted i provided for her. and she took advantage of me

Well, is it really taking advantage of you if it's something you've offered?

I don't think it is.

16 hours ago, Mooshi said:

Time for a harsh reality check. The "good guy"  type come off as hella ranty and that's a super turn off. I've been there and cringe so hard thinking back on it. Fast forward to present day and I'm heading on 5 years with my girl. 

 

Some girls are cunts, but the "nice guy" type isn't really a nice guy  if that makes sense. 

You can't generalize "good guy" stereotypes like that, as it's simply not true.

6 hours ago, SamStrecker said:

Like I have said before a Titan XP doesn't cheat on you, always is there for you, costs much less, and will provide you with happiness every single time.

Haha, I don't think a Titan XP necessarily costs less

5 hours ago, wcreek said:

@topic

I agree most with @LAwLz's post.

I'm gay so like I don't know completely how to comment to your specific issue, I guess continuing what LAwLz said, perhaps you need to change your tone, don't be a dick but don't like expect reciprocation every-time you do something nice?

I don't think being gay really changes one's ability to comment on relationship issues

5 hours ago, Sularin said:

i love how me being depressed because i was getting cheated on all through my 2 year relationship bothered you so god damn much that you had to speraticly type at your keyboard to tell me im a shitty person, while your weeb ass comments on fucking dank meme pages.  

It's a public forum where people can say what they wish.
If you're not prepared to accept that, perhaps you should find another place to vent.