Good first date idea?

[Techstorm970]

Just now, Ashiella said:

I hate golf

That's ok.  I'm just saying...it's generally a great first date idea.

[Ashiella]

1 minute ago, techstorm970 said:

That's ok.  I'm just saying...it's generally a great first date idea.

I would block the guy who brings me to golf on a first date.

[Techstorm970]

2 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

I would block the guy who brings me to golf on a first date.

Um...ok then!  What would you suggest?

[Ashiella]

1 minute ago, techstorm970 said:

Um...ok then!  What would you suggest?

I like coffee, i like italian food, but ill take red lobster lol, i like to skate sometimes, take me to bestbuy to stare and dream about hardware.... aahhhummm, idk? Stuff like that.

[Nicnac]

coffee or lunch dates are perfect. also from my experience it's best to keep it short, say like "i have to be somewhere in an hour" or so. That way you can avoid running of of things to talk about (sometimes happens faster than you'd expect lol) and if everything goes well they might be even more interested in you. Also it's always good to seem kinda busy (not too busy obviously or anything super fake in general) and it's generally a good idea to have a fixed "ending" of a first date to avoid any awkward "well guess i gotta go now" moments . 

So yea that's my little piece of advice lol

Good luck on your first date!

 

edit: doesn't have to be coffee obviously, can also be a hot chocolate, tea whatever.

a walk in a park or something is also kinda chill

[CryptoMatt]

11 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

I hate golf

Mini golf and golf are wayyyyy different

 

yes in both you hit a ball into a hole but that’s about all thays the same lol. It’s not a hours long hitting into a hole thays so far away you can’t even see it, needing different types of clubs, you only need a putter in mini golf and it’s usally fun and real golf is more of an all day being outside drinking with you buddy’s talking all day type of thing. 

[CryptoMatt]

7 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

I like coffee, i like italian food, but ill take red lobster lol, i like to skate sometimes, take me to bestbuy to stare and dream about hardware.... aahhhummm, idk? Stuff like that.

Red lobster on the first date, I’d be blocking you for that lol your probably a gold digger then lol, I hope you know not everyone in the world enjoys the same activitys. Unless thays news to you it seems like it might be.

[Canada EH]

@dizmo - The USA is 21, not 18 and not 19. Everyone should know what a Home Run is..... taking it all the way, or sealing the deal!!!

[CryptoMatt]

@dizmo home run means sex 

[Ashiella]

9 minutes ago, CryptoMatt said:

Red lobster on the first date, I’d be blocking you for that lol your probably a gold digger then lol, I hope you know not everyone in the world enjoys the same activitys. Unless thays news to you it seems like it might be.

Nah I just like good food, id take anything if its quality is good. I have expensive taste rather than being a gold digger.

 

yeah, i do know that people enjoy other activities, but this IS a tech forum and he asked ME. So i mean, what do I like to do?

[TVwazhere]

22 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

 take me to bestbuy to stare and dream about hardware

^

[CryptoMatt]

5 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

Nah I just like good food, id take anything if its quality is good. I have expensive taste rather than being a gold digger.

 

yeah, i do know that people enjoy other activities, but this IS a tech forum and he asked ME. So i mean, what do I like to do?

Sos getting good food and all that fancy stuff is more important then how the person is? If the guy who was a perfect match for you but was poor and loved paycheck to paycheck with no separable cash yoidnjsut pass over him for the guy you only like becase he can spend $50 on Two lobster tails and not be broke 

 

and ifnyou pick bestbuy to look st headwear thays sad, they newly even carry stuff, I’d thin lien a fry’s or microcenter would be better 

[Ashiella]

1 minute ago, CryptoMatt said:

Sos getting good food and all that fancy stuff is more important then how the person is? If the guy who was a perfect match for you but was poor and loved paycheck to paycheck with no separable cash yoidnjsut pass over him for the guy you only like becase he can spend $50 on Two lobster tails and not be broke 

I didnt mention that. If were talkin about a date, I like my food. We never asked about the type of person that I would date.

[Techstorm970]

24 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

take me to bestbuy to stare and dream about hardware...

Micro Center?   

 

[Ashiella]

Just now, techstorm970 said:

Micro Center?   

 

Ohyus. Ncix (rip)

[NoxiousOdor]

Where I live is close to a bay so on my first date we went an walked in a park by the water and then walked along a boardwalk over the water. Our second date we went to a zoo

[dizmo]

31 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

I would block the guy who brings me to golf on a first date.

Haha, gotta love those lines of communication...

18 minutes ago, Canada EH said:

@dizmo - The USA is 21, not 18 and not 19. Everyone should know what a Home Run is..... taking it all the way, or sealing the deal!!!

After coffee? That'd be a very promiscuous girl. Only someone super young and inexperienced would talk that way anyway

17 minutes ago, CryptoMatt said:

@dizmo home run means sex 

...I kind of thought that's what he meant, but to think you'll get there after coffee is...childish.

8 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

Nah I just like good food, id take anything if its quality is good. I have expensive taste rather than being a gold digger.

 

yeah, i do know that people enjoy other activities, but this IS a tech forum and he asked ME. So i mean, what do I like to do?

Red Lobster? I thought you said good food...

2 minutes ago, Ashiella said:

Ohyus. Ncix (rip)

The NCIX's by you actually had stuff on display? The one's I went to had next to nothing

 

[Eduard the weeb]

1 hour ago, Ashiella said:

Dont put those moves on me

I wouldn't I to lazy too go outside anyway 

A good date for me is Mariokart in the basement tbh

[dalekphalm]

35 minutes ago, CryptoMatt said:

Red lobster on the first date, I’d be blocking you for that lol your probably a gold digger then lol, I hope you know not everyone in the world enjoys the same activitys. Unless thays news to you it seems like it might be.

Sure bring her to Red Lobster... but split the bill

 

Sure lots of girls prefer the "old fashioned" where the guy pays for the tab... Nah. I'm an Egalitarian. That means on first dates, always split the bill. Once you're dating, you can work out an arrangement (taking turns, splitting, etc).

[Guest]

4 hours ago, Ashiella said:

Dont put those moves on me

Sounds like an ice date idea. Some pretty cool moves.

[Energycore]

23 hours ago, Cookiecrumbles222 said:

1. I know little about her so the date has to be general.

Honestly you should talk over the phone with her to get to know her a bit, so you can get date ideas out of what she say she likes.

 

That's what I'd do. Then if you're kind of at a loss, just propose a place that's nice and that you like (but not bowling). I love theme parks so I do that a lot lol

[79wjd]

4 hours ago, CryptoMatt said:

Red lobster on the first date, I’d be blocking you for that lol your probably a gold digger then lol

Gold digger....red lobster.......boy do we live in different worlds. 

4 hours ago, Ashiella said:

Nah I just like good food, id take anything if its quality is good. I have expensive taste rather than being a gold digger.

No offense to either of you, but where do you live the red lobster is good or expensive ? 

 

[CryptoMatt]

1 hour ago, djdwosk97 said:

Gold digger....red lobster.......boy do we live in different worlds. 

No offense to either of you, but where do you live the red lobster is good or expensive ? 

 

Red lobster isn’t cheap lol, last time I went there the bill was $180 for two people. We didn’t even get a shit ton of food, I could of got a months worth of food at a grocery store for that price 

[79wjd]

1 minute ago, CryptoMatt said:

Red lobster isn’t cheap lol, last time I went there the bill was $180 for two people. We didn’t even get a shit ton of food, I could of got a months worth of food at a grocery store for that price 

What the hell did you order that it was $180; also, anyone who spends that much at red lobster needs to find better restaurants, they're food is really pretty bad

[Ashiella]

1 hour ago, djdwosk97 said:

Gold digger....red lobster.......boy do we live in different worlds. 

No offense to either of you, but where do you live the red lobster is good or expensive ? 

 

Its pretty good, the bill for 4 people was about ~50-70$, most of the cheaper entree's are about 10-15, they have the super expensive 20-35$ ones though. It was my birthday so I got an expensive one.