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-straight male here, sorry for intruding-

 

I mean this in a totally chill way, though it probably won't come across as that... Anyway. 14 is kinda young to even know you're gay, right? Like I'm not saying it's TOO young, but, at 14 I don't even think I was thinking about gurls that much - not as much as I do now anyway aha. Is it something you've always kinda known or... Take my bro for instance (still not sure if he's actually gay...) but he's always been a bit, flamboyant. He's just never really been the 'alpha male'; that relate to you in anyway? Or did you just one day realise you liked guys?

 

Can ignore me if you want, was just curious as I've never seen someone at the age of yourself know themselves to be gay :P

The reason probably being that most 14 year old's don't tell anyone, I've known I was gay since I 11, it didn't suddenly dawn on me, it was a gradual realization. 

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Has anybody here met a person that is only okay with a certain kind of gay?(like okay with guy+guy but not okay with woman+woman) I just saw someone that feels this way and I am confused.

Tons.

Most straight guys i've encountered think that girl on girl is perfectly ok. But man on man action is a no no

 

I usually just quote steve hughes to them for a laugh and then i move on

 

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I literally could not think of a single thing to say , so here you go ...

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@LoneRangerS (I saw someone quoting your post) I knew I was gay when I was about 7. I has a crush on a girl in school during that time, enjoyed being with her, but years after that I had some attraction to guys which I used to pass me as straight, then I came out as bi.

 

yup, both parrents of my BF is completely okay with girl+girl but not boy+boy

Huh, I've never met someone like that IRL, either fully accepting or full homophobe.

 

Tons.

Most straight guys i've encountered think that girl on girl is perfectly ok. But man on man action is a no no

 

I usually just quote steve hughes to them for a laugh and then i move on

(somewhat)Contrary to what I said above, I think I have met some guys like that, but I assume they say that because "I wouldn't do I guy myself, but I love that lesbian porn". That's the vibe I get from my brothers dorm lol. For those guys I have met, they didn't seem too homophobic(if at all) when they met a gay guy.

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(somewhat)Contrary to what I said above, I think I have met some guys like that, but I assume they say that because "I wouldn't do I guy myself, but I love that lesbian porn". That's the vibe I get from my brothers dorm lol. For those guys I have met, they didn't seem too homophobic(if at all) when they met a gay guy.

Nah the guys i've met are completely anti-man on man kind-of gay. But totally cool with girl and girl. 

Most of them have that "Don't want them anywhere near me" kind of attitude towards gay men.

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Nah the guys i've met are completely anti-man on man kind-of gay. But totally cool with girl and girl. 

Most of them have that "Don't want them anywhere near me" kind of attitude towards gay men.

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huh

"Has anybody here met a person that is only okay with a certain kind of gay?"

Was the question right?

One of my classmates said that it would be ok for women to marry other women but men marrying other men is just wrong. (He is 37)

Or a friends dad that is completely ok with his daughter dating women. But he started dry heaving at the start of the movie "I love you philip morris"

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Tons.

Most straight guys i've encountered think that girl on girl is perfectly ok. But man on man action is a no no

 

I usually just quote steve hughes to them for a laugh and then i move on

Have seen quite a bit of that too, mostly on the internet, though.

 

IRL people I have seen don't really want to share their sexual orientation (have only known one bi man and one asexual man for certain), but everyone except elderly people, immature kids and pre-teens seem to be accepting to homosexuals of both kinds. The rest of the LGBT spectrum is what they don't discuss, though.

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Have seen quite a bit of that too, mostly on the internet, though.

 

IRL people I have seen don't really want to share their sexual orientation (have only known one bi man and one asexual man for certain), but they seem accepting to homosexuals of both kinds. The rest of the LGBT spectrum is what they don't discuss, though.

The wierdest one i've ever encountered was on a dating site. (Since we're mentioning online stuff)

he started chatting with me and i checked out his profile.. Which clearly said that he was married.

So i told him i wasn't ok with cheating bastards.

To which he replied.

"Gay sex doesn't count as cheating"

I couldn't even

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The wierdest one i've ever encountered was on a dating site. (Since we're mentioning online stuff)

he started chatting with me and i checked out his profile.. Which clearly said that he was married.

So i told him i wasn't ok with cheating bastards.

To which he replied.

"Gay sex doesn't count as cheating"

I couldn't even

 

It doesn't? Well, it's open season, baby! 

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It doesn't? Well, it's open season, baby! 

 

Wait I can marry my boyfriend and then still hook up with every cute guy on grindr?

 

fuck me sideways I cant wait.

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So one guy from my group today said that homosexuality and asexuality are only a choice, therefore they shouldn't be tolerated. He also blames it for the population decline in the European countries. :lol:

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So one guy from my group today said that homosexuality and asexuality are only a choice, therefore they shouldn't be tolerated. He also blames it for the population decline in the European countries. :lol:

 

Pat him on the head and tell him it's ok to be retarded? 

What do they know of England, who only England know?

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So one guy from my group today said that homosexuality and asexuality are only a choice, therefore they shouldn't be tolerated. He also blames it for the population decline in the European countries. :lol:

Overpopulation is a thing

So if that was even remotely true then homosexuality and asexuality should be applauded xD

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So one guy from my group today said that homosexuality and asexuality are only a choice, therefore they shouldn't be tolerated. He also blames it for the population decline in the European countries. :lol:

People like that make me feel dumber. So, if religion is a choice, why should it be tolerated? Anyway, not all European countries have declining populations, the UK's will reach 132m by the 22nd century.

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People like that make me feel dumber. So, if religion is a choice, why should it be tolerated? Anyway, not all European countries have declining populations, the UK's will reach 132m by the 22nd century.

UK can be an exception since a lot of people from my country (and other Eastern European countries) are going there.

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UK can be an exception since a lot of people from my country (and other Eastern European countries) are going there.

But Germany's population is declining and they take in more immigrants and refuges that the UK, there's obviously not enough gay people in the UK, I have some "converting" to do. :D

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So one guy from my group today said that homosexuality and asexuality are only a choice, therefore they shouldn't be tolerated. He also blames it for the population decline in the European countries. :lol:

tell him that the same can be said for bigotry

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But Germany's population is declining and they take in more immigrants and refuges that the UK, there's obviously not enough gay people in the UK, I have some "converting" to do. :D

Refugees are a whole another story. I actually meant that the native population of most European countries is declining.

 

 

tell him that the same can be said for bigotry

Bigotry is pretty popular at my place. I guess it comes from the communist past.

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Refugees are a whole another story. I actually meant that the native population of most European countries is declining.

 

 

Bigotry is pretty popular at my place. I guess it comes from the communist past.

Yeah, central Europe isn't exactly know for being the most tolerant place on earth...

 

Also, s that Sadaharu from Gintama in your profile pic? I love that show so much.

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Also, s that Sadaharu from Gintama in your profile pic? I love that show so much.

Yep, that's Sadaharu. Gintama is the Japanese South Park imo - it's pretty relaxing to watch. It's currently on hold for me (I've seen only 29 episodes from the latest season), I'll resume after I'm done with my finals.

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Yep, that's Sadaharu. Gintama is the Japanese South Park imo - it's pretty relaxing to watch. It's currently on hold for me (I've seen only 29 episodes from the latest season), I'll resume after I'm done with my finals.

im only on episode 150 or so. I binged it in 2014 but stopped for some reason. I need to keep watching in between other shit i binge.

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Refugees are a whole another story. I actually meant that the native population of most European countries is declining.

 

 

Bigotry is pretty popular at my place. I guess it comes from the communist past.

Ah okay.

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