Should i go to the hospital?

[Pesmerga]

If it's the disease you listed, it's not a virus and it's not going to get better by itself, i'ts literally your immune system attacking your platelets. It needs to be treated an IV isn't anything too bad, you'll have to deal with it for a bit. Your parents care about you there's no sense keeping it secret. ^^

[Kinda Bottlenecked]

Dont you have any sympathy?

It is like hell whenever i have to get this

 

Take it from me, your parents will feel better knowing what has happened or is happening to you. Not telling them, no doubt will keep them form any worries about you for a period. But you'll be found out eventually. And they'll feel much worse after learning that you're trying to keep it from them. 

 

All parents (I'm excluding those that abandon their child) want to care for their children. Give them the chance to do so.

[JessicaH]

I myself have a minor case of trypanophobia (fear of needles). When i usually have to get my blood drawn (or whatnot) i just look away. Sometimes i like to do a countdown before it. Helps alot for me.

I have a severe case of trypanophobia

there is a rubber needle in my arm for 5-6 hours

look away..

[JessicaH]

This is going to get me some hate, but grow the fuck up.

 

You're 24 years old (according to your profile), you have a fucking illness, and you don't want to go and get it treated because "needles sting".

 

Like really. You come here, asking if you should leave a disease untreated because you don't want to tell your parents, and whenever someone tells you to go to the damn hospital you shoot it down with bullshit rebuttles.

 

If you don't want to go, then don't go and live with the consequences, or grow the fuck up, go to the hospital like a big girl, and fix your problems.

Its not because it stings,

There are things i cannot put on the internet of why.

[JessicaH]

 

Way to ease her into it..

 

kinda same... with less harsh language and more nice language... yeh

 

but it's no reason to risk your life. Everyone has to agree with that

 

 

that's the main part my cousin was nervous about, 2 yr recovery is.. wow.

 Hope  you reach 100% soon!

 

 

it went fine a complete success, only hard thing was the physio and keeping it up you have to go hard and regain all the muscle loss and make it equal to the other leg, other than the first day i got out of the hospital 1 day 1 night. first night home had killer pain and pharmacy was closed to get pain killers, but now im fine just still training to make my leg 100% for a full recovery its about 2yrs. 

 

 

Yea. I don't mind getting cut but using needles is pure torture

 

 

i'd rather get an actual severe cut (like a papercut or small injury) than needles

 

 

I hate it when they do blood tests. Because 90% of length of the needle is pointless and it just looks scarry

 

 

hm how did the surgery go? My cousin tore his acl years ago  but hasn't gone in for surgery due to the horrible recovery process

 

inb4 lock

 

 

if you're serious about this go to the docter/hospital, 1 day of pain isnt worth more or the chances of death and im sure your parents only want whats best for you. I had a torn ACL in my left knee and i held off getting it checked out and its one of my biggest regrets, got surgery last yeah cause i ended up completely tearing it and had replacement surgery, sure i was scared but in the end i got better and can do things normally. 

 

So what im trying to say a few days of pain isnt worth a lifetimes amount.

 

 

No bullshit, but your okay with rabbit shit judging by your avatar?

 

 

Just tell them.  Keeping secrets always ends badly.

 

And nice Momo gif.  Really hot

 

 

I'm not saying you should google it, but if left untreated, your disease can get very very dangerous... like seriously.. GO TO THE FUCKING HOSPITAL

 

 

Oh, sorry....what I meant was...

 

Shh bby is ok

 

 

I have a low tolerance for bullshit and idiots. I respect people with a filter, it's a blessing.

 

 

Tell your parents.  :rolleyes:

 

 

Way to ease her into it..

 

kinda same... with less harsh language and more nice language... yeh

 

 

While I'm not sure exactly what that is, what I can say it this

Medical things shouldn't be ignored. While I'm mostly ignorant about tins kind of thing, they will notice eventually, and they'll worry about you. Parents are an odd type of being. They try to do everything they can to make your life great, and yet the often never ask your opinion on what they do.

I suppose the boils down to this. Are you willing to risk your life/worsen your condition over something like this? Are you willing to make your parents worry about you when they eventually find out?  What do you care about more? Something that "stings" or the well being of those around you?

I used to have really sensitive teeth, and every time they noticed I was hurting, they'd always bring me in, even though I hated it. I realize they only did it because they wanted the best for me, but damn I hated them for it back then.

Do you want temporary pain now? Or permanent pain later?

 

 

This is going to get me some hate, but grow the fuck up.

 

You're 24 years old (according to your profile), you have a fucking illness, and you don't want to go and get it treated because "needles sting".

 

Like really. You come here, asking if you should leave a disease untreated because you don't want to tell your parents, and whenever someone tells you to go to the damn hospital you shoot it down with bullshit rebuttles.

 

If you don't want to go, then don't go and live with the consequences, or grow the fuck up, go to the hospital like a big girl, and fix your problems.

 

 

The morgue.

 

 

Honestly it sounds like you have made up your mind not to tell them and your just looking for justification in the Internet. Sorry, but if you just wanted someone to tell you what you want to hear, then you shouldn't have tried the Internet. Don't get me wrong, I feel bad for what you have to go through, but let's be real here for a second. What will happen if you don't tell them? It's not just gonna magically go away. What will happen is that it will just get worse, and you will have to suffer the symptoms until your parents eventually find out anyway and take you to the hospital. In the end it will just take more time out of your life than if you just get it over with now, and then you will have problems with your parents to deal with on top of what your already going through. Please for your own sake, and for the sake of everyone who cares about you, just get off the Internet and go to the hospital. Get better soon!

 

 

Think about it this way. If you don't tell them now, and your condition gets worse, they'll force you to go there anyway. And depending on how "worse" it got, you might need to stay there longer, with more needles stinging you everyday.

 

 

Convinced this is a troll thread because of how irrational you're being. Tell your fucking parents.

Look.

I have gotten spots before, and i am going to wait 3 days before going to them, to see if it gets better.

 

I am convinced that ITP is stress induced, so instead of trying to hide it, i will take it easy for 3 days and see if it goes away.

 

I am hoping on that.

 

I know this is a bad idea, but i have never waited before telling them something happened...

 

maybe it goes away by its own?

 

My family has always taken a very very aggressive approach to trying to get rid of it, up to the point of almost removing the spleen (I convinced them no)

 

Whenever they see spots, they take me right away to the hospital, they might even whisk me out of school because i never hesitated.

 

Now i am contemplating hesitating because we never EVER waited to see if it went away by itself.

[JessicaH]

If it's the disease you listed, it's not a virus and it's not going to get better by itself, i'ts literally your immune system attacking your platelets. It needs to be treated an IV isn't anything too bad, you'll have to deal with it for a bit. Your parents care about you there's no sense keeping it secret. ^^

I think its cancer.

[Aytex]

ITS THE 4TH TIME

I DONT WANT TO AT THIS POINT

i hate needles

So you would rather litteral die rather then a few seconds of pain....

[JessicaH]

So you would rather litteral die rather then a few seconds of pain....

Read my post.

[JessicaH]

So you would rather litteral die rather then a few seconds of pain....

I am honestly scared of needles, but i dont mind the pain, even if its the entire day.

[Aytex]

I am honestly scared of needles, but i dont mind the pain, even if its the entire day.

How old are you? Are u old enough to drive?? If you are try setting up a appointment with a local doctor or sonething

[JessicaH]

How old are you? Are u old enough to drive?? If you are try setting up a appointment with a local doctor or sonething

I lied about my age

I should probably change that but its actually 17 and i dont have a drivers license(yet!)_{Passing the drivers test ANY day now...}

[Aytex]

I lied about my age

I should probably change that but its actually 17 and i dont have a drivers license(yet!)_{Passing the drivers test ANY day now...}

Do you have any friends that can drive you or help u

[JessicaH]

Do you have any friends that can drive you or help u

Do you think anything about my idea of waiting and seeing what happens?

 

Is it good?

 

At this point i want to try anything

 

and i think that might work

 

it also has been documented that ITP goes away on its own mostly(has not happened to me)

[SIGSEGV]

Tell your parents, I've had a bunch of problems, I know it's hard because you don't want to waste your time like that but it is better to be in a bit of pain now than alot of pain later because your insides are bleeding.

[Aytex]

Do you think anything about my idea of waiting and seeing what happens?

 

Is it good?

 

At this point i want to try anything

 

and i think that might work

 

it also has been documented that ITP goes away on its own most likely(has not happened to me)

I'd just tell your parents straight.. They take it seriously because they love you and they care for you

[Flight1sim]

No offense but you seem very immature.

[Tmt97]

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Look.

I have gotten spots before, and i am going to wait 3 days before going to them, to see if it gets better.

 

I am convinced that ITP is stress induced, so instead of trying to hide it, i will take it easy for 3 days and see if it goes away.

 

I am hoping on that.

 

I know this is a bad idea, but i have never waited before telling them something happened...

 

maybe it goes away by its own?

 

My family has always taken a very very aggressive approach to trying to get rid of it, up to the point of almost removing the spleen (I convinced them no)

 

Whenever they see spots, they take me right away to the hospital, they might even whisk me out of school because i never hesitated.

 

Now i am contemplating hesitating because we never EVER waited to see if it went away by itself.

You know, I had a different opinion on this at first. But I think i've changed my mind actually. If the symptoms arnt immediately life threatening or permanently damaging you, then I actually agree with you on waiting a few days to test your theory if taking it easy gets rid of it. Sorry about your parents being so aggressive, but its your body and your life. If you feel you need to try this, then try it. Just don't go overboard, if it gets worse, just go to the hospital.

[JessicaH]

You know, I had a different opinion on this at first. But I think i've changed my mind actually. If the symptoms arnt immediately life threatening or permanently damaging you, then I actually agree with you on waiting a few days to test your theory if taking it easy gets rid of it. Sorry about your parents being so aggressive, but its your body and your life. If you feel you need to try this, then try it. Just don't go overboard, if it gets worse, just go to the hospital.

I should mention in the original post that the dots are very light compared to when it really shows

So im hoping they don't become darker

 

I'd just tell your parents straight.. They take it seriously because they love you and they care for you

 

No offense but you seem very immature.

Im not immature

I just like to let my inside feelings out on the internet

[Tmt97]

Just gotta say fyi, that although I agree with you now, you might wanna rethink this type of post in the future. A lot of the reason your getting a bad response is that even if you don't mean it, this post comes across kinda trollish and clickbaity. Like your title for example. "I hate myself" Thats not really descriptive of what the thread is about, and it just sounds bad... Plus the way you worded the original post was very misleading to what your actual intentions were, leading people to think you were going to hurt yourself. I dont think thats how you intended it, but you might've wanted to rethink how you worded things...

[Guest]

I too don't like needles, those big ass fucking things they stick in your vein and the feeling of fluids being withdrawn/pumped into you *shivers* But, sometimes you have to do things you don't like. 

 

It's your choice, it's your life. If you would rather just suffer with your problem (don't know anything about it) than go through a day in hospital, then that's your choice.  

 

What exactly is your situation? Does it go away on it's own? Or do you actually need this stuff? 

[Theminecraftaddict555]

You know what I hate needles too, I've been there (and pretty much all of us)....But its always for the good so I can be healthy

 

Trust me its better to be living and standing than to be in a bed nearing your death because of this disease, then causing grief for your parents...So do it now because sooner or later your parents will eventually find out and by that time it might be too late 

 

Just a word of advice...

[JessicaH]

Just gotta say fyi, that although I agree with you now, you might wanna rethink this type of post in the future. A lot of the reason your getting a bad response is that even if you don't mean it, this post comes across kinda trollish and clickbaity. Like your title for example. "I hate myself" Thats not really descriptive of what the thread is about, and it just sounds bad... Plus the way you worded the original post was very misleading to what your actual intentions were, leading people to think you were going to hurt yourself. I dont think thats how you intended it, but you might've wanted to rethink how you worded things...

trollish?

clickbaity?

I dont see anything wrong with it.

 

What could i change to make it not that way?

[BuckGup]

I have heard this a million times. A kid doesn't tell their parents his neck hurts and he is dead in 24 hours because of meningitis.  

[JessicaH]

I too don't like needles, those big ass fucking things they stick in your vein and the feeling of fluids being withdrawn/pumped into you *shivers* But, sometimes you have to do things you don't like. 

 

It's your choice, it's your life. If you would rather just suffer with your problem (don't know anything about it) than go through a day in hospital, then that's your choice.  

 

What exactly is your situation? Does it go away on it's own? Or do you actually need this stuff? 

The situation is that if i let it go low, then if i get injured, i am putting myself at risk of not healing as fast. Head injuries? I have to go directly to the hospital to get it fixed...

I had this since i was 9, I remember when they gave me a medication to cure it and i was on the hospital bed, having a severe allergic reaction to one of the medications they gave me. I was swelling everywhere and they had to put a gas mask on me to knock me out.

 

it was traumatizing

 

so much so i hate the hospital

[Tmt97]

trollish?

clickbaity?

I dont see anything wrong with it.

 

What could i change to make it not that way?

Well, first you could refrain from claiming self hate in your title when your actual post is about your medical condition, and not hating yourself. Also, you started out saying you just didn't want to go to the hospital even though you had a serious illness. In reality, you just meant that you wanted to wait a few days to see if a non life-threatening condition clears up on its own. Not trying to offend you, but you just gotta explain yourself a little better, otherwise some people are going to perceive you as a troll even if you arnt.