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Well, I talk to her a bit. mostly texts though, but my friend said to her to keep an open mind and see if you like him back, so I might try to move things slow, and who knows, Valentines Day is coming up : )

 

Dont let your friend tell her things, they should come from you, she could think you are too coward to say it, generally a bit of confidence means a lot, as long as you dont become cocky and push it

 

Slow is best, valentines day is a dangerous one, and it could feel forced, though you ask something simple or get a cute card or something :)

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Dont let your friend tell her things, they should come from you, she could think you are too coward to say it, generally a bit of confidence means a lot, as long as you dont become cocky and push it

 

Slow is best, valentines day is a dangerous one, and it could feel forced, though you ask something simple or get a cute card or something :)

I was thinking that, just to sorta push the idea a bit, but not be to forceful

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I was thinking that, just to sorta push the idea a bit, but not be to forceful

 

yeah its sort of let her know, without forcing her

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I was thinking that, just to sorta push the idea a bit, but not be to forceful

 

Push it a bit , she might no be into it.

After that its good to try to maintain friendship.

 

If you are super aggressive you might loose a friend because it can get awkard.

 

Why the hell am i giving relationship advice.

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15, having my first gf for 10 months now

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Why the hell am i giving relationship advice.

cuz u can

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I was thinking that, just to sorta push the idea a bit, but not be to forceful

No,no,no,no,no,no,no,no,no,no,no!! Your 15 speak to her not your friend! Valentines day is a big no no! your giving her all the cards by doing this. She should be the one wondering if you like her not you! Talk to her, flirt with her but don't ask her out! Talk to her everyday as much as you can but no i like you crap! Make sure you flirt enough not to be in the friendzone but not too much that its obvious your into her. You want her to be the one asking you out. These things take time especially if she's not into you at the start. give it a month or 2 but make sure you keep in as much contact as possible without being a creep and only if she wants you to also when she texts you don't reply straight away lol it's been proven if 2 humans spend enough time together they will develop feelings. Once she is wrapped around your pinky which you will know when it happens and she still hasn't asked you out she's obv too shy and that's when you bring in the conversation of hey i like spending time with you do you enjoy it too? do you like me more than a friend etc. 

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Talk to her everyday as much as you can but no i like you crap! Make sure you flirt enough not to be in the friendzone but not too much that its obvious your into her. You want her to be the one asking you out. 

Yea, I think I have been doing this, the level I have gotten to is, "I really like talking to you" so I think I might start to get somewhere

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Ima have to agree with zappian on this one bro. I use to use that 1-10 system until one day i saw a girl that was a 10, then saw a hotter girl and i couldn't call her an 11 coz it's 1-10 and then i would have to go back and reconfigure all my judgments. So for me now i keep it simple either hot, cute or none. 

 

 

Amen.

Lmao, just think good about his post.. He's doing the same as me xD 

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15, having my first gf for 10 months now

Congrats dude

I was thinking that, just to sorta push the idea a bit, but not be to forceful

I wouldn't do this, talk to her IRL not through texts see if the conversation flows and flirting should feel natural and shouldn't be this "should say this shouldn't i?" feeling

Don't push her by say just "I really like you" because you tell a friend that and you'll freak them out.

At the end of the day, there isn't a rulebook nor a friend zone, if your not somebody's type you never stood a chance, if your not any further in the next month or 2 cut your losses and move on (stay friend tho)

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I wouldn't do this, talk to her IRL not through texts see if the conversation flows and flirting should feel natural and shouldn't be this "should say this shouldn't i?" feeling

Don't push her by say just "I really like you" because you tell a friend that and you'll freak them out.

At the end of the day, there isn't a rulebook nor a friend zone, if your not somebody's type you never stood a chance, if your not any further in the next month or 2 cut your losses and move on (stay friend tho)

Yea, I should have said this before, but she live in another country...

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I met a girl on an mmorpg. We met in real life and she lived 18 hours away. We went on a date and I asked her out. She was beautiful and she was a gamer. The relationship ended in flames. She was a great girlfriend. I am currently dating this asian girl at work. I am going to ask her out. She does not play games or know anything about tech which is nice. I will ask her out on valentines day.

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I met a girl on an mmorpg. We met in real life and she lived 18 hours away. We went on a date and I asked her out. She was beautiful and she was a gamer. The relationship ended in flames. She was a great girlfriend. I am currently dating this asian girl at work. I am going to ask her out. She does not play games or know anything about tech which is nice. I will ask her out on valentines day.

As her out to a date on the day if love. Not ask her out on that day and plan a date for another day

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I have been dating my girlfriend for two years or so. So I met her when I was 20. Before that I had one other serious girlfriend. 

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As her out to a date on the day if love. Not ask her out on that day and plan a date for another day

I was going to ask her out on a date on that day then I was going to ask her if she will go out with me like bf/gf status. I don't know if I love her yet. We have been dating for a month.

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Yeah. I'm 14, and I'm currently in a serious relationship with a girl, having been since summer 2014.

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Only had sex once, no relationships. I'm glad I won't die a virgin. That was one of my biggest fears.

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Only had sex once, no relationships. I'm glad I won't die a virgin. That was one of my biggest fears.

 

sex but no relationship, lel

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Never had a relationship, and by the looks of things, never will. Also i have basically donenothing else either that involves girls in any way.

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Never had a relationship, and by the looks of things, never will. Also i have basically donenothing else either that involves girls in any way.

 

the right person will come, trust me. ive seen people going from your frame of mind to having all the girls

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My wife would kill me if i had a girlfriend.

                                        

 

                                                 

 

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Never had one and never will because i'm too ugly for one the only that would like me are ugly obese ones

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Just ended up a 2 year relationship cuz apparently all I had to do was being with her 24/7 without working to pay my sh*t and don't hang out with any friends. The excuse was 'you don't have time for me anymore' well f*ck you spoiled child.
Ironically she's already dating her 'bestfriend'... and guess what? I ended up with no friends because of this bitch.
Just an advice, simply don't fully trust women.

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