Friend didn't need his EVGA queue spot anymore, so he SOLD it to me. I'm judging him hard. Are my moral standards too high?
23 minutes ago, Eiri said:I think I expressed that wrong. He said "I won't be responsible for shipping or import fees". Meaning I would pay them. The finder's fee is on top of those fees.
The Netherlands! Honestly it's not much of a chance considering eBay's money back guarantee. Worst case, they don't ship me anything, and I'll end up having loaned them a thousand dollars for a month, interest free. But I get your point.
Okay, so now it's starting to make sense. Acquaintance didn't say YOU wouldn't be responsible for shipping and duties, they said THEY wouldn't be responsible, then asked for a finder's fee, more or less. Dick move, maybe, but in light of all this, if it's that big of a deal to you, just go with it, and drop them like a bad habit after the card is received.
You get what you want without the guesswork, and for $100, you've discovered what your friendship is worth to him. That's a lot cheaper than a lot of life lessons. I've had people flat-out screw me for far more money with no benefit at all to me. Food for thought. Would I handle this that way? Maybe, maybe not. He didn't have to ask for the $100, but he didn't have to offer his spot in the queue either. But at least you're getting SOMETHING out of the deal.
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