Girl Problems,Friendship Problems

[RamSatesh]

Sup guys,need advice,i know this is not the best place,but why not?This is going to be a story,so be ready.

Okay,so me and this girl were best friends for 3 years and like last year i just hated her and just ignored her for 9 months and still counting.So,what happened?Well,last year around april,i starting feeling a force betweek us,it was like something was wrong,then when time goes by,it happened,Problems.

I join this social media app called Wechat last year april,so when i ask for her id,she didn't give me it,but i keep continuosly asking her,but she still didn't tell me,then i why like mehhh.After a few days,i got to found out that she gave her id to some people she just met a month ago,but not me,3 years friendship like wattt?then i got super frustated and just ignored her from then,she tried talking to me multiple times,but i just keep ignoring her.Aftr 2-3 months,she starting realizing this was serious.Everyday,i could see her looking at me,i know,but because of my ego,i kept ignoring,lol.

Like after 3 months i stated to miss her,but my ego stopped me.And on a day,we classmates all went to an outing,i just kept ignoring her as usual,but then after a few days,my friend/her friend told me that she wanted to take a pic with me but she was afraif i would shut her down.Then after that,since my friend(the one i told u bout) and her have thier birthdays on the same day,they had a party,all my friends were forcing me to go,but my ego got in the way and just stopped me,you know why? Because they told me she wanted to take a pic with me there.But today,i miss her terribally,like i regrate it so much,but my ego is still in the way,so ya any advise?

P.S. :She's super hot,could say she's on the top 3 list,maybe the first

[ShadowCaptain]

TL:DR stop being a dick and talk to her

[RamSatesh]

TL:DR stop being a dick and talk to her

hmmmm,lol,brain still prossing information.

[Coombzy]

TL:DR stop being a dick and talk to her

Hit the nail on the head right here...

[A.D.A.M]

Uhh, talk to her about it, swallow your pride.

[ShadowCaptain]

hmmmm,lol,brain still prossing information.

 

There is a hot girl, you like her.. she wants to talk to you.. you ignore her

 

IDIOT

[Prikk]

TL:DR

Might want to split those into paragraphs, you know, beginning, middle, end.

[RamSatesh]

Uhh, talk to her about it, swallow your pride.

its hard being a man sometimes,ur pride and ego always in the way

[JeffreyEagan]

You NEVER ignore hot girls. I don't care if she's the daughter of satan.

[RamSatesh]

TL:DR

Might want to split those into paragraphs, you know, beginning, middle, end.

erm,alright,will edit it

[JeffreyEagan]

its hard being a man sometimes,ur pride and ego always in the way

Man up and grow a pair.

[Guest Haduvokone]

Sup guys,need advice,i know this is not the best place,but why not?This is going to be a story,so be ready.

Okay,so me and this girl were best friends for 3 years and like last year i just hated her and just ignored her for 9 months and still counting.So,what happened?Well,last year around april,i starting feeling a force betweek us,it was like something was wrong,then when time goes by,it happened,Problems.I join this social media app called Wechat last year april,so when i ask for her id,she didn't give me it,but i keep continuosly asking her,but she still didn't tell me,then i why like mehhh.After a few days,i got to found out that she gave her id to some people she just met a month ago,but not me,3 years friendship like wattt?then i got super frustated and just ignored her from then,she tried talking to me multiple times,but i just keep ignoring her.Aftr 2-3 months,she starting realizing this was serious.Everyday,i could see her looking at me,i know,but because of my ego,i kept ignoring,lol.Like after 3 months i stated to miss her,but my ego stopped me.And on a day,we classmates all went to an outing,i just kept ignoring her as usual,but then after a few days,my friend/her friend told me that she wanted to take a pic with me but she was afraif i would shut her down.Then after that,since my friend(the one i told u bout) and her have thier birthdays on the same day,they had a party,all my friends were forcing me to go,but my ego got in the way and just stopped me,you know why? Because they told me she wanted to take a pic with me there.But today,i miss her terribally,like i regrate it so much,but my ego is still in the way,so ya any advise?

P.S. :She super hot,could say she on the top 3 list,maybe the first

Girls are computers aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa              

[Volbet]

So, you are ignoring your long time friend, becuase she didn't give you a chat id?

That is litteraly the worst reason to end a friendship, that I have ever heard. 

Just swollow your pride, and talk to her.

[Geekazoid]

I say get over your ego and talk to her. It definitely looks like you're the problem, so just stop it mate, sort it out with her if you really like her and she likes you, just get rid of that ego of yours and suck it up and talk to her. Simple!

[RamSatesh]

There is a hot girl, you like her.. she wants to talk to you.. you ignore her

IDIOT

its not what you think lol,maybe,but thats not it

[A.D.A.M]

its hard being a man sometimes,ur pride and ego always in the way

uh, yeah get rid of that. You'll thank me someday.

[ShadowCaptain]

its not what you think lol,maybe,but thats not it

 

That is totally what it is, so she didn't so you behave like a 3 year old, throw your toys out the pram and ignore her

 

when clearly, you want to talk to her, and she wants to talk to you

[RamSatesh]

uh, yeah get rid of that. You'll thank me someday.

will try lol

[RamSatesh]

That is totally what it is, so she didn't so you behave like a 3 year old, throw your toys out the pram and ignore her

when clearly, you want to talk to her, and she wants to talk to you

exactly,like i have a reputation in school and like if this happens,the news would spread like a forest cought on fire and things would be so awkward that i still won't talk with her,stuck.

[ShadowCaptain]

exactly,like i have a reputation in school and like if this happens,the news would spread like a forest cought on fire and things would be so awkward that i still won't talk with her,stuck.

 

"a reputation" for what? ignoring your friends?

[Tech_Dreamer]

lol! from the title i was expecting the vashikaran thread

 

Well, honest reply would be that it's a risk, you think your ego is bad, think about how she held her's up when you need her & pretty sure she's bout to do it again or worse so move away if possible , otherwise give it one shot(& that's it) but it's not worth it imo you're worth more than that..

[PercySavageEG]

You should just go and talk to her instead of trying to act tough and letting your ego control you

 

Btw not to be mean or anything but your post sounds like a really cheesy love movie from my point of view

[Sauron]

Come on man, are you seriously going to take offence if someone doesn't give you their id on a random chat app? GET THE F**K OVER IT. In her shoes I'd broken all contacts with you a long time ago. Do you really expect her to just forget you didn't talk to her for 9 months (out of what seem to be really pathetic "reasons" I might add) as if nothing had happened and come crying to you begging you to be her boyfriend? And let me tell you, if that's your attitude you're nowhere near ready to be in a love relationship.

[A.D.A.M]

exactly,like i have a reputation in school and like if this happens,the news would spread like a forest cought on fire and things would be so awkward that i still won't talk with her,stuck.

really? You're worried over that! Go talk to her! who cares what people will talk about.

[bbrooking18]

its hard being a man sometimes,ur pride and ego always in the way

just talk to her, since that is what she wants, she's unlikely to turnaround and say she hates you. Just be reasonable there is a time and a place for pride and ego, that wasn't it