Female advice?

[d3sl91]

Offcourse i could give some advices, but every girl is diffrent guys

No Way!

 

 

Texting is horrible. Texting is for making plans to meet later. Texting is for random chats for a couple lines during the day. Texting is like a long-distance relationship - you are replacing human interaction with text, and without a plan to have that not be the case, will result in issues.

 

As someone in a long distance relationship... I say the above through experience. 

[Sintezza]

No Way!

 

 

I´m a girl, i guess i would know?

[d3sl91]

I´m a girl, i guess i would know?

Yeah, I just laugh when people try to figure you Gals out Yeah, you think differently - if we remember that basic fact...It's not too hard...

[Ruostunut kokis]

If you don't have all three you're doing something wrong.

If you have all three you're probably richer than majority of people in your area.

[Mooshi]

Talking to my girlfriend about computer stuff leads to one of two responses "you're gay" or "you're a nerd", playfully of course. So the advice on page 1 about not talking about computers is valid if she's not into that.

 

Ladies aren't some mysterious pandora box, simply ask about interests and the rest falls into place. While my girl doesn't care for hardware talk, she is slowly getting more interested which is pretty cool. Every woman is different, but food is a popular topic. I mean geeze, Sophia isn't the type to be a pain in the ass with the "I'm on a diet!" line and discuss disgusting styrofoam tasting fad foods, she's a meat eater and loves bacon! Randomly showing me food porn off the internet is a thing she does. Also into paranormal stuff, video games and basically being silly.

 

Just ask what she's into, it's not complex. You never know what interesting things can pop up in a conversation. Example: There are grown men who shit themselves if they see a spider or snake while Sophia adores them.

[Gachr]

Once I was traveling in a bus, there I met a girl who was a female me, computers, politics, everything... we talked about 12h. Everything depends on the person

[Ruostunut kokis]

Once I was traveling in a bus, there I met a girl who was a female me, computers, politics, everything... we talked about 12h. Everything depends on the person

12 hours? Straight? And if you both were in a bus where did you go to continue conversation? I'm just curious (and stalker-ish)

[Gachr]

12 hours? Straight? And if you both were in a bus where did you go to continue conversation? I'm just curious (and stalker-ish)

Yeah, pretty straight. I was going on vacation and I just took a long-range bus, it was the best option, I dunno if you have such in Finland

[Guest]

Step 1: Stop referring to them as "females"

They are females.

 

I don't see anything wrong with it,.

[Eddprzz]

Okay, so... what are some things that i can say to help the conversation keep going? Are conversations always just STOP dead and i don't know what to say next and i guess she doesn't ether or just doesn't want to text me. i don't know.

Thanks:)

let her talk about herself and if u think she does anything weird point it out to her and make fun of her lightly girls like it when u make fun of them not like shit about her appearance or anything

[Tacitus]

If you can figure out her interests that's always good.

 

I'm at uni, and an easy question always is "so what do you study?" and that usually opens up options be it about politics, history, law, languages etc, should you need to scrape the bottom of the barrel in question terms.

 

EDIT: practice with your hairdresser might work too,  just ask about work and holidays... LOL.

[Jogostar]

I usually go with insulting them to the bones.

The one that likes it, is the one to keep.

[Ruostunut kokis]

Okay, so... what are some things that i can say to help the conversation keep going?  Are conversations always just STOP dead and i don't know what to say next and i guess she doesn't ether or just doesn't want to text me. i don't know.

 

Thanks:)

You have a same sort-of problem that I do: whenever I join into a conversation, it stops immediately or everyone ignores me.

 

And is it okay to text random strangers you don't know much about? Here that would classify as being a creepy stalker. Only good friends text each others, or am I wrong?

[Boxrocket]

Be confident in yourself when you walk, talk, and speak to other people.  I did not say be a cocky, "I told you so" kind of guy.  Never say I told you so to anyone unless you know them personally and are on that level with them. Even then wait for the right situation.  

 

Never text strangers, you are better than that. Texting strangers puts you in the same category as the outcasts.  You will get sorted out and never find a job at Exxon-Mobil.

 

From the ages of 16-28 is the time frame you have to holler at any girls you may have banged or had past relationships with.  Even then just be nice.  Think about what you are going to talk about before you start talking with the girls.  Let them talk.  When they talk, they usually bring up other topics or things you can talk about that branch into other things.  You secretly let them keep the conversation going.  BUT WAIT!! Keep an eye out that some are smart and know that you are trolling them.  So then you pick the conversation back up when needed.  When you feel the overall strength of the conversation is losing health pts... kindly say, "Well I guess I better get going, talk to you a bit later.".  You will always see them again and you left on a high note.

 

Have confidence in yourself and realize you are a prize.  Even if you don't think so, I'm telling you that everyone is a prize.  Just because a girl is "hot" don't make a shyt.  You will find someone someday that will be right for you.