Girlfriends

[RyomaSJibenG]

Not that bluntly haha

 

maybe something like "hey I am Jim *wait for Bertha to reply and introduce herself*, I was wondering if you would like to grab a coffee sometime? you seem really .." or something along those lines - maybe a bit more naturally

Or maybe just introduce yourself to her one day, and find a topic of conversation - have you seen her doing something like I dunno "I saw you skateboarding last week, i thought it was really cool, I love skating"

I dunno something along those lines

 

If I am making any sense at all

i wish everything was so easy just like the sims

[Keyboy]

Not that bluntly haha

 

maybe something like "hey I am Jim *wait for Bertha to reply and introduce herself*, I was wondering if you would like to grab a coffee sometime? you seem really .." or something along those lines - maybe a bit more naturally

Or maybe just introduce yourself to her one day, and find a topic of conversation - have you seen her doing something like I dunno "I saw you skateboarding last week, i thought it was really cool, I love skating"

I dunno something along those lines

 

If I am making any sense at all

You are making sense, but should i just go like that in front of the friends?

[Keyboy]

i wish everything was so easy just like the sims

It really is, you just have to learn how to not give a sh*t.

[ShadowCaptain]

You are making sense, but should i just go like that in front of the friends?

 

Well the good thing about her being in-front of friends --, is she will not feel intimidated buy some random person coming up to her, since she is not alone, and it will also show some confidence on your part, that you dared approach her, even infront of her friends

 

The bad part is, it makes it harder for you, - be confident not cocky - that's the mantra

 

Dont be like "hey baby want to get with this stud muffin" and when they laugh dont be like "hey, your loss bitch" (ok that was obviously extreme but I was making a point) , be sweet but confident, - NORMALLY, it will work

 

She should hopefully be like "hey .. sure that sounds cool" or she will be like "nah Id prefer not" thats all that can happen really, nobody is going to kill you

[GodSpoon]

Met her when I was 14, three years coming up soon  

[SeriouslyMikey]

It really is, you just have to learn how to not give a sh*t.

 

I feel my way of getting girls is the best. 

Get dared to grope a girl at the age of 14 and proceed to be slapped in the face. 

Decent friends from then on. 

[chimmychunger]

Met her when I was 14, three years coming up soon

 

congrats

[GrimNeo]

I will have two girlfriends soon and I will SLI them if you know what I mean... jk but anyways still talking to the girl out work. I plan on going to bar to meet more women.

[RyomaSJibenG]

this thread is still going? wow

[PillowSmoke]

#single

[chimmychunger]

this thread is still going? wow

 

we have had many sub threads inside this as well. these have included sex ed, the need not to have girlfriends at a young age etc

[ErickS89]

I've had a lot of sex, and been in relationships, but currently no... the single life is too awesome and man my wallet is fat yo! I'll probably go another year or 2 and then start looking for a gf.

I also use batman condoms on occasion as the dark knight rises

[GrimNeo]

this thread is still going? wow

It keeps going and going and going.

 

#single

Me too lol. Might have a girlfriend soon.

[chimmychunger]

I've had a lot of sex, and been in relationships, but currently no... the single life is too awesome and man my wallet is fat yo! I'll probably go another year or 2 and then start looking for a gf.

I also use batman condoms on occasion as the dark knight rises

 

i didnt know they made batman condoms

[eldergeek]

38. I'm not someone you'd describe as...approachable; I find it hard to related to people, and even communicate and it's taken a toll on my personal life. At this stage, I wouldn't know how to approach someone - male or female.

[RyomaSJibenG]

38. I'm not someone you'd describe as...approachable; I find it hard to related to people, and even communicate and it's taken a toll on my personal life. At this stage, I wouldn't know how to approach someone - male or female.

i guess i'm you already and i'm gonna be 25 this year

 

once you graduate from college and enter the working world, its just hard to make friends let alone a female friends, things just not the same anymore

[eldergeek]

i guess i'm you already and i'm gonna be 25 this year

 

once you graduate from college and enter the working world, its just hard to make friends let alone a female friends, things just not the same anymore

 

I mean...Don't get me wrong; I don't regret my choices in so many words - I've achieved much, but it's been to the detriment of figuring out how to get along with people. I say or do something that upsets invariably, and people don't comprehend that I lack any kind of understanding.

[RyomaSJibenG]

I mean...Don't get me wrong; I don't regret my choices in so many words - I've achieved much, but it's been to the detriment of figuring out how to get along with people. I say or do something that upsets invariably, and people don't comprehend that I lack any kind of understanding.

and again we're the same(except the achievement part, i just started)

 

i don't really upset people its just that, people never bother to talk to me and its not like i just sit there doing nothing, i did initiate the talk too but its just short and awkward

[eldergeek]

and again we're the same(except the achievement part, i just started)

 

i don't really upset people its just that, people never bother to talk to me and its not like i just sit there doing nothing, i did initiate the talk too but its just short and awkward

 

"Hi my names Lee, And uh...They call me elder gee...that is to say on the net where I live....uh...dark spaces...basement...Oh fuck. Nice talking to you." lol

[RyomaSJibenG]

"Hi my names Lee, And uh...They call me elder gee...that is to say on the net where I live....uh...dark spaces...basement...Oh fuck. Nice talking to you." lol

i'm a little better(not stutter at all) than that but yeah you got the idea

[eldergeek]

i'm a little better(not stutter at all) than that but yeah you got the idea

 

That's actually the worst bit. I come across as boisterous on the net, but irl I'm very quiet, and tend to stutter my F, S and W words frequently when I'm anxious.

[ErickS89]

i guess i'm you already and i'm gonna be 25 this year

once you graduate from college and enter the working world, its just hard to make friends let alone a female friends, things just not the same anymore

Mid 30s is very common for marriages, most use their 20s to find themselves and get secured.

I don't stutter but I'm not the best speaker ever either...

[RyomaSJibenG]

Mid 30s is very common for marriages, most use their 20s to find themselves and get secured.

yeah i agree, its better to be secure first before finding one

[chimmychunger]

yeah i agree, its better to be secure first before finding one

 

but better to be broke together than alone right

[___]

Nope, 16 and no gf ever. I'm definitely not asking any girl out at my high-school. Girls don't like to talk to me because, depending on my mood, I'm either very sarcastic or irritable. With the sarcasm they'll glare at me and think I'm an asshole. They frustrate me also, I don't understand them and have trouble approaching people that are outside of my social group. I'm not posting this for help with girls, don't want any, just letting you know you're not alone. Just in-case the first 60 pages didn't give you any comfort.