How do I tell my girlfriend I am a Satanist?

[Guest Kloaked]

Just now, H0R53 said:

@Kloaked Who do you suppose I ask? I live by myself. What other forum is better? And you're 14? I'll keep that in mind.

The general demographic here are minors.

 

If you genuinely need relationship advice, you shouldn't be asking random people on the internet what to do, especially if you're supposedly a "satanist" and your lady friend is a "greek catholic".

[DKL]

Anyway, good luck. Stop following the topic, you're telling her. No need to follow it now, it will just be mostly trolls(and people judging) at this point.

I highly recommend telling her in person.

[Real_PhillBert]

I'm confused, in one sentence you're a devout satanist, and in another you're to embarrassed about your beliefs to tell her. 

 

Honestly, just go for it. I've dated a few women of differing religions, and as long as you aren't trying to force them to conform to your religion of choice, you'll likely be fine. Be prepared to defend your reasoning for choosing satanism though. 

[Princess Luna]

When I told my boyfriend that I am bisexual he only asked if I was still interested in him and if that would change anything on our relationship, I told him not and he pretty much never cared to it... so my point is; it really depends on the person receiving the news and not on how the news is delivered.

[TidaLWaveZ]

The answer is easy

 

WWSD?

[gcubed]

3 hours ago, Princess Cadence said:

When I told my boyfriend that I am bisexual he only asked if I was still interested in him and if that would change anything on our relationship, I told him not and he pretty much never cared to it... so my point is; it really depends on the person receiving the news and not on how the news is delivered.

 

There is one small difference here.

 

To the girlfriend's church, and in all probability, her family, a good number of her friends and herself, the words satan and satanist have a very specific definition (which apparently does not match the OP's definition). This definition is shared with many religions, not just Christianity.

So, when you told your boyfriend that you were bisexual he did not hear, "I am your enemy and the enemy of everything in which you believe".

[malon]

I just wonder how you managed to hide it for 6 freaking months without bringing it up tbh, isn't that a thing that gets discussed rather early in a relation or am i wrong here.

[PCBjon]

Ok this isnt taking a crack at anyone or been negative so dont get your knickers in a bunch.

 

OP your 20 years old and I amuse your lady is too, she likes god and you like the devil etc etc if you do break up over it is it really that bad?? I mean really your 20 years old thats all. I remember when I was that age I went from girlfriend to girlfriend. When you reach your 30s and 40s you look back say what a clown I was. What Im really trying to say is your still young dont take life so seriously when it comes to relationships, nine times out of ten they don't work anyway 

[Misanthrope]

3 hours ago, H0R53 said:

I'm honestly too nervous to tell her because I don't know how to tell her. I'm a bit scared to say it because our relationship has been mostly conflict-less. She found out I had a record (I was young and stupid) and she got over it within 24 hours, but this is something entirely different. Religion is something that helps people guide their lives. (this is true, by the way).

@Yoinkerman Both. More towards the first but instead of saying "Oh my god" I usually say something more appropriate like "Oh Hell" or "By the Dark Lord"

Bring it up just like that: "I know that religion is something that helps people with their lives, I'm ok if it helps with yours, It doesn't helps with mine at all and have no use for it"

 

If she still wants to save you or sees it as an impass then let bygones be bygone.

[HughMungusCynicalAnarch]

3 hours ago, H0R53 said:

I'm honestly too nervous to tell her because I don't know how to tell her. I'm a bit scared to say it because our relationship has been mostly conflict-less. She found out I had a record (I was young and stupid) and she got over it within 24 hours, but this is something entirely different. Religion is something that helps people guide their lives. (this is true, by the way).

@Yoinkerman Both. More towards the first but instead of saying "Oh my god" I usually say something more appropriate like "Oh Hell" or "By the Dark Lord"

Dont.

you sound like an edgy 14 year old attention whore snowflake.

grow up.

 

at least Catholics and Muslims and other men major religions have a source for their mythology, their parents and culture, and atheism is the natural position from birth and many are atheists and their parents too, but barely anyone(statiscially zero) is a satanist which makes me think you just want to be special.

[W-L]

This is first and foremost a tech forums, even though this is off topic this is not the place for this kind of stuff.

 

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