Good idea to hit on junior

[SufficientSwimmer]

2 minutes ago, Bajantechnician said:

So no incites to casual dinner and such ?

Casual dinner sounds good to me. I don't know if she's the type of person that likes casual dinners. I don't know this person, which I why I said that it's kinda up to you to continue this. I guess I can still try to give you suggestions on what to do, but they may not be useful.   

[Bajantechnician]

1 minute ago, kerfurfulsnitz said:

Casual dinner sounds good to me. I don't know if she's the type of person that likes casual dinners. I don't know this person, which I why I said that it's kinda up to you to continue this. I guess I can still try to give you suggestions on what to do, but they may not be useful.   

Any more suggestions?

thanks

[SufficientSwimmer]

20 minutes ago, Bajantechnician said:

Any more suggestions?

thanks

Actually... not really. All the stuff I can think of are kinda obvious (eg. taking her to the movies, don't spend a ton of money on her. I don't really have experience with being social... or dating... I'm actually kinda surprised I was able to help at all.) 

[Bajantechnician]

1 hour ago, kerfurfulsnitz said:

 

I don't really have experience with being social... or dating... I'm actually kinda surprised I was able to help at all.) 

same

(With the experience part)

Edited February 1, 2016 by Bajantechnician

[Bajantechnician]

1 hour ago, kerfurfulsnitz said:

Actually... not really. All the stuff I can think of are kinda obvious (eg. taking her to the movies, don't spend a ton of money on her. I don't really have experience with being social... or dating... I'm actually kinda surprised I was able to help at all.) 

Sorry.

Extra quotequote

Edited February 1, 2016 by Bajantechnician

[Kendrick]

Go for it.

you will regret not doing it later

[Bajantechnician]

45 minutes ago, Kendrick said:

Go for it.

you will regret not doing it later

How though

[Kendrick]

37 minutes ago, Bajantechnician said:

How though

You like her right,

I was in a similar situation around 3 years ago, I asked her out, we have been together since. I can not imagine my life without her. You have more good things coming at you when you go for it. The worst she could say is no...

[Bajantechnician]

5 minutes ago, Kendrick said:

You like her right,

I was in a similar situation around 3 years ago, I asked her out, we have been together since. I can not imagine my life without her. You have more good things coming at you when you go for it. The worst she could say is no...

whats the correct time to ask?

and where?

how?

[Kendrick]

6 minutes ago, Bajantechnician said:

whats the correct time to ask?

and where?

how?

first of all, do you really talk to her often

 

[Bajantechnician]

13 minutes ago, Kendrick said:

You like her right,

I was in a similar situation around 3 years ago, I asked her out, we have been together since. I can not imagine my life without her. You have more good things coming at you when you go for it. The worst she could say is no...

and how do i bring up the topic?

[Bajantechnician]

Just now, Kendrick said:

first of all, do you really talk to her often

 

nearly every day

4/7 days a week,

ocasional hi other 3 days

[VinsinityKT]

Go for it. The only thing you will regret is that you never tried. And then you are left with "what if" for the rest of your life. Enjoy high school is my advice. Have fun.

[Kendrick]

19 minutes ago, Bajantechnician said:

nearly every day

4/7 days a week,

ocasional hi other 3 days

Alright, for me this is what worked:

I approached her with confidence and good clothes, I knew that she loved movies and that she wanted to see a certain movie but never made any plans to see it;

I approached with a simple "Hey" and carried on the conversation until I asked her if she wanted to go out for a movie. I don't know if I was lucky at this part but she asked "As in a date?" and a confident "Yes" worked.

So, if you are scared of her saying no, just see if shes interested in you. (Laughing at your jokes, making eye contact, and seems to be happy around you.)

[Cactu]

I'm a freshman dating a junior so I say go for it

[Bajantechnician]

8 hours ago, Kendrick said:

Alright, for me this is what worked:

I approached her with confidence and good clothes, I knew that she loved movies and that she wanted to see a certain movie but never made any plans to see it;

I approached with a simple "Hey" and carried on the conversation until I asked her if she wanted to go out for a movie. I don't know if I was lucky at this part but she asked "As in a date?" and a confident "Yes" worked.

So, if you are scared of her saying no, just see if shes interested in you. (Laughing at your jokes, making eye contact, and seems to be happy around you.)

She does seem to smile a lot when I'm arround, and does make eye contact

Also, I have her number,  So I can call/text her, but I don't want to dodo it so much it gets obsessive and annoying

[Bajantechnician]

9 hours ago, Cactusneedle_18 said:

 

10 hours ago, VinsinityKT said:

^

[Bajantechnician]

Bump

[Crowes]

It'd rude to post the "Just do it!" video, but that's probably a pretty valid response to every single one of this sort of thread. 

There is finding every reason it could go wrong, then there is having the balls to go and ask a girl out regardless. If you find yourself using every one of those reasons to build anxiety about the possibility of a "no", then you're not mature enough for the relationship you expect in the end.

What's the worst that could happen? She tells her friends and it spreads; everyone finds it funny? Good, you had the balls that most boys that age don't. It's a complement. You'll never know if you sit in front of your mum's computer asking a load of techies if that girl we know nothing about will react well. Go find out for yourself.

[Bajantechnician]

12 hours ago, Cactusneedle_18 said:

I'm a freshman dating a junior so I say go for it

 

13 hours ago, Kendrick said:

Alright, for me this is what worked:

I approached her with confidence and good clothes, I knew that she loved movies and that she wanted to see a certain movie but never made any plans to see it;

I approached with a simple "Hey" and carried on the conversation until I asked her if she wanted to go out for a movie. I don't know if I was lucky at this part but she asked "As in a date?" and a confident "Yes" worked.

So, if you are scared of her saying no, just see if shes interested in you. (Laughing at your jokes, making eye contact, and seems to be happy around you.)

Bump

[Kendrick]

my final say is go for it

irl

[Bajantechnician]

2 hours ago, Kendrick said:

my final say is go for it

irl

irl.

heh

heh

[Kendrick]

1 hour ago, Bajantechnician said:

irl.

heh

heh

well if you want a no then ask  online lmao

[Bajantechnician]

6 minutes ago, Kendrick said:

well if you want a no then ask  online lmao

Clarify?

[Vivilacqua1]

I don't think it would be a good idea (btw, only read first post so far) because in a Junior, and would find it weird if a freshmen hit on me. But that could just be me.