Girlfriend Help

[SkilledRebuilds]

Ah. I didn't mean to copy you, I stopped reading the comments after just a couple.

Oh I didn't mean to mean it like that..

But I agree with everything we said

[unijab]

[Tygron]

Are you satisfied with everything about her?

Answer is usually no, nobody is perfect.

Would you be willing to overlook or work through [with her] the bad parts?

If answer is yes - Keep her.

Also, Make sure she feels the same way about the above two questions.

This. All this.

Communication is also important. Sit down and talk about it, make sure she know's how you feel about it and make sure you know how she feels. Do it calmly, do it like an adult. There's no point in raising your voice and making it all hostile, just talk.

 

And yes, all relationships have their ups and downs. While i'd be a little more... cautious or observant (but not to the point you're sticking your nose in her business every 2 seconds or anything like that) I think it probably was just a goodbye kiss. She probably still loves him, and that's ok. The important part here is if she loves you, and wants you. As long as she's not more interested in him, or would go back with him were he to move back closer. So while i'd be upset over the kiss, i'd understand it enough to just let it go.

 

If you're in a relationship just for the heck of it, and you'd dump her or she'd dump you at the smallest sign of trouble (something I saw way too much of in high school) then just... why.... why bother? Find someone that you know you want, that you really love. Someone that when something does go bad you can suck it up or help them out and move on. Relationships aren't flawless experiences... if it is then you're one lucky son of a bitch. Your partner is gonna make you upset, angry, mad, disappoint you, you're going to get into awkward situations, you're gonna do stuff that does the same to her. But it happens, and if it's something you two need to talk about then do so. As long as you trust them, and you both explain your side of things in a calm and in a way to try to come to some middle ground then I think you should be fine.

 

Some other people here have said some good things too, and really in the end it's all up to you.

[Kingofpants]

This. All this.

Communication is also important. Sit down and talk about it, make sure she know's how you feel about it and make sure you know how she feels. Do it calmly, do it like an adult. There's no point in raising your voice and making it all hostile, just talk.

And yes, all relationships have their ups and downs. While i'd be a little more... cautious or observant (but not to the point you're sticking your nose in her business every 2 seconds or anything like that) I think it probably was just a goodbye kiss. She probably still loves him, and that's ok. The important part here is if she loves you, and wants you. As long as she's not more interested in him, or would go back with him were he to move back closer. So while i'd be upset over the kiss, i'd understand it enough to just let it go.

If you're in a relationship just for the heck of it, and you'd dump her or she'd dump you at the smallest sign of trouble (something I saw way too much of in high school) then just... why.... why bother? Find someone that you know you want, that you really love. Someone that when something does go bad you can suck it up or help them out and move on. Relationships aren't flawless experiences... if it is then you're one lucky son of a bitch. Your partner is gonna make you upset, angry, mad, disappoint you, you're going to get into awkward situations, you're gonna do stuff that does the same to her. But it happens, and if it's something you two need to talk about then do so. As long as you trust them, and you both explain your side of things in a calm and in a way to try to come to some middle ground then I think you should be fine.

Some other people here have said some good things too, and really in the end it's all up to you.

A like would have been nice...

[ZacDaMan72]

Kiss another girl for the same time near your girlfriend and see how she reacts. Then you can blame it on her kiss.

[MrTomnus]

I think one thing you have to find out is who kissed who. If he kissed her, maybe you can work things out since she might have just tried to be polite and accept it instead of shoving him away. After all, you said they were friends and knew each other. If she kissed him though, then that's worse news. 

 

This is difficult to help you with because we don't know these people. They could have a lot of different reasons for doing anything. You should have a conversation with someone that knows one of them so you can make sense of it all. Don't throw your girlfriend on the side for now - you should tell her you just need some time to think while you speak to somebody. Hopefully that also gives her time to reflect on what she did and how she feels about you. I hope everything goes okay

[LukaP]

Trow the bitch in the trashcan there's plenty of fish in the sea.If there's something i learned by now is not to care about a woman until i spend a lil more time with her and 6 months is not much.They are all the same no matter what you say of feel for her

That is completly wrong they arent all the same...

[Recon97]

Dump her before she dumps you horribly.She still posses feelings for him.Don't trust her.Get another girl.

[nanowatt]

That is completly wrong they arent all the same...

Is not mate you will see in time.Some of them they aren't that's true but most of them are.I had girlfriends that were "dating" me and they were "married" or had a relation ship for over a year...most of them cheat sooner or later

[LukaP]

Is not mate you will see in time.Some of them they aren't that's true but most of them are.I had girlfriends that were "dating" me and they were "married" or had a relation ship for over a year...most of them cheat sooner or later

you must have a very weird experience, or gipsies have a different culture... here its rare to see that.  

 

or it might just be the sister....

[Tygron]

A like would have been nice...

Not a feature of the forum I use too often. Forgot it was there, sorry.;

[Mooshi]

This is all based on personality. I know my gf well and her mannerisms. Still a bad move to kiss an ex, that part seems a bit off, but it could very well be innocent if that's just a thing she does. Communication is very vital in a relationship. Otherwise, she might still have feelings for him. If she really loves you, she'll stay true. If not, cut her now since 6mo isn't that long.

[Tacitus]

It wasn't full on kissing, it was maybe 3-5 seconds...

 

3-5 seconds!?!?

 

I had thought maybe it's not that bad, just a kiss on the cheek or whatever, but that's inexcusable.

 

It might be hard buddy, but you're going to have to cut this one loose.

[SeriouslyMikey]

Bit of a long kiss to say that it is only a goodbye one. 

Probably best to break up.