Just another sad topic

[Lingrah]

So I'm a mid-teen(i'm not gonna specify age) and im just not happy.  I know so many other teens are feeling this way but hearing their recovery stories just make me feel worse. I have heard so many solutions and none work.  People say hang with friends but this is pointless.  I have 1 really good friend that we have had similar problems but he lives across the f*cking country!!!!! I have 2 other friends (i mean good ones like that i can talk to and hang out with)  that live near but that doesn't help.  One of them just can't laugh (which laughing is the only thing that makes me feel a little better).  My other friend is ALWAYS busy.  

 

I can't get a girlfriend for a couple reasons:

1) I am ugly AF 

2) I am not fit (not fat but not  fit as well)

3) I have frequent mood swings

4) Every girl in my school that is my age are those girls like: OMG boys are gross, and girls like: i'm not dating till i'm 18.  The only girls my age at my school that would date only like the most popular boys

5) I don't open myself to anyone

6) the only girls that will date that i like are to much older than me

 

Another thing is my parents are divorced.  This is sort of a good thing because i HATE my dad!  The problem is my parents each have 50% custody.  So 50% of the time i'm trapped in that hell.

 

I am home schooled (when I mentioned people in my school i was referring to group classes/activities with other homeschoolers) and i am 2 grades ahead.  I have so much school to do.  School was never hard until this year.   I was a straight A student until this year i'm struggling to pull Cs.  I spend 3-5 hours a day in my least favorite class.  Plus i spent about 3 hours over the weekend on this course!  Plus i have 2 hours reading daily for  this class.  Then i have a collage web design course that requires 2+ hours a day.   I am trying to take an advanced geometry course but hardly finding the time to.  I had to drop one of my classes earlier this year because i simply could do all of these.  That gives my GPA a massive smack however this isnt a big deal because i currently have an over 100% GPA because school has been so easy and i have been ale to get 10+ credits a year.

 

I want to game but i can only do it at my moms for a couple reasons:

1) My dad puts a one hour cap on non school related technology use daily.

2) My computer i keep at  my moms

 

I want to play sports but I can't for two reasons:

1) I DON'T HAVE THE TIME!!!!!

2) I got pneumonia a few years ago and it hurt my lung and now i have NO stamina

 

I want to play guitar but i don't have the time.

 

I have to deal with my dad

 

I want to skateboard but I can never go  to the park and besides that don't have the time

 

I enjoy building computers but don't have the money to.

 

I want to get a job but no one will hire me during the school year.

 

I enjoy searching for parts and creating virtual PCs but then i get depressed that i can't get a job to buy them

 

I have to deal with my dad

 

No one likes me except my 3 friends lIke me

 

I'm always bored.   I have tried so many things to solve this but none work.  I love watching and creating YouTube videos but i can only do it at my mom's.  My dad has limited broadband and only allows me 1Gb non school internet per month

 

I have 60+ unplayed games n my steam library and i can never find any to play

 

I'm really good at getting into heated arguments and fights

 

 The little spare time i have i waste doing some of these things:

1) posting on LTT

2) Watching/posting youtube videos

3) Browsing deviantart

4) Deciding what game to play

5) Dealing with my dad

6) Hacking people i don't likes instagram and posting random stuff

7) Screwing with my computer (mods/hacks/cracks/web design/programing/animation)

 

I can't talk to anyone about my problems for fear they will tell my parents (i know allot of the people reading this could find ways to contact my parents and tell them but please don't)

 

I can't call a help line in fear my mom will see the number in my call log (my mom respects my privacy but i'm just paranoid one day she will check)

 

I have to deal with my dad

 

I love music but the radio (which when i'm at my dads all i do is lay on the floor listening to my radio) only plays really bad songs over and over again.  I listen to spotify but i can't at my dad's because that is on my phone/computer only.

 

So there is my life.  Well all my life i could type in my one hour.  I still i have so much more to say but i just can't for my own sake.  I don't want sympathy and i don't want people telling my life will be perfect in the future, maybe it will be, but i'm so sick of hearing people say: just make it through this then life will be perfect.  Just give  me advice or pass this up.  Any hate will be removed and reported.

 

Edit: did i mention i have to deal with my dad?

 

Edit 2: i had a hard time trying to word this in a good order so i just jotted everything down in no order. 

[Clyne]

This is one of the longest rants i'd ever seen on LTT.

[OriginalPromise]

I can't get a girlfriend for a couple reasons:

1) I am ugly AF 

2) I am not fit (not fat but not  fit as well)

3) I have frequent mood swings

4) Every girl in my school that is my age are those girls like: OMG boys are gross, and girls like: i'm not dating till i'm 18.  The only girls my age at my school that would date only like the most popular boys

5) I don't open myself to anyone

6) the only girls that will date that i like are to much older than me

Stop complaining, change yourself.

1. Lose the hairstyle, develop your sense of fashion. Also, plastic surgery is an option as a last resort.

2. Work out. Don't have time? 

Bodybuilding is more reliant on diet, not about how many benches or pull ups you perform. 

3. Prescription drugs are available. You can at least try to fix your attitude. It works, as I used to be a spoiled and undisciplined brat.

4. Really I don't know why this can be a problem. You can try online dating.

5. Then try opening yourself to somebody, like your crush.

6. Love comes in all shapes and sizes. It's the 21st century. However, if this is the problem; just wait it out until the other girls "mature". 

 

Care about yourself and you won't be ugly. 

@Tech_Dreamer

 

I wish I can be more sympathetic but I have a similar (or even worse) situation compared to yours. 

I mean my parents are divorced as well, I go to a very competitive school, then there's the school drama, I have to do chores, god damn homework that takes 3 hours at the least everyday, etc.

Just suck it up, stop complaining, and make the girls attracted to you.

Don't expect them to be attracted to you for nothing.

[Whypatch]

It always gets better. Keep your head up, bud.

[X1XNobleX1X]

 

 

 

#Linusdatingtips

 

To be honest, who needs a girlfriend?  

 

 

 

 

P.S My computer is my GF. 

[Clyne]

#Linusdatingtips

 

To be honest, who needs a girlfriend?

@Trik'Stari

I think

[Lingrah]

#Linusdatingtips

 

To be honest, who needs a girlfriend?

 

 

 

 

P.S My computer is my GF. 

[givingtnt]

#Linusdatingtips

 

To be honest, who needs a girlfriend?

 

 

 

 

P.S My computer is my GF. 

humm. I think you might want to use a "hand"

[sabot]

"6) Hacking people i don't likes instagram and posting random stuff"

 

Why do you do this? This is something that will make people hate you! Instead you should work on preventing this bug!

As for your dad, you should talk to your mom about it and see if custody can be changed.

[MegaDave91]

Stop complaining, change yourself.

1. Change your hairstyle and sense of fashion. Also, plastic surgery is an option as a last resort.

2. Work out. Don't have time? 

Bodybuilding is more reliant on diet, not about how many benches or pull ups you perform. 

 

Why the hell would you recommend plastic surgery? You're really too young to be giving advice...

 

Gaining lean muscle is a combination of hard work, both lifting and eating clean foods.

[Guest Kloaked]

Tough up mate. I was unpopular in my high school. No one talked to me, but I didn't want to really talk to anyone anyways because I was almost always around the stupidest people, not by choice. When people did talk to me, it almost always ended up in a fight because I hate dealing with people's bullshit. I don't start them, but the situations almost always ended up in fights.

 

I've seen so many people from school who I used to get in fights with and such, almost always end up in jail or in some kind of trouble. And I'm just sitting here going to school, not involved in drugs and other stupid shit.

 

You literally have your whole life ahead of you - everyone's going to keep telling you that, but it's true.

[OriginalPromise]

Why the hell would you recommend plastic surgery? You're really too young to be giving advice...

Is seeking improvement a bad thing?

That kind of mentality is weakening the youth. 

Also, beauty superficiality is now a fact, not a myth.

[Norman_the_Owl]

You just sound like a 14 year old who thinks he's 16.

Whether that's true or not, you just need an attitude change.

[vern021]

I can't get a girlfriend for a couple reasons:

1) I am ugly AF 

2) I am not fit (not fat but not  fit as well)

3) I have frequent mood swings

4) Every girl in my school that is my age are those girls like: OMG boys are gross, and girls like: i'm not dating till i'm 18.  The only girls my age at my school that would date only like the most popular boys

5) I don't open myself to anyone

6) the only girls that will date that i like are to much older than me

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I'm only around 45kgs. and I'm around 5'8" and you don't see me complaining. I know this is a bit harsh but stop looking for a girlfriend. I've been there done that. Give yourself some self esteem and some confidence. The only way you can turn your life around is to do yourself a favor and don't give a fck with your dad and don't complain on what you do. I'm 17 and I'm already working as a student assistant in the IT department on my school because I want to. If you want it then go get it. You won't do yourself a favor if you keep complaining.

[Lingrah]

Stop complaining, change yourself.

1. Change your hairstyle and sense of fashion. Also, plastic surgery is an option as a last resort.

2. Work out. Don't have time? 

Bodybuilding is more reliant on diet, not about how many benches or pull ups you perform. 

3. Prescription drugs are available. You can at least try to fix your attitude. It works, as I used to be a spoiled and undisciplined brat.

4. Really I don't know why this can be a problem. You can try online dating.

5. Then try opening yourself to somebody, like your crush.

6. Love comes in all shapes and sizes. It's the 21st century. However, if this is the problem; just wait it out until the other girls "mature". 

 

Care about yourself and you won't be ugly. 

@Tech_Dreamer

 

I wish I can be more sympathetic but I have a similar (or even worse) situation compared to yours. 

I mean my parents are divorced as well, I go to a very competitive school, then there's the school drama, I have to do chores, god damn homework that takes 3 hours at the least everyday, etc.

Just suck it up, stop complaining, and make the girls attracted to you.

Don't expect them to be attracted to you for nothing.

Your a dumbass and "I mean my parents are divorced as well, I go to a very competitive school, then there's the school drama, I have to do chores, god damn homework that takes 3 hours at the least everyday, etc." i wish my problems were that simple

[MegaDave91]

Is seeking improvement a bad thing?

That kind of mentality is weakening the youth. 

Also, beauty superficiality is now a fact, not a myth.

Never said it was bad, and it appears like you look at too many magazines and pictures online that are heavily photoshopped.

[vern021]

Your a dumbass and "I mean my parents are divorced as well, I go to a very competitive school, then there's the school drama, I have to do chores, god damn homework that takes 3 hours at the least everyday, etc." i wish my problems were that simple

ehem ehem. You're*. I think you're talking to the wrong people. This forum isn't for life advice and I'm fcking sure there's a person here who has a problem a hell lot worse than yours. I know you're probably thinking I'm a fcking dumbass but you can't gain anything if you keep complaining and not do anything about it.

[Lingrah]

You just sound like a 14 year old who thinks he's 16.

Whether that's true or not, you just need an attitude change.

Well that is not true, and i would love an "attitude change" but that isn't something that you control it sorta just happens.. i think

[Lingrah]

Is seeking improvement a bad thing?

That kind of mentality is weakening the youth. 

Also, beauty superficiality is now a fact, not a myth.

Please leave this post and go back to reading female magazines

[SSOB]

If you are under fourteen years old. I am sorry to possibly hurt your feelings but your arguments are invalid. You're also saying you are bored but when it comes to sports you have no time?? I understand your illness is making it more difficult to sport but you can easaly do some benching or something that doenst involve cardio that much ( of course you'll have to dok s little cardio to stay fit enough and warming up) , my advice would be to see a doctor and ask him what is safe go do. As for your dad, sit down with him and have a good talk, tell him things he does wrong and things he does right but stay calm and friednly. As for the girls... I can write paragraph after paragraph for this "problem". One of the best tips I can give you is to be as social as you can, even if that means you have to get and actually talk to people ( I know ,scary right)? Most girls also find clothing and personal hygiene very importabt . I'm not telling you to get the latest Roberto cavali denim and armani shirt or w/e ( although with some girls that's a plus) just try to keep up with fashion but do not give up your own style. E.g. if you really like a certain band try to wear fashionable clothes butg give it an own twist by wearing a mercy hat or mercy t shirt. Anyway I hope this helps and goodluck getting a little happier ☺

[Norman_the_Owl]

Well that is not true, and i would love an "attitude change" but that isn't something that you control it sorta just happens.. i think

Yea, it does just sorta happen.

 

You just sorta make it happen.

 

Edit: And for the record if you browse 9gag/still think rage faces are cool thats an automatic 0/10 from all females and most guys

[Lingrah]

 

"6) Hacking people i don't likes instagram and posting random stuff"

 

Why do you do this? This is something that will make people hate you! Instead you should work on preventing this bug!

As for your dad, you should talk to your mom about it and see if custody can be changed.

 

I have tried for a custody change but it doesn't happen.  I can't really know how to make a bug to researching about the pearson finding out enough about them to get there password.  there isn't a fix to that.

[MegaDave91]

You may also be depressed, and if such is the case you should seek help. If you truly are, then all of these above recommendations are nothing more than a bandage. Depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain and cannot be changed simply by way of thinking. 

[EthanMcL]

"I'm always bored."

and

"I dont have the time to do [insert]."

 

Those are very opposite.  If you are bored, take up guitar.

[Lingrah]

If you are under fourteen years old. I am sorry to possibly hurt your feelings but your arguments are invalid. You're also saying you are bored but when it comes to sports you have no time?? I understand your illness is making it more difficult to sport but you can easaly do some benching or something that doenst involve cardio that much ( of course you'll have to dok s little cardio to stay fit enough and warming up) , my advice would be to see a doctor and ask him what is safe go do. As for your dad, sit down with him and have a good talk, tell him things he does wrong and things he does right but stay calm and friednly. As for the girls... I can write paragraph after paragraph for this "problem". One of the best tips I can give you is to be as social as you can, even if that means you have to get and actually talk to people ( I know ,scary right)? Most girls also find clothing and personal hygiene very importabt . I'm not telling you to get the latest Roberto cavali denim and armani shirt or w/e ( although with some girls that's a plus) just try to keep up with fashion but do not give up your own style. E.g. if you really like a certain band try to wear fashionable clothes butg give it an own twist by wearing a mercy hat or mercy t shirt. Anyway I hope this helps and goodluck getting a little happier ☺

Thanks, I'm not under 14.  I had issues then but not this bad.   And about the sports I have tried all you have said.  Talking to my dad just makes it worse, like legit it really makes him mad and even worse!  The girls, I do get up and talk, i do socialize and personal hygiene is something i keep god.  As for style, the only cloths my dad gets me are his handmedowns and my mom is when there is when i'm outgrowing my cloths she will take me shopping and i get cloths.  So i get new clothes and the "latest fashion" about once a year.  Thanks