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[VossyDev]

It sounds like it was a little more than just a "friendship", given the attachment you still have towards her. If she wants time away from you then give her the space - constantly trying to get back into her life when she wants that space isn't going to help 

[MyLittleFella]

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[MyLittleFella]

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[MyLittleFella]

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[LDX]

There is only one chance to get her

 

Create an account on fortnite and u need to get really good at it

then u need to go and challenge ninja 

and after u won, u will dedicate ur victory to her

then she will see at you with tears in her eyes

in the meantime a def leppards song plays in the background

then u go and run into her to huge her and then u wake up

cause it was all a dream..  

 

game over man 

[Arika]

So basically she was a romantic interest of yours.

 

Depending on what you did "wrong" then yes, it's entirely possible that it's over. The worst thing you can do is pester her about it and constantly asking for forgiveness. The ball is in her court, what happens next is up to her, very little to nothing you can actually do about it.

 

if she's truly a friend of yours and not just someone you talked to every now and again, then you may end up speaking again, i go through this with friends all the time, they or i do/say something dumb, we don't speak for a while, but eventually contact each other again.

 

the thing you did wasn't about progressing your relationship was it?

[MyLittleFella]

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[Paul Rudd]

27 minutes ago, MyLittleFella said:

go away

No matter what, do this.

 

27 minutes ago, MyLittleFella said:

srsly stop!!

This means she doesn't want you in her life at all. Tough to believe, but trust me, it's true. The best thing you can do in this situation is move on with your life. Better your life. And focus your future. If you do this, it will attract her to you naturally. What you're doing now, she pities.

[bleedblue]

I'm basically in the same position as you...except it's been over a year.

It sucks.

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[jiyeon]

11 hours ago, MyLittleFella said:

I already asked for her forgiviness and she did forgive me, but she wants some time away from me. I don't know if she'll ever come back. And I keep asking myself: Is she gonna be able to drop everything because one wrong thing I did? Basically, I went to talk to her about a subject for the 100th time, she got mad at me and kinda snaped.

The thing to do is stop talking about the incident(s). Leave her be and give her some time, say a week or two just so the dust can settle.

 

11 hours ago, MyLittleFella said:

I did somethings wrong, and I regret it tll this day. It's been almost one month and I still can't get over it. I think about her and I everyday. I want to let it go but I can't.

I can relate, doing something wrong lingers in your mind for weeks, and it really does hurt, believe me. The thing to do is to remember what you did before you took great interest in her, whether that be your own hobbies or sports, live your own lifestyle, keeping her in your mind is unhealthy, and the more you try to forget, the harder it becomes.

 

11 hours ago, MyLittleFella said:

Now, everytime I think or do something related to this common interest, I get bad, sad, and shit... Help anyone?

Think about what you're doing now, you said cars was the common interest, so when you're looking at for example a Nissan GTR R35 2017 edition, focus your mind on that, think about that Godly V6 engine and twin turbo in the NISMO edition. Glorious, isn't it? GTRs are my favorite cars, the 2017 one being my obvious favorite, the aero looks so nice on it.

 

See, when you only think about what you like, that's when she starts to disappear and you can regain control of your own life. Forgive yourself, apologise once and only once, let her live her own life, and you live yours. Spend time with family and friends, do what you like doing, and things will become better. Only then can you approach her once again and catch up amongst yourselves.  

[spwath]

It might be helpful to know what you did to make her call you a child.

[Guest]

Let me introduce you to bad habits drugs and alcohol! 

 

Dont worry, just get a hobby like masturbating playing video games or making things. Another few good hobbies are reading porn magazines books or learning something new. 

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[jiyeon]

3 minutes ago, MyLittleFella said:

I never thought about it from this "angle". Thank you friend!

Don't worry, friend. Time will make it better for the both of you.  Emotions are a powerful thing, just keep going on and everything will be whole again.  I wish you the best of luck!

[MyLittleFella]

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[Teddy07]

I gave up dealing with women, a waste of time. 

[Froody129]

3 hours ago, Teddy07 said:

I gave up dealing with women, a waste of time. 

Everything thinks this for a while  

 

What you do here is just leave her alone. She's asked you nicely and it's weird to just keep pushing it. Keep your distance but remain open to her (if you get what I mean?). If she wants to she'll open back up and if she doesn't then it's over. Always remain respectful of peoples' boundaries 

[LAwLz]

On 8/28/2018 at 5:09 AM, MyLittleFella said:

I did somethings wrong, and I regret it tll this day.

What did you do?

Don't give me the full story about why it happened. Just in the maximum of 2 sentences say what happened.

 

On 8/28/2018 at 5:09 AM, MyLittleFella said:

I already asked for her forgiviness and she did forgive me, but she wants some time away from me.

Then you should respect that and give her some breathing room.

The worst thing you can do right now is constantly pester her about it when she just wants to be away from you.

 

 

On 8/28/2018 at 5:09 AM, MyLittleFella said:

Is she gonna be able to drop everything because one wrong thing I did?

Well, I can already tell you have done two things wrong. The thing you seem to avoid telling us about, and constantly pester her about getting back to together. Chances are there are more things that you don't even realize you've done wrong.

 

On 8/28/2018 at 5:09 AM, MyLittleFella said:

Basically, I went to talk to her about a subject for the 100th time, she got mad at me and kinda snaped.

I completely understand why she snapped and you should seriously just back off for a while.

 

On 8/28/2018 at 6:17 AM, MyLittleFella said:

The bond we have/had, is strong. Very strong.

Apparently it wasn't, since in your mind you only did "one thing wrong" and it ended everything.

 

On 8/28/2018 at 6:17 AM, MyLittleFella said:

Last thing she told me was: " i told you, go away, i dont wanna talk to you till you grow up, you are acting like a damn child (MyName), srsly stop!!"

Want a tips?

LISTEN TO WHAT SHE IS SAYING!

When someone tells you to go away, you go away. Simple as that. Doing anything else will be counterproductive. The more you try and contact her, the worst position you will be putting yourself into.

 

It is likely that she could have forgiven you if you had stayed away and let her think for a bit. But your constant pestering and whining pushed her over the edge and decided that she don't want to be with you anymore.

 

14 hours ago, MyLittleFella said:

She promised me something, I was anxious about it, I'd talk to her about the same thing for the 100th time, she was in a bad day and we started arguing. She left in the middle of it and I stayed there on messenger acting childish.

So let me get this straight.

The thing you did wrong was to talk to her about something for the 100th time, and she got annoyed by it.

And now you're trying to fix that, by bringing it up 100 times even when she don't want to talk about it?

 

If that's the case then clearly you haven't learn by your mistake.

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[Quadriplegic]

15 hours ago, MyLittleFella said:

She promised me something, I was anxious about it, I'd talk to her about the same thing for the 100th time, she was in a bad day and we started arguing. She left in the middle of it and I stayed there on messenger acting childish.

If she has promised you something and is taking her sweet time to keep the promise, she is partly at fault too

[LAwLz]

3 minutes ago, MyLittleFella said:

I completely stopped talking to her for more than 10 days already, before that, was like... After the incident, I tried to talk to her 4 times.

You still haven't told me what "the incident" was.

Judging by how much you're avoiding a straight answer, my guess is that it's quite severe and you think the forum will turn on you if you disclose it.

 

Don't ask for advice if you're going to hide critical information.

 

 

 

Anyway, to answer your original question (which I don't believe you want an answer for). If you want to move on then meet new people and maybe try some other hobby.

Your current hobby probably reminds you of her, which is depressing. What you need is to have fun without thinking of her.

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