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I met this girl at the beginning of the school year (september 2015). We're both high schoolers and we're the same age. I feel attracted to her. We talk on skype like everyday (since like 3 weeks ago). We started talking on skype because we both play league and now we play together. We play other games together too like tera which she got me into. Not sure if infatuation or love. I honestly feel very confused, I know I'm attracted to her but asfdjl;k;jklafsd;jlkasdj;klasdf words. She has many other guy friends, one that I don't particularly know. One of them is a creep or jealous (got catfished). I feel like I'm missing stuff so feel free to ask questions, I tend to be very forgetful of the small details.

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you need to meet in person more and you have to sense if it's on and if it's not you need to learn how to turn it on

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Ask her out. If that dude is a cock knuckle, kick his ass.

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Ask her out. If that dude is a cock knuckle, kick his ass.

we like legit just met not so long ago, I don't want to rush

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This advice is coming from a 20+ year old.

 

My advice: Just wait. Why? Well, here's the reason. If you like her, you'll still like her a month or two from now. If its just infatuation, you'll get over her by then. 

Also, try hanging out and doing things together, like movies, ski/snowboarding, hiking, etc. Get a feel for eachother, as in see what you guys have in common, likes, dislikes.

 

I believe you should wait for dating until after high school. If she likes you, she'll stick around and still hangout with you.

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This advice is coming from a 20+ year old.

 

My advice: Just wait. Why? Well, here's the reason. If you like her, you'll still like her a month or two from now. If its just infatuation, you'll get over her by then. 

Also, try hanging out and doing things together, like movies, ski/snowboarding, hiking, etc. Get a feel for eachother, as in see what you guys have in common, likes, dislikes.

 

I believe you should wait for dating until after high school. If she likes you, she'll stick around and still hangout with you.

 

As someone else who is also 20+, I agree. True love can happen around highschool. In fact, I knew a girl who dated her high school crush and now they are married with a daughter together. That said, this situation is very rare. Chances are, you're most likely to find true love post high school. I say get a feel for this girl after awhile to see where it heads, but don't prematurely invest everything you got.

 

Keep this in mind that this is coming from someone living with their significant other of 4 years.

 

 

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This advice is coming from a 20+ year old.

 

My advice: Just wait. Why? Well, here's the reason. If you like her, you'll still like her a month or two from now. If its just infatuation, you'll get over her by then. 

Also, try hanging out and doing things together, like movies, ski/snowboarding, hiking, etc. Get a feel for eachother, as in see what you guys have in common, likes, dislikes.

 

I believe you should wait for dating until after high school. If she likes you, she'll stick around and still hangout with you.

 

As someone else who is also 20+, I agree. True love can happen around highschool. In fact, I knew a girl who dated her high school crush and now they are married with a daughter together. That said, this situation is very rare. Chances are, you're most likely to find true love post high school. I say get a feel for this girl after awhile to see where it heads, but don't prematurely invest everything you got.

 

Keep this in mind that this is coming from someone living with their significant other of 4 years.

We both love gaming so does that count? Or should we do something else? Nervous about being alone together so would a group gather work?

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we like legit just met not so long ago, I don't want to rush

Then have fun getting friendzoned bud.

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