Anyone else Girlfriend-Problems?

[Cryptonite]

well to my understanding women dont even know what they really want. they think they do but in reality they are unhappy if they just get what they want there needs to be a back and forth

agreed.

[cluelessgenius]

dude if i were you i would

1- explain to her that your techie life is a mandatory and she deserve all of your time but that is life  work and live

2- immediately i would give her a good fuck that she will never forget for the rest of her life

3- considering you're rich enough to have a house,apartment,Filla whatever place to live i'd offer her a marriage ring

4- all these advices is coming to you from a single 27 years old middle eastern male who have never seen a pussy in his life

5- girls deserve to have your time unless you want her just for bed ... not for  a life time relationship (Marriage)

dude i totaly forgot about you but there are some words you need to hear...

 

...do stuff that makes you embarrased or uncomfortable it help with building confidence a lot. your brain needs to learn that those situations are ok to be in. and taht only works be jumpping into them without thinking.

 

also i dont know what you are insecure about but looks or money dont matter. confidence an character all the way you need to take charge of your life and do what you want to do without thinking about shit too much.

 

i dont know if this helps but it is what i would have needed to hear so hang in there....or actually...dont hang in there, go out!

[Mooshi]

Cute voice, adorable smile, has a pervy side, is submissive, has banging hips, is Japanese/Irish, open minded, very understanding, is a gamer girl, we share the same fav gen in Pokemon, isn't afraid of spiders/snakes/rodents, actually likes food instead of being THAT girl who only eats rabbit food...

 

Nope. No girlfriend problems here.

[cluelessgenius]

Cute voice, adorable smile, has a pervy side, is submissive, has banging hips, is Japanese/Irish, open minded, very understanding, is a gamer girl, we share the same fav gen in Pokemon, isn't afraid of spiders/snakes/rodents, actually likes food instead of being THAT girl who only eats rabbit food...

 

Nope. No girlfriend problems here.

good for you man 

[Mooshi]

good for you man 

 

I did have a clingy ex once who would get mad if I didn't give her attention 24/7. Wanting "me time" is completely understandable no matter how attractive your significant other is. I'm with you on that one.

[cluelessgenius]

I did have a clingy ex once who would get mad if I didn't give her attention 24/7. Wanting "me time" is completely understandable no matter how attractive your significant other is. I'm with you on that one.

thanks any idea on what to do with her?

[Leonard]

i was just wondering how other people handle their time. because my girlfriend...

 

(let me brag here for a second)

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(back on topic)

...constantly complains about me not having time for her and spending the little free time i have infront of the pc instead with her. in my opinion we are fine i mean i do sometimes take some "me"-time but isnt that normal?

 

anyway i was wondering if any of you have/had similar problems or completely different ones.

lets hear it.

All you need to do is say while looking deep into her eyes is, i'm sorry sweets, i was just occupying myself as i thought, maybe, i was overwhelming you and i don't want us to fight. I hate arguing with the people i love or care about(use either one, love or care about but not both and if you use love you will be spared but not you will have to act that way)

 

When she say ok babes i understand and according to what she says or do you yell in your mind GAME ON! and continue to play whatever.

 

obey her i guess

Do you even know what it means to be a man?????

 

dude if i were you i would

1- explain to her that your techie life is a mandatory and she deserve all of your time but that is life  work and live

2- immediately i would give her a good fuck that she will never forget for the rest of her life

3- considering you're rich enough to have a house,apartment,Filla whatever place to live i'd offer her a marriage ring

4- all these advices is coming to you from a single 27 years old middle eastern male who have never seen a pussy in his life

5- girls deserve to have your time unless you want her just for bed ... not for  a life time relationship (Marriage)

:rolleyes: Forget everything this guys says, where he is from, women don't really have a say so you would be able to get away with that there but not in the west unless you have a "trap house"

[Mooshi]

thanks any idea on what to do with her?

 

Could always try to compromise. I mean, don't flat out say she's being clingy or phrase it in a way that reads "I think we need time apart". Just be blunt that sometimes you like having time alone to do stuff your into, but that it doesn't mean you don't love her. Hopefully she'd understand.

[cluelessgenius]

All you need to do is say while looking deep into her eyes is, i'm sorry sweets, i was just occupying myself as i thought, maybe, i was overwhelming you and i don't want us to fight. I hate arguing with the people i love or care about(use either one, love or care about but not both and if you use love you will be spared but not you will have to act that way)

 

When she say ok babes i understand and according to what she says or do you yell in your mind GAME ON! and continue to play whatever.

 

Do you even know what it means to be a man?????

 

:rolleyes: Forget everything this guys says, where he is from, women don't really have a say so you would be able to get away with that there but not in the west unless you have a "trap house"

i can hear her go "oh screw that you liar" if i said that i mean shed be half laughing so nothing serious but still i cant fool her like that she sees right trough that 

[Manny Calavera]

 

Do you even know what it means to be a man?????

no  tell me

[cluelessgenius]

Could always try to compromise. I mean, don't flat out say she's being clingy or phrase it in a way that reads "I think we need time apart". Just be blunt that sometimes you like having time alone to do stuff your into, but that it doesn't mean you don't love her. Hopefully she'd understand.

what if she wants to get in an "share time doing stuff i like" i find that cute but you know those people in the cinema always asking "what did he that for? whos that? why are they running?" i dont need that also i just generally need time to cool down so how the hell am i supposed to response to that because i bet thats what shell be like

[Leonard]

no  tell me

  :rolleyes: 

[Leonard]

i can hear her go "oh screw that you liar" if i said that i mean shed be half laughing so nothing serious but still i cant fool her like that she sees right trough that 

Well you is F*****!

[Mooshi]

what if she wants to get in an "share time doing stuff i like" i find that cute but you know those people in the cinema always asking "what did he that for? whos that? why are they running?" i dont need that also i just generally need time to cool down so how the hell am i supposed to response to that because i bet thats what shell be like

 

Touch her butt and tell her that you love her so much, then go back to your PC?

[cluelessgenius]

no  tell me

its not like a class you can visit -.- telling is impossible. try going trough shit times with a fuck ton of problems and you slowly become a man by learning your own character and position in society. in russian community (yep im russian originally) man are strong independent and still loving and caring. basicly you are the guy everyone counts on if shit breaks loose. you need to be able to handle yourself and others. provide you know. be the strong rock she can hold on to not the fucking chihuahua that sits when she commands to sit. if she recognizes your strength she wont boss you around.

[Manny Calavera]

Touch her butt and tell her that you love her so much, then go back to your PC?

Genius master plan.

 

Or solution:

Get a new gf that ˇ

 

wont boss you around.

[cluelessgenius]

Touch her butt and tell her that you love her so much, then go back to your PC?

that actually sound like a plan 

[cluelessgenius]

Touch her butt and tell her that you love her so much, then go back to your PC?

 

Genius master plan.

we are laughing but that shit might just work if i do in a half funny way. making her laugh she cant be mad at me

[cluelessgenius]

Genius master plan.

 

Or solution:

Get a new gf that ˇ

 

 

she doesnt boss me around shes nagging

[Mooshi]

Hey now, for all we know she might like that.

[Manny Calavera]

she doesnt boss me around shes nagging

sure you dont want to spend life with someone nagging you and clinging on to you for the rest of your life 24/7

now go tell her that hueheuhuehehueheu

[Fred Castellum]

sure you dont want to spend life with someone nagging you and clinging on to you for the rest of your life 24/7

now go tell her that hueheuhuehehueheu

Pfft the point of relationships is to get to know one another. Sacrifices are almost always made on the behalf of your significant other. 

[cluelessgenius]

Hey now, for all we know she might like that.

i think shed laugh about how obvious i wanna avoid the topic and by how cheap i think i get away with it

[cluelessgenius]

sure you dont want to spend life with someone nagging you and clinging on to you for the rest of your life 24/7

now go tell her that hueheuhuehehueheu

well shes not nagging like your mom is at you to clean the room but shes nagging like a child is who really really really wants that lolly so its managable

[cluelessgenius]

Pfft the point of relationships is to get to know one another. Sacrifices are almost always made on the behalf of your significant other. 

true but but giving in is not an compromise if you ment that if not youre right