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سيف، لوسمحت حاول تفهم الكلام اللي نقوله

اهلها ما يعرفوا عنكم، واذا عرفوا اريدك بس تتخيل ايش بيصير.. النزاعات بين الاخوة مرات ما تنتهي و انا متاكد انك ما تريد تكون سبب النزاع

روح نام ولما تقوم فكر فالموضوع

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22 minutes ago, lewdicrous said:

سيف، لوسمحت حاول تفهم الكلام اللي نقوله

اهلها ما يعرفوا عنكم، واذا عرفوا اريدك بس تتخيل ايش بيصير.. النزاعات بين الاخوة مرات ما تنتهي و انا متاكد انك ما تريد تكون سبب النزاع

روح نام ولما تقوم فكر فالموضوع

Huh?

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15 minutes ago, Netivity said:

Huh?

I was talking to the OP directly.. trying to at least 

[Guest]

Right... You can always send him a direct message!  

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8 minutes ago, Netivity said:

Right... You can always send him a direct message!  

True, didn't occur to me at that time.

 

Here's a rough translation

Spoiler

Saif, please try to understand what we're telling you

Their parents don't know about any of this, I just want you to imagine what will happen if they found out..

Rivalry between siblings sometimes never end and I'm sure you don't want to be the cause of it

Go to sleep and think about it when you wake up

 

[Guest]

That's fair advice mate.

 

Thanks for the translation. I agree.

[moderategamer]

1 hour ago, saif96 said:

like i said, theirs zero chance of face to face meet up, even a simple phone call doesn't seem possible with her, shes just ignoring me she wants to be left alone, well fine i wanna leave her alone but i wanna do it while getting back with my ex.

Never listen to dating advice from people you don't know it's impossible for them to know enough about the situation or other people involved in the arrangement. Also never ask people you don't know and don't know you for dating advice for the same reasons as before. Saying that it sounds like your relationship with the older sister has already dissolved but neither of you know how to say it, it may seem hard but the best thing to do is build up the courage meet het in person and break up with her. It's very apparent that you don't want to be with her so there's no point in delaying the inevitable it just leads to more people getting hurt. Talk to the ex that wants to talk with you listen to what she has to say and tell her your side of the story and how you feel that way you both have the full picture then whatever happens from there will be what is supposed to be. If your going to ask anyone for advice why not ask a close friend who knows you rather than from a forum of total strangers.

 

However as I stated don't listen to me this is just my general advice coming from complete ignorance to your situation hope that helps.

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Just now, moderategamer said:

Never listen to dating advice from people you don't know it's impossible for them to know enough about the situation or other people involved in the arrangement. Also never ask people you don't know and don't know you for dating advice for the same reasons as before. Saying that it sounds like your relationship with the older sister has already dissolved but neither of you know how to say it, it may seem hard but the best thing to do is build up the courage meet het in person and break up with her. It's very apparent that you don't want to be with her so there's no point in delaying the inevitable it just leads to more people getting hurt. Talk to the ex that wants to talk with you listen to what she has to say and tell her your side of the story and how you feel that way you both have the full picture then whatever happens from there will be what is supposed to be. If your going to ask anyone for advice why not ask a close friend who knows you rather than from a forum of total strangers.

 

However as I stated don't listen to me this is just my general advice coming from complete ignorance to your situation hope that helps.

Hey mate,

 

Can't tell if you're having a dig at the people who commented with advice?

 

Cheers.

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4 minutes ago, Netivity said:

Hey mate,

 

Can't tell if you're having a dig at the people who commented with advice?

 

Cheers.

No just warning the guy to not ask strangers for advice on personal matters I have nothing against any of the advice given or the people who gave it Sorry if it came across that way. I really don't think it's the kind of thing that should be posted in a tech forum if he really wants advice I'm sure there's people in his life he could talk to.

 

EDIT: that's just my opinion though

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Just now, moderategamer said:

No just warning the guy to not ask strangers for advice on personal matters I have nothing against any of the advice given or the people who gave it Sorry if it came across that way. I really don't think it's the kind of thing that should be posted in a tech forum if he really wants advice I'm sure there's people in his life he could talk to.

Yeah mate, don't get me wrong, I agree with you. But if there is even a chance that we helped the fella, I wouldn't mind commenting y'know.

 

It did come across that way a little bit, but then realized afterwards that you gave advice too (in a way) so I knew ya didn't.

 

Cheers for clarifying, legend.

[Howitz]

3 hours ago, saif96 said:

 

 

It appears that you make women turn lesbians

If the relationship causes you a mental charge of worries about the other being distant from you and such, then be mature about it, face reality and have a conversation about how you feel.

 

Honestly if you are not happy in a relationship then just break up, she is not the one. you will find the one some day and it will not go like this.

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47 minutes ago, Arika S said:

Reading through this thread, she might want to talk because she found out you and her sister are dating. which would explain why why your current girlfriend is ignoring you

Maybe something a little more "personal". There is almost no way in hell she didn't know... Sisters talk, maybe not much but if something bad happens they talk to each other for advice unless one did something in the past to make them untrustworthy which in this case based on the OP shouldn't be the case.

 

If I was OP I would have never dated the other sister, but the last thing you want to do is to disappoint either, if possible meet up in a public place or bring a friend and let them watch in a distance (out of hearing). The fact both have become distant and the original one has asked to meet up is a little fishy, maybe nothing bad, but I wouldn't exactly trust meeting up w/o some sort of witness or self protection in terms of safety...

 

*I should have never watched School Days*

[dalekphalm]

3 hours ago, saif96 said:

i didnt consider being a lesbian cheating

Uhm... what?

 

That literally makes no sense.

 

First:

If your girlfriend sleeps with another person (assuming you didn't consent to this/not a threesome), then she cheated on you. Regardless of the fact that the person she's cheating on you with is a woman or a man.

 

Second:

Also, "being a lesbian"?

 

If she was a lesbian, she wouldn't be interested in you at all. A lesbian is a gay woman. Gay women only like other women. If she's interested in both male and female, that would be bisexual, not lesbian.

 

Anyway, as to my actual advice to you:

Break up with your current girlfriend. Right now. Stop reading this, and do it. It's obvious the relationship is over. I mean, she has been ignoring you for literally six months. Just break up with her and be done with it. Putting it off any further is a waste of your time and hers. If you have to do it over text? So be it. But I would at least try to convince her to meet you in person to talk.

 

If she doesn't respond, or refuses to meet, then just do it over text. Break up with her regardless of whether you might get back together with your ex.

 

Now, as to your ex, which you're obviously still into: You must understand and accept the possibility that she does not want to get back together. Accept the possibility that you will never get back with her.

 

That is what everyone is saying with the whole "don't get your hopes up" thing. If it turns out she does want to get back together? Bonus. But if she doesn't, it's going to utterly crush you, since you've already pretty much convinced yourself that this "talk" is for the sole purpose of telling you she wants you back. What if you're wrong and she doesn't want you back?

 

Think about that.

[Derrk]

just date both

[dizmo]

If you want to be with someone else, you shouldn't be with the person you're with.

Go for it, I suppose. But really, that sounds like a pretty fucked up decision to have to make, and there's no way you're getting around hurting someone's feelings.

 

As for if she wants to get back with you?

Go find out for yourself. Don't ask us.