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First date we went for cocktails, chatted a few hours, turns out we live like a few minutes from each other so we basically walk home together, kiss at the lights and go our separate ways.

 

How do I greet her for a second date?

 

She's a Tinder date, but proper, she graduates with a law degree this week, and I do really quite like her so don't want to blow this.

 

Do I go in for a kiss, peck on the cheek, or just stick to a hug? I (we're) British so awkwardness is always a worry!

 

Say what you will, you lot!

 

Chris

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First date we went for cocktails, chatted a few hours, turns out we live like a few minutes from each other so we basically walk home together, kiss at the lights and go our separate ways.

 

How do I greet her for a second date?

 

She's a Tinder date, but proper, she graduates with a law degree this week, and I do really quite like her so don't want to blow this.

 

Do I go in for a kiss, peck on the cheek, or just stick to a hug? I (we're) British so awkwardness is always a worry!

 

Say what you will, you lot!

 

Chris

awesome man

 

really congratulations

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Cheek is more how do I say it, gentleman like?

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Cheek is more how do I say it, gentleman like?

 

I am a bit of a gent, but IDK, feels like I shouldn't slow down from where we were last time, if I don't kiss her upon the meet am I taking a step back?

 

I wasn't even sure when to take the plunge but it just kinda felt right then and there. Maybe same again? Ugh... idk.

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I am a bit of a gent, but IDK, feels like I shouldn't slow down from where we were last time, if I don't kiss her upon the meet am I taking a step back?

 

I wasn't even sure when to take the plunge but it just kinda felt right then and there. Maybe same again? Ugh... idk.

It's a woman, everything is a gamble.

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I am a bit of a gent, but IDK, feels like I shouldn't slow down from where we were last time, if I don't kiss her upon the meet am I taking a step back?

 

I wasn't even sure when to take the plunge but it just kinda felt right then and there. Maybe same again? Ugh... idk.

From what I'm reading, you kissed on the first date? There's no point stepping back at that point. If she was willing on the first date, why wouldn't she be on the second.

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It's a woman, everything is a gamble.

 

 

From what I'm reading, you kissed on the first date? There's no point stepping back at that point. If she was willing on the first date, why wouldn't she be on the second.

 

 

Both comments are pretty true; I just worry it'd be too forward to go in for a kiss immediately. Though we are flirting away. Whatever, I'm just going to play it by ear, like I should.

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