What does it mean?

[Focux]

So as some of you might have read, I tried to take a lady out. Now that didn't seem to exactly end well. What does it mean if she doesn't respond but doesn't block you on social media and whatsapp? The last reply was fairly pleasant too.

[Jogostar]

fow how long has she stopped texting you?

btw:

[dizmo]

You didn't keep sending her messages asking why she isn't replying did you?

[Benjamin G]

So as some of you might have read, I tried to take a lady out. Now that didn't seem to exactly end well. What does it mean if she doesn't respond but doesn't block you on social media and whatsapp? The last reply was fairly pleasant too.

I think you should let things cool down and figure themself out, whatever you do don't pester her just let her respond in her own time.

[Darth Vader]

What does it mean if she doesn't respond but doesn't block you on social media and whatsapp?

 

It probably means she doesn't care to contact you (oh well. It happens, don't let it bother you a lot)

If she does not respond AND blocks you on social media and whatsapp, It probably means she REALLY, REALLY doesn't care to contact you (also happens in life sometimes)

 

So just wait and don't be overly hopeful (you might get disappointed)

 

Just wait a while and see. If she call, good for her. If she does not, well then you should move on to something better.

[Jogostar]

oh and depending on the age, I would say

[Jvagle875]

So as some of you might have read, I tried to take a lady out. Now that didn't seem to exactly end well. What does it mean if she doesn't respond but doesn't block you on social media and whatsapp? The last reply was fairly pleasant too.

Call me old fashioned, but my experience with women is that it's just best to ask her yourself? There is only so much an internet forum full of guys can tell you. Give her a call (or text if you feel so inclined), and ask her what's going on. Women are no different than you, (except anatomically). Just think of it as calling up a friend (except it'll be super awkward for both parties).

[VincentC]

Cooling off period, based on what you did, she's reflecting on if being with you is worth the effort.

[dizmo]

If you have a female friend, they're great for advice as well. I'd go to her over a forum of mostly guys.

[ANIMAL_ORIGIN]

It could mean a lot of things. Not always bad though.

Generally, Women put a lot pressure on themselves when they have to reply to a guy they are interested in.

Now, from your post up top I'm assuming she rejected you when you asked her, so she had no interest? 
How exactly did you ask her?
The lack of response could mean that she's putting some distance in between you two until you "get over" the feelings you have for her or she could just be busy. It's really hard to tell. Everyone's different. I'd recommend you stop texting her for a while. Keep yourself occupied, if she really cares, she'll reply

[Focux]

It could mean a lot of things. Not always bad though.

Generally, Women put a lot pressure on themselves when they have to reply to a guy they are interested in.

Now, from your post up top I'm assuming she rejected you when you asked her, so she had no interest?

How exactly did you ask her?

The lack of response could mean that she's putting some distance in between you two until you "get over" the feelings you have for her or she could just be busy. It's really hard to tell. Everyone's different. I'd recommend you stop texting her for a while. Keep yourself occupied, if she really cares, she'll reply

Last message. Didn't seem wrong

[FloRolf]

That sucks man.

It gets even worse when your finally like "yeah, fuck it, life goes on" and then she replies to make you overthink everything again.

[Focux]

fow how long has she stopped texting you?btw:

You didn't keep sending her messages asking why she isn't replying did you?

It probably means she doesn't care to contact you (oh well. It happens, don't let it bother you a lot)If she does not respond AND blocks you on social media and whatsapp, It probably means she REALLY, REALLY doesn't care to contact you (also happens in life sometimes)So just wait and don't be overly hopeful (you might get disappointed)Just wait a while and see. If she call, good for her. If she does not, well then you should move on to something better.

oh and depending on the age, I would say

Cooling off period, based on what you did, she's reflecting on if being with you is worth the effort.

She's at least 24. I just turned 18 awhile back. I asked her out for coffee. A few days after we met at a banking event. The first few messages were all good. Then suddenly Poof. I didn't pester or repeatedly send texts. In fact, I sent just 2 short ones right after the last reply. I know we all have our own lives so yeah. But I like her for how mature she is. Or so I could gather. I'm the kind where I don't like girls. I like women. Don't and can't give a care with the fishes in school. My apologies if that sounds mean.

[Focux]

That sucks man.

It gets even worse when your finally like "yeah, fuck it, life goes on" and then she replies to make you overthink everything again.

I am an only child. I'd rather someone play with my feelings than to never have played the game.

Wait, wot?

[dizmo]

How long has it been since she's said anything?

[Focux]

How long has it been since she's said anything?

4 days sir..

[FloRolf]

I am an only child. I'd rather someone play with my feelings than to never have played the game.

Wait, wot?

I dont get that one

But i think you are just too paranoid. Im in a similar situation right now and i think girls are just girls. You cant really help it but wait and see if her period gets over soon lel.

[Focux]

If you have a female friend, they're great for advice as well. I'd go to her over a forum of mostly guys.

Have none worthy my time. Besides, those on my FB are my age from school. Not exactly helpful.

[Focux]

I dont get that one

But i think you are just too paranoid. Im in a similar situation right now and i think girls are just girls. You cant really help it but wait and see if her period gets over soon lel.

You are probably right. Appreciate your honesty!

[dizmo]

Girls mature faster than boys. It's still a females look at the situation compared to a males. They're two different viewpoints.

You should get some! They're invaluable. Can be a bit of a nightmare if they get jealous of your other female friends, but it can also be quite hilarious.

[Focux]

Girls mature faster than boys. It's still a females look at the situation compared to a males. They're two different viewpoints.

You should get some! They're invaluable. Can be a bit of a nightmare if they get jealous of your other female friends, but it can also be quite hilarious.

Hmm I agree. Just ask like,"hey so I'm trying to date a 24yr old and.."

"WAT!?" Lol. I'll get some!

[ANIMAL_ORIGIN]

Last message. Didn't seem wrong

Just give it some time man. Don't over think or obsess over it. It'll work itself out

[Focux]

Just give it some time man. Don't over think or obsess over it. It'll work itself out

Noted. Thanks dude.

[Darth Vader]

She's at least 24. I just turned 18 awhile back. I asked her out for coffee. A few days after we met at a banking event. The first few messages were all good. Then suddenly Poof. I didn't pester or repeatedly send texts. In fact, I sent just 2 short ones right after the last reply. I know we all have our own lives so yeah. But I like her for how mature she is. Or so I could gather. I'm the kind where I don't like girls. I like women. Don't and can't give a care with the fishes in school. My apologies if that sounds mean.

 

Yeaaaaah, you're 18 she's 24. I doubt she sees you in that way. Age difference. I mean sure there are exceptions, but in most cases, if she likes you, she will only like you as a younger brother. 

 

Maybe when YOU are 24 and she's 30, she will see you on equal grounds.

[Focux]

Yeaaaaah, you're 18 she's 24. I doubt she sees you in that way. Age difference. I mean sure there are exceptions, but in most cases, if she likes you, she will only like you as a younger brother.

Maybe when YOU are 24 and she's 30, she will see you on equal grounds.

I did think of that. Then why ask all these personal questions lol urgh