Next move

[Butterfish]

Hey guys,

 

I met this girl at a party yesterday and i've started to like her. She is a cousin of my friend, and the same age. We talked a lot and had fun, and she sat on my lap for almost two hours. She seemed quite interested in me since she layed back and leaned her head on mine quite often.

I wouldn't want to make it awkward by making a move, since we were sitting around some of my friends talking and stuff. The night ended out with a hug and then we split. Guess it would have been a different story, if there weren't so many people around us. I'm very shy and REALLY bad at making the first move and reading women's signals. 

I didn't manage to get her number because i thought it would be wierd to ask, again, with everyone around. When i woke up the next day, i found her on facebook and added her. She accepted quite fast. I haven't contacted her.

 

What would be the best to do next? I would like to get to know her better, but not in a way that i seem like a creep. I have no experience in dating women, and i have never had any serious relationship. I'm 18 by the way.

 

Any advise?

 

Thanks 

[_ASSASSIN_]

it's pretty obvious she's either

1. hitting on you

2. just wanted fun

[Jamdude]

Ask for her number on Facebook, call her and ask to meet up, that'll be better than just talking online.  Seems like you missed quite a chance at the party though.

[ManOfDisguise]

Just text her on fb and say hi or something and talk about random stuff

[TheRoss0411]

[FloRolf]

 

this is actually quite accurate when it comes to girls lol

[TheRoss0411]

this is actually quite accurate when it comes to girls lol

They don't call me the idiot for nothing

[Butterfish]

it's pretty obvious she's either

1. hitting on your

2. just wanted fun

She didn't seem like the typical "one-nighter"

One of the topics that came up in the conversation somehow, was about girls being cheap and trashy. She seemed quite convincing that she thought girls being cheap was stupid.

[lilc]

You should have made a move at the party.

 

Message her saying you had fun with her at the party and you want to hang around with her sometime.

 

Get her number and in the next couple of days go out ( early is good dont keep them waiting)

 

Take her out to a fun event play around your town, someplace where people go to have fun and  also go for lunch.

This is better than movies as you get to know each other more and better than dinner since you don't have to be on your a game 100% of the time trying to create conversation.

Then go from there, if you can get a kiss on that first date then well done, if she leaves you hanging don't worry you might get a connection on the 2nd date. If you don't Then you need to make a move on the third or find out if she is interested on you, otherwise you are in the friendzone and then move on.

[Butterfish]

Thanks guys, i think i have something to work with now.

[Butterfish]

You should have made a move at the party.

 

Message her saying you had fun with her at the party and you want to hang around with her sometime.

 

Get her number and in the next couple of days go out ( early is good dont keep them waiting)

 

Take her out to a fun event play around your town, someplace where people go to have fun and  also go for lunch.

This is better than movies as you get to know each other more and better than dinner since you don't have to be on your a game 100% of the time trying to create conversation.

Then go from there, if you can get a kiss on that first date then well done, if she leaves you hanging don't worry you might get a connection on the 2nd date. If you don't Then you need to make a move on the third or find out if she is interested on you, otherwise you are in the friendzone and then move on.

I will follow your wise words. Thanks! 

 

I just heard that you should not text a girl until 3 days later or something, but i don't want to play any games.. 

[legopc]

but the real question is: does she play games? 

[lilc]

I will follow your wise words. Thanks! 

 

I just heard that you should not text a girl until 3 days later or something, but i don't want to play any games.. 

People say that you should wait 3 days otherwise you seem desperate. That is stupid, everyday you wait your chance diminishes she will forget about you.

If you do it soon like the night you get the girls number ( only do that if you just met her at a bar or club ) or the next day, it will show that you are assertive. If you wait 3 days she might think that you are shy and by then 50 other guys have already hit on her.

 

Best time to call a girl and organize a meetup, is the next day.

[Butterfish]

People say that you should wait 3 days otherwise you seem desperate. That is stupid, everyday you wait your chance diminishes she will forget about you.

If you do it soon like the night you get the girls number ( only do that if you just met her at a bar or club ) or the next day, it will show that you are assertive. If you wait 3 days she might think that you are shy and by then 50 other guys have already hit on her.

 

Best time to call a girl and organize a meetup, is the next day.

I texted her about yesterday and i will take it from there. Let's see if she even responds.

[Butterfish]

If anyone is reading this, it was an success! I'm a happy man.

[applebook]

 Happy Endings are good reads 

[lilc]

If anyone is reading this, it was an success! I'm a happy man.

Good job man