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I got into a fight Friday, and I'm afraid to tell my parents.

Not telling them is not an option, because the school will send them an email tomorrow anyway.

But I'm still afraid to tell them, I dont know what they'll say or do.

They've trusted me for so long, I dont want to destroy it and make them think of me as immature.

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I got into a fight Friday, and I'm afraid to tell my parents.

Not telling them is not an option, because the school will send them an email tomorrow anyway.

But I'm still afraid to tell them, I dont know what they'll say or do.

They've trusted me for so long, I dont want to destroy it and make them think of me as immature.

Depending on why the fight happened they might not think of you as immature.

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The fight started from an argument.

A stupid argument that never should have happened.

Then yeah you might be in for a rough run then when the find out. I would tell them before they find out from the school so the at least can see that your being honest and upfront about it.

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The fight started from an argument.

A stupid argument that never should have happened.

Thats the way mine happened. My mom was indifferent about it, but my dad was proud cuz i stood up for myself but he said dont do it again. You should be fine just explain how it wasn't your fault and stuff, and that you took all the bullshit you were gonna take

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I got into a fight Friday, and I'm afraid to tell my parents.

Not telling them is not an option, because the school will send them an email tomorrow anyway.

But I'm still afraid to tell them, I dont know what they'll say or do.

They've trusted me for so long, I dont want to destroy it and make them think of me as immature.

 

 

I know, I'm scared though...

They think of you as mature?

 

LOL...

 

I'm sorry kid, but man up. They're your parents and will always love you. Just tell them what happened and move on from there.

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Will it be better to tell them before they get the email?

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Did you shell the kid?

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The last potentially serious set to I had was with my martial art instructor. :0/

 

Since then I've been to Krav a few times and just keep getting pinned. It's so frustrating.

 

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I gave that stuff up a while ago now. I don't recommend it. It's a case of the solution being worse than the problem, literally.

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I agree with king, I got in many fights even through high school, and it was much easier to deal with my parents when I was the one telling them what happened because the school usually a lot less respectful when it came to the details.

The schools always make it sound like the people involved are fucking demons.

When i was 7 me and some other girls at school played a little gake about vampires, some kid fell and blamed it on us. So the principle sends home a letter saying we we re biting him, and that we drew blood.

The principle got fired soon after ut it shows you just the kinda dicks they let into the schooling system.

Speaking of tue system, i need to listem to SOAD soketime soon.

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It's better that you tell them than the school. Try and clear anything up before they get too angry and maybe they'll see the situation from your eyes.

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I got into a fight Friday, and I'm afraid to tell my parents.

Not telling them is not an option, because the school will send them an email tomorrow anyway.

But I'm still afraid to tell them, I dont know what they'll say or do.

They've trusted me for so long, I dont want to destroy it and make them think of me as immature.

First rule of fight club: You don't talk about fight club!!!!

 

Best thing to do is to tell your parents. They will respect you for telling them as opposed to not saying anything. Saying nothing is the worst thing ever.

 

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