How to ask a girl out?? And what to do for the first date?

[upliftsleet1974]

that's not a good way to think if she had the guts to tell you she likes you she wants the D errr I mean she wants to go out with you 

I do not think she wants the D...But like you said she might want to go out with me

[RuecanOnRails]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNsqTgaIKQ8

 

Watch this movie, it will teach you everything

[JORDANonPC]

I do not think she wants the D...But like you said she might want to go out with me

yeah I was just kidding but If she told you she likes you just go for it I see know way it could go wrong the worst thing you can do is not tell her how you feel

[upliftsleet1974]

yeah I was just kidding but If she told you she likes you just go for it I see know way it could go wrong the worst thing you can do is not tell her how you feel

I just do not know if it is worth the time

[JORDANonPC]

I just do not know if it is worth the time

You like her right ? If you do it's definitely worth the time if you really have to think about whether she's worth the time then maybe you aren't worth hers, I mean no disrespect by that by the way and don't mean to be harsh

[upliftsleet1974]

You like her right ? If you do it's definitely worth the time if you really have to think about whether she's worth the time then maybe you aren't worth hers I mean no disrespect by that by the way

My only thing is the odds bad of us staying together and I do not want to hurt her/break her hart  

[JORDANonPC]

My only thing is the odds bad of us staying together and I do not want to hurt her/break her hart

If you think like that you will never experience life go for it live in the present nowhere else

[KneesWeak]

be like, hey... 

[upliftsleet1974]

If you think like that you will never experience life go for it live in the present nowhere else

Ok I can try that I am just way shy

[JORDANonPC]

Ok I can try that I am just way shy

So am I luckily my girlfriend was the one that did all the work for me

[upliftsleet1974]

So am I luckily my girlfriend was the one that did all the work for me

Well she did most of the work for me...

[JORDANonPC]

Well she did most of the work for me...

I was thinking the same thing there just be straight up and tell her you like her it will seem hard but once you do it you'll realize it was the easiest thing in the world especially since you already know the feelings mutual, just out of curiosity what did you say when she said she liked you?

[upliftsleet1974]

I was thinking the same thing there just be straight up and tell her you like her it will seem hard but once you do it you'll realize it was the easiest thing in the world especially since you already know the feelings mutual, just out of curiosity what did you say when she said she liked you?

I had allot going on so I do not remember what I said....But I know I tried to get out of talking about it...Btw I did get out of it.

But I did not tell her I liked her or anything...

[JORDANonPC]

I had allot going on so I do not remember what I said....But I know I tried to get out of talking about it...Btw I did get out of it.

But I did not tell her I liked her or anything...

just go for it now but only if you really like her don't waste her time

[upliftsleet1974]

just go for it now but only if you really like her don't waste her time

Hell if I did not like her allot I would never even asked on hear...Remember I am shy lol. 

Btw at first when I stared this I was trolling but now I am getting good info...And everything I have said is true! 

[JORDANonPC]

Hell if I did not like her allot I would never even asked on hear...Remember I am shy lol. 

Btw at first when I stared this I was trolling but now I am getting good info...And everything I have said is true! 

I'm guessing you didn't expect girl advice from a tech forum just go for it then next time you see her alone 

[upliftsleet1974]

I'm guessing you didn't expect girl advice from a tech forum just go for it then next time you see her alone 

Nope...And tomorrow I will see her and no not at school we are both home schooled lol 

[Nicolas]

lol as funny as some of the answers have been, isn't there anyone else in a relationship that can help?

 

The best advice I can give you is just be yourself. If she likes you already thats a plus. Just approach her nicely and ask her if she'd like to go out sometime and that you want to get to know her better.

 

Be a good listener, as much as guys say they don't, if you're really interested in her then she'll have your attention all the time. Be a gentleman, chivalry counts for something these days.

 

Just be yourself, oh and put her before gaming 

 

*currently with my gf for 3 years, still going strong. She knows me so well she preordered BF4 digital deluxe edition for me 

 

Goodluck

 

(so wheres this relationship badge...)

That "her before games" thing is real gold, my ex once texted me and she asked what I was doing and I said "nothing, I was playing fifa up until you texted me"(Note that fifa where I live is really important for us guys, at least withing my social circle, and girls know that) and well, let's just say that gives you some points

[upliftsleet1974]

You think we nerds have ever been on a date?

 

To be serious, even though I have never asked a girl out, it's best to just kindly ask her something like, would you like to go to the movies or something along the lines of that. My friend tried that when he was 25 and graduated.

 

I'd also be curious as to what Linus would say/do, and that gives me a thought, WWLD; What would Linus do?

Calling LINUS it is story time tell us how you asked your wife out!!

[JORDANonPC]

Nope...And tomorrow I will see her and no not at school we are both home schooled lol 

well that looks like it will be your chance then good luck

[upliftsleet1974]

well that looks like it will be your chance then good luck

Thanks!!

 

Anyone else have so more tips/ideas?? 

[ANIMAL_ORIGIN]

A post like this was inevitable LOL

 

Anyways, Just ask her. The worst thing that could happen is that she would decline. If she's a b**ch about it, move on, She's not worth your time. Do NOT, under any circumstances tell her you like her though. That'll make her feel cornered. If you know she likes you then she'd know you like her so telling her you like her is unnecessary and you'll come off as being "needy".

 

Just ask her.

[upliftsleet1974]

Calling LINUS it is story time tell us how you asked your wife out!!

Everyone ask him on twitter lets get this story!!  

[JORDANonPC]

A post like this was inevitable LOL

 

Anyways, Just ask her. The worst thing that could happen is that she would decline. If she's a b**ch about it, move on, She's not worth your time. Do NOT, under any circumstances tell her you like her though. That'll make her feel cornered. If you know she likes you then she'd know you like her so telling her you like her is unnecessary and you'll come off as being "needy".

 

Just ask her.

Thats not very good advice the girl doesn't know he likes her and she told him she likes him so I don't think she will feel cornered at all she will want him to tell her and if he doesn't how will they get together

[LinusTech]

Sorry my story isn't really anything special. We were in the same class in uni. and we became friends. Then we got together and the rest is history.