Need Help with nickname

[ThatBlockishWay]

When I start talking to a chick a fair bit of the time they call me a smol bean... what is this exactly and is it worth trying to stop being a called?

[Crunchy Dragon]

As far I'm aware, that's not a bad thing.

 

Urban Dictionary defines "smol bean" as:

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a way to explain something that is too cute and innocent for this world.

 

[wasab]

1 minute ago, Crunchy Dragon said:

As far I'm aware, that's not a bad thing.

 

Urban Dictionary defines "smol bean" as:

 

Doesn't that equate to calling a guy soft and girly and at worst, a beta?

[Crunchy Dragon]

Just now, wasab said:

Doesn't that equate to calling a guy soft and girly and at worst, a beta?

Possibly?

 

I tend not to keep up on slang terms.

[ThatBlockishWay]

1 hour ago, Crunchy Dragon said:

As far I'm aware, that's not a bad thing.

 

Urban Dictionary defines "smol bean" as:

 

Hmmm, okay. I guess I can live with that... So what about a person makes them a smol bean then? For context Im a pretty tiny guy (5'7", 115lbs) and Im fairly shy and reserved, would it be the size thing or a personality thing? Or a lil of both?

[Crunchy Dragon]

33 minutes ago, ThatBlockishWay said:

Hmmm, okay. I guess I can live with that... So what about a person makes them a smol bean then? For context Im a pretty tiny guy (5'7", 115lbs) and Im fairly shy and reserved, would it be the size thing or a personality thing? Or a lil of both?

I have no clue, might be personality though.

[ThatBlockishWay]

Just now, Crunchy Dragon said:

I have no clue, might be personality though.

Hmmm, maybe....

Thanks for the somewhat insight, I still feel like thats more of what youd call a pupper or a todler or something though.. Or is that the point?

[Tony Brady]

If you're not sure about this nickname, maybe try to thik about something else, it sounds cute though:)

[wONKEyeYEs]

1 hour ago, ThatBlockishWay said:

5'7", 115lbs) and Im fairly shy and reserved, would it be the size thing or a personality thing? Or a lil of both?

Judging from what Urban Dic says it would prob be both.

 

Although a change in personality could easily overcome size perception.

"It's not the size of the dog in the fight,

it's the size of the fight in the dog"

It really is amazing what a focused intent and an indomitable will can accomplish.

 

Also, I have found it useful to be underestimated when

competition or conflict are involved.

 

[iLostMyXbox21]

smol bean basically means (most of the time) you are mature and innocent.. i wouldnt take it as an insult because its either a “smol bean” or an “inmate”

[wasab]

6 hours ago, wONKEyeYEs said:

Judging from what Urban Dic says it would prob be both.

 

Although a change in personality could easily overcome size perception.

"It's not the size of the dog in the fight,

it's the size of the fight in the dog"

It really is amazing what a focused intent and an indomitable will can accomplish.

 

Also, I have found it useful to be underestimated when

competition or conflict are involved.

 

 

not the size that counts but the counts in the size ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[Guest]

8 hours ago, ThatBlockishWay said:

Hmmm, okay. I guess I can live with that... So what about a person makes them a smol bean then? For context Im a pretty tiny guy (5'7", 115lbs) and Im fairly shy and reserved, would it be the size thing or a personality thing? Or a lil of both?

Makes sense. She’s just calling you cute. She likely doesn’t know the definition and isn’t belittling you. 

[ThatBlockishWay]

9 hours ago, Tony Brady said:

If you're not sure about this nickname, maybe try to thik about something else, it sounds cute though:)

I dont say thats my nickname, by coincidense three of the last three chicks Ive talked to call me that

[Canada EH]

Cuz we all know Urban Dictionary keeps up with all the slang, Urban Dictionary keeps its ears to the floor in the "hoods" all across Amurika!

 

Why don't you ask her what it means?

 

 

[ThatBlockishWay]

5 hours ago, Canada EH said:

Cuz we all know Urban Dictionary keeps up with all the slang, Urban Dictionary keeps its ears to the floor in the "hoods" all across Amurika!

 

Why don't you ask her what it means?

 

 

It wasnt just one person, It was three across the span of like a year. I asked two of them what it meant when they said it and neither really came up with a resourceful answer just something along the lines of 'it means what it means'. And I can't really drill any of them for a better answer now cause reasons

[Canada EH]

Smol: The New Social Media Word That's "Small," But Cuter

http://mentalfloss.com/article/69490/smol-new-social-media-word-thats-small-cuter

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[Guest]

23 hours ago, ThatBlockishWay said:

Hmmm, okay. I guess I can live with that... So what about a person makes them a smol bean then? For context Im a pretty tiny guy (5'7", 115lbs) and Im fairly shy and reserved, would it be the size thing or a personality thing? Or a lil of both?

5'7" is quite smol yes

[ThatBlockishWay]

2 minutes ago, Canada EH said:

Smol: The New Social Media Word That's "Small," But Cuter

http://mentalfloss.com/article/69490/smol-new-social-media-word-thats-small-cuter

 

I like how there a whole article about this, thanks for the read. It kinda confused me abit as to the meaning at the end but I got a general jist of it

Now I gotta decide if the smol is to bean or not to bean...

[ThatBlockishWay]

3 minutes ago, RorzNZ said:

5'7" is quite smol yes

...:( Im not that short....

Edit: Ill have you know Edward Elric is the same height as me

[Guest]

Just now, ThatBlockishWay said:

...:( Im not that short....

Just look for short girls too its ok

[ThatBlockishWay]

1 minute ago, RorzNZ said:

Just look for short girls too its ok

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Well... I dont really have a comeback for that but know Im making one in spirit

Also most chicks are on the same hieght as me so its pretty okay, I dont like having a terrible hieght difference anyway

[Canada EH]

3 minutes ago, ThatBlockishWay said:

4 minutes ago, RorzNZ said:

5'7" is quite smol yes

...:( Im not that short....

5'7" depends on the race and sex of subject in question.

Being 6'+ tall and in an asian country then 6'+ is GIANT! Good luck trying to even find a size 13 shoe over there!

I often joke that my 12 yr old son is taller, heck my son was taller when he was 10. You can generally get an idea of how tall someone is by how far their heel is from the floor when they sit down. Its the same with body fat, if you can see their calf muscle, you can generally figure out how fat someone is, even just an ankle sometimes too.

[Canada EH]

1 minute ago, ThatBlockishWay said:

Also most chicks are on the same hieght as me so its pretty okay, I dont like having a terrible hieght difference anyway

Well chicks like a taller man that is for sure!

[ThatBlockishWay]

1 minute ago, Canada EH said:

5'7" depends on the race and sex of subject in question.

Being 6'+ tall and in an asian country then 6'+ is GIANT! Good luck trying to even find a size 13 shoe over there!

I often joke that my 12 yr old son is taller, heck my son was taller when he was 10. You can generally get an idea of how tall someone is by how far their heel is from the floor when they sit down. Its the same with body fat, if you can see their calf muscle, you can generally figure out how fat someone is, even just an ankle sometimes too.

Im just kinda tiny and white... my photo is my irl face

Edit: Yea... I know...  

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, ThatBlockishWay said:

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Well... I dont really have a comeback for that but know Im making one in spirit

Also most chicks are on the same hieght as me so its pretty okay, I dont like having a terrible hieght difference anyway

 

1 minute ago, Canada EH said:

Well chicks like a taller man that is for sure!

As long as the important bits are not proportional you'll be right