Relationship Advice

[Radiant]

 

My girlfriend (we have only been together a few days officially but actually since 4 weeks unofficially + weve known eachother for 3 years) told me yesterday, while at a party, that she is not really ready to be in  a relationship but she does not want to go apart either ... today, i asked her again and she said no we can be in a relationship but she hasnt been answering my messages (shes read them and only sometimes answered and whenever i tell her i love her i never get i love you back)  I love her so much i cant even describe how much ... anyway, since she told me that yesterday i have not been normal. it really hit me hard, because yesterday she also "offered" that we have a thing but arent really going out. i didnt decline this nor did i say yes because to be honest, i want her to myself.

 

as far as i am aware, she does love me and she doesnt want to dump me in the future (yet) but i really dont know what to do. also, we are both 15 (yeah kinda young) but we have gone through so much together, and i really dont want to loose her. 

 

what can i do?

 

 

[Volbet]

Ahh, to be young and in love. 

Well, you have been together for 4 weeks (or a couple of days) and you've already declared your undying love to her. 

For any partner that is like being run over by a steamroller; it's way too much way too fast. atleast for most people 

You still very much in the trial periode of the relationship.

 

The best advice I can give is to admit to yourself that the relationship probably won't last forever and to give her some space. 

Just becuase you're in a relationship it doesn't mean you grow together at the hip. 

[Radiant]

2 minutes ago, Volbet said:

The best advice I can give is to admit to yourself that the relationship probably won't last forever and to give her some space. 

Just becuase you're in a relationship it doesn't mean you grwo together at the hip. 

i was thinking about this.

[Fungal]

Death is a natural part of life. Rejoice for those around you who transform into the Force. Mourn them do not. Miss them do not. Attachment leads to jealousy. The shadow of greed that is

 

Train yourself to let go... of everything you fear to lose. 

[HelplmChoking]

Just be chill about it dude, that's probably the best advice I can give. My partner and I have been together for 3 years, and that's probably the reason why. She wants to go out? Sure, whatever. When we first met I'd very deliberately and carefully make sure I wasn't being too intense or deliberate, 'cause you'll kill things if you push too hard and force it. Just give her a couple days and see what happens, if she wants to get back in touch, she will, if not.. Well you're better off without that anyway.

[Kenoxabe]

Too early to say that this is "love". Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too early.

 

I'd get my shit together if I were you. Give space or not, doesn't really matter. 

 

It won't last. It probably will. But I doubt it. I'd jump off this train as early as now before you suffer any more disappointments.