Do I have a chance with her?

[Guest]

Hi guys! I really need some advice. There is this girl that I like and I wanna know what chances do I have with her and also and any helpful advice. So the story is that I've known her for a full year in the past. I talked to her a lot and we got close. But she moved to a different school. And the thing is I am in the same prep school in the summer with her right now. I didn't really remember her at first but now I do and I realise how much I like her. But I am not sure if she remembers me. It's been 3 years. My friend messaged her on ig recently and she said that she did remember her. She's a really quiet and shy person so she doesn't really show any signs. But I do get the occasional look from her and when I see her she turns around. I am a funny guy in class and I can say that everyone does like me including the teacher. (I do my work and everything). But recently my friend messaged her and said that she did remember him (was in my class) so what do you guys think? Thanks a lot I know it was long.

[Textosterone]

 

start talking to her over social media or face to face and all that. Then see where it takes you!

[Devon_Pearce]

just start by talking to her. and be confident but not over the top. dont wanna come off as concieted

[Oshino Shinobu]

No, she hates you. 

 

(We don't know, we don't know you or the girl. Talk to her, or just ask her out, only way to find out)

[Guest]

Sorry repeated sentence

[dizmo]

Honestly, every person is different and since we don't know her in person it's pretty impossible to know what she's like or what she's thinking.
Hell I bet most of the guys on here wouldn't know what she was thinking even if we did know her!

It's really just a bunch of guessing. Unhelpful guessing.

 

Basically. Go talk to her. Don't sit from afar and just stare at the girl. They're not monsters.

You can easily find out for yourself that way.

 

Don't start off too heavy. Just be friendly and see where it goes.

[Guest]

start talking to her over social media or face to face and all that. Then see where it takes you!

I watched some vids saying that personal interaction is the best way.

[M4dKing]

dude, you've asked in the wrong forum. most of the ppl here have their rigs as their GFs 

[Guest]

Honestly, every person is different and since we don't know her in person it's pretty impossible to know what she's like or what she's thinking.

Hell I bet most of the guys on here wouldn't know what she was thinking even if we did know her!

It's really just a bunch of guessing. Unhelpful guessing.

Basically. Go talk to her. Don't sit from afar and just stare at the girl. They're not monsters.

You can easily find out for yourself that way.

Don't start off too heavy. Just be friendly and see where it goes.

just start by talking to her. and be confident but not over the top. dont wanna come off as concieted

I know but I just get so nervous and she never leaves her seat at break time. There are people around her and I want to get a 1 on 1 with her. Also shy people are hard to approach

Edit: any tips on not being nervous?

[Guest]

dude, you've asked in the wrong forum. most of the ppl here have their rigs as their GFs 

Hahaha good one!

[eelnico09]

If it's been 3 years, that's a long time.

 

But if she remembers you then you have a huge advantage since you 2 are not complete strangers. If she's as shy as u say, you have to 100% do the 1st move.

[Sam Z Man]

I watched some vids saying that personal interaction is the best way.

Try not to text or message her. Talk face to face or on the phone.

[Bordermick]

dude, you've asked in the wrong forum. most of the ppl here have their rigs as their GFs 

Nah bro, I got my profile picture ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[Devon_Pearce]

I watched some vids saying that personal interaction is the best way.

very much so

[dizmo]

I watched some vids saying that personal interaction is the best way.

Haha, dear God! I mean I get that YouTube is all the rage with you youngin's but sometimes you've just got to go out there and experience life for yourself.

Sure it might not work out. That's how you learn.

 

dude, you've asked in the wrong forum. most of the ppl here have their rigs as their GFs 

Hahaha, speak for yourself

My gf doesn't let me play video games

 

I know but I just get so nervous and she never leaves her seat at break time. There are people around her and I want to get a 1 on 1 with her. Also shy people are hard to approach

Edit: any tips on not being nervous?

So...go sit down beside her? "Hey, how have you been? It's been ages!". Boom. Done. Contact initiated.

Don't worry about the other people. Maybe they'll be new friends as well.

[Guest]

If it's been 3 years, that's a long time.

 

But if she remembers you then you have a huge advantage since you 2 are not complete strangers. If she's as shy as u say, you have to 100% do the 1st move.

Try not to text or message her. Talk face to face or on the phone.

I did message her on ig today and I just asked if she remembered me. I did it a little late but if she says yes I'm gunna ask if I can talk to her like 1 on 1. U guys think that's a good idea?

[Fred Castellum]

Give it a go, if you fuck up then you fuck up. Take it as a life experience!

[QuadNine]

LinusDatingTips

[Fgtfv567]

Talk to her! Don't let it turn into a whole year of nothing but awkward stares! DO it. DO IT BEFORE I LINK SHIA LABEOUF IN HERE!

 

I speak from personal experience, seriously do it. (Before you call me a hypocrite, the girl I used to like scared me off from talking to her)

[Sam Z Man]

I know but I just get so nervous and she never leaves her seat at break time. There are people around her and I want to get a 1 on 1 with her. Also shy people are hard to approach

Edit: any tips on not being nervous?

Work out, it will build your confidence and self esteem, studies show that being confident actually makes you more attractive.

Be confident, but make sure it's not cocky.

[Guest]

So...go sit down beside her? "Hey, how have you been? It's been ages!". Boom. Done. Contact initiated.

Don't worry about the other people. Maybe they'll be new friends as well.

The thing is, I'm a bit nervous/shy too. And I am really afraid of rejection

[GregP]

YES, YOU DO

[Guest]

Give it a go, if you fuck up then you fuck up. Take it as a life experience!

  

Talk to her! Don't let it turn into a whole year of nothing but awkward stares! DO it. DO IT BEFORE I LINK SHIA LABEOUF IN HERE!

 

I speak from personal experience, seriously do it. (Before you call me a hypocrite, the girl I used to like scared me off from talking to her)

Yes you guys are right but I really like this girl. Like I wanna start something serious with her!

[TheGeeker]

Just give us her ig and we can all stock her and force her to like you with the power we all have. Idk. Maybe dont rush. And dont be stupid. I learned that so many times. I liked this one girl and she told me she had a crush on a really popular guy who was a total jackass and I was shocked so was my friend which he liked her as well and when she found out that he knew i was in deep trouble and so i built another pc and became anti social and things are now kinda werid. 

[eelnico09]

I did message her on ig today and I just asked if she remembered me. I did it a little late but if she says yes I'm gunna ask if I can talk to her like 1 on 1. U guys think that's a good idea?

That's on you.

 

Personally, i'd just wait to casually see her and then say hi and talk to her.