What do you do when you're um.. y'know...

[beebskadoo]

How to cure Depression in a few easy steps,

 

Step 1: Go to a hardware store and buy a bag concrete (Rapid set works faster)

Step 2: Add 1 Cup of cement to your cereal.

Step 3: EAT IT AND HARDEN THE F**K UP!

 

Take life by the balls. If you don't life will take you by the balls and never let go.

Worst advice ever right here ^

[Camul]

You are the only person that can make the decision and take matters into your own hands. Other people can't do that for you. What people can do is provide support for you.

Surround yourself with positive people that have your best interest in mind.

I'm doing that. It's not like I'm not seeing anyone for it. I already see a psychiatrist, and soon I will also be going to see another two psychologists.

[beebskadoo]

I'm doing that. It's not like I'm not seeing anyone for it. I already see a psychiatrist, and soon I will also be going to see another two psychologists.

There is no miracle cure for depression. It can be caused by many things and treated with many more things. I have been on many different kinds of medication and have seen many counselors.

Nothing helped until I found someone that I could help me help myself. 

He is an amazing person and a great listener.

That is my story, yours will probably be different.

You have to find your own way of coping with things, that goes for everyone.

[Camul]

There is no miracle cure for depression. It can be caused by many things and treated with many more things. I have been on many different kinds of medication and have seen many counselors.

Nothing helped until I found someone that I could help me help myself. 

He is an amazing person and a great listener.

That is my story, yours will probably be different.

You have to find your own way of coping with things, that goes for everyone.

I haven't found a way of coping with it yet. I don't really know what else to try.

 

Who did you find? (I'm guessing it's you're bf)

[beebskadoo]

I haven't found a way of coping with it yet. I don't really know what else to try.

 

Who did you find? (I'm guessing it's you're bf)

Yeah My boyfriend helps a lot. I have my days that nothing helps but there is always tomorrow.

Talking helps a lot of people.

Finding someone you can talk to and open up to is very important.

I have been on both ends of that equation, I am a great listener.

 

 

If anyone ever needs to talk, you can always PM me, I am glad to help

[Camul]

Yeah My boyfriend helps a lot. I have my days that nothing helps but there is always tomorrow.

Talking helps a lot of people.

Finding someone you can talk to and open up to is very important.

I have been on both ends of that equation, I am a great listener.

 

 

If anyone ever needs to talk, you can always PM me, I am glad to help

I used to talk to my best friend, which used to help a lot, but lately it hasn't been making any difference. Probably because my main issue is that I hate all of the work I'm producing for college. It makes me angry to look at it, but my friends and the tutor keep telling me I'm being to hard on myself, which only makes me angrier because I feel like people are lying to me. It's like my BDD has come back, it's just affecting something else. I can't tell if people are lying to me, or if my work actually is terrible.

 

I also realized that by the time I get over all of my confidence and anxiety issues (if I ever do) it's going to be way too late for me to ever get a bf. I'll be at least in my mid 20's at the earliest if all of this ever gets sorted out, which seems far too late to start finding out how to be in a relationship. Seriously, if you knew a guy in his mid 20's that had never been in a relationship, and never as much as kissed anyone before, would you give him a chance when there are infinitely more people to choose from that actually have experience?

[AlexGoesHigh]

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[ReillyP]

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[Serbian_Souljah]

Worst advice ever right here ^

Meh, I just think people are to soft these days.

[beebskadoo]

I used to talk to my best friend, which used to help a lot, but lately it hasn't been making any difference. Probably because my main issue is that I hate all of the work I'm producing for college. It makes me angry to look at it, but my friends and the tutor keep telling me I'm being to hard on myself, which only makes me angrier because I feel like people are lying to me. It's like my BDD has come back, it's just affecting something else. I can't tell if people are lying to me, or if my work actually is terrible.

 

I also realized that by the time I get over all of my confidence and anxiety issues (if I ever do) it's going to be way too late for me to ever get a bf. I'll be at least in my mid 20's at the earliest if all of this ever gets sorted out, which seems far too late to start finding out how to be in a relationship. Seriously, if you knew a guy in his mid 20's that had never been in a relationship, and never as much as kissed anyone before, would you give him a chance when there are infinitely more people to choose from that actually have experience?

I understand the frustration you are feeling to an extent. 

you have to ask yourself, do they have a reason to lie to you? or is it irrational for you to think so.

 

I would give anyone a chance if I was interested in them. Something about an 'inexperienced' person makes it better. You can grow and learn with that person in a different way than with someone who has been there before.

Don't feel down on yourself because you haven't found anyone yet. That is another one of those societal expectations that are just foolish to expect. I know people in their 30's that haven't had a serious relationship ( not to say it isn't easy ) But you are young, and have your whole life ahead of you! Slow down, take a breath and assess the situation. Make a list of priorities and goals, I know that sounds silly but that is part of externalizing your feelings.

[beebskadoo]

Meh, I just think people are to soft these days.

People have always been the same, it's the expectations that have changed.

i.e. 50 years ago, men weren't supposed to show emotion or cry and women stayed at home. Bla bla bla.

Just because someone else can deal with their issues so easily, doesn't mean everyone else can.

Everyone is different.

[Ookami]

There is no miracle cure for depression.

Masturbation or sex (sex as sex with another person and not a hand)

[beebskadoo]

Masturbation or sex (sex as sex with another person and not a hand)

Honestly, sex helps a lot. But that can only go so far.

When I'm depressed I vent to my BF and then we umm ya know

It's something that brings us together and helps strengthen the both of us.

[Ookami]

But that can only go so far.

Kamasutra has many positions dude. Watch Japanese porn and youll find more weird shit, unless youll break your neck on one of the Kamasutra positions.

 

R.Kelly must have been depressed and sex didnt helped, soo he peed on the girl. You need to improvise.

[beebskadoo]

Kamasutra has many positions dude. Watch Japanese porn and youll find more weird shit, unless youll break your neck on one of the Kamasutra positions.

 

R.Kelly must have been depressed and sex didnt helped, soo he peed on the girl. You need to improvise.

Lol, Kamasutra isn't exactly entirely applicable for Gay men

 

Watersports isn't for everyone, not for me

[VJmes]

Well I tend to drink, it isn't healthy but when I do it at a bar I can at least pretend to be a social person.

[Camul]

I understand the frustration you are feeling to an extent. 

you have to ask yourself, do they have a reason to lie to you? or is it irrational for you to think so.

 

I would give anyone a chance if I was interested in them. Something about an 'inexperienced' person makes it better. You can grow and learn with that person in a different way than with someone who has been there before.

Don't feel down on yourself because you haven't found anyone yet. That is another one of those societal expectations that are just foolish to expect. I know people in their 30's that haven't had a serious relationship ( not to say it isn't easy ) But you are young, and have your whole life ahead of you! Slow down, take a breath and assess the situation. Make a list of priorities and goals, I know that sounds silly but that is part of externalizing your feelings.

If someone I cared about was feeling like shit because their work was bad then I would probably (try) lie to them. I couldn't exactly tell them that it really is bad and make them feel even worse, if I lied then it might make them feel better.

 

Masturbation or sex (sex as sex with another person and not a hand)

Aside from the fact that my sex drive is completely destroyed from the medication I'm taking, I don't have anyone to do that with.