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Okay so there is this girl i like (no, I’m not asking how to ask her out or anything) long story short, I asked her out, but she said she isn’t ready moved on and kept being friends, however, recently I’ve felt like I more then like her, but I know she doesn’t feel the same way so i was getting pissed at myself for not moving on (I normally move on within a few hours) but I couldn’t, and I felt like we needed space, so I told her we shouldn’t talk anymore but now that I have, my anxiety made me have to ask to be excused from class 3 times (different classes) and I broke down at my bus stop (mentally, not a car) and my depression is through the roof, but I don’t know what to do, should I talk to her? Should I not? I need help, I don’t know what to do and every time I find out what I should do my emotions kick my ass until I change my mind. Please help

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Well, personally i dont think she likes you. Your gonna have to tough it out i guess.

 

Then again, im probably not the best source of info, as the only thing i had close to a relationship was a girl telling me she loved me, talking to me a lot and then found out she just happened to have a boyfriend

Damn....

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2 minutes ago, BlockedTheShot said:

Well, personally i dont think she likes you

Yeah I know that, I need help on what I should do, I don’t care if she likes me or not, in fact I don’t want to date her because then if we break up, it will most likely ruin our friendship, but now I need help on, should I try and become her friend again, or not?

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1 minute ago, iLostMyXbox21 said:

Yeah I know that, I need help on what I should do, I don’t care if she likes me or not, in fact I don’t want to date her because then if we break up, it will most likely ruin our friendship, but now I need help on, should I try and become her friend again, or not?

Jusy be friends and dont bring up the asking out thing

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2 minutes ago, BlockedTheShot said:

Jusy be friends and dont bring up the asking out thing

Okay how do I do that?

last I talked to her we were both pissed at each other

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Just now, iLostMyXbox21 said:

Okay how do I do that?

last I talked to her we were both pissed at each other

If you guys are pissed at each other then you probably shouldnt stay  friends (or at least stay away for sometime, this can be anywhere between a few weeks to a few years)

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2 minutes ago, Arika S said:

that was probably the biggest mistake you could have made.

Yeah I know, I regretted it the moment I said it

2 minutes ago, Arika S said:

And if you told her your reasoning,

I didn’t, i just told her I was going through things at home and needed space to deal with it (which is partially true)

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