Hey, nice progress so far, I'm digging the beard, its nappy and very cool.
you have taken an idea and turned it into a concept, this is something not many people have the patience for, so for that *thumbs up*. this forum is also full of... not so nice folks, so over looking previous comments.... I think this is a really cool idea. Darpa or nasa would really get a kick out of using both the index fingers and the thumbs interdependently.
Asking random nerds, on a form, to build a controller I fear is a waste. I would start by documenting what you have, both electrically and mechanically. +1 if your schematic is awesome.
Then head over to hackaday and post an open source project log. I feel a few renegade engineers might take interest, and maybe even lend a hand.
Also, on a personal note, you look nuts, like ya do, but you present yourself very well. Normal people don't like that, it shatters there plastic ideas and skewed world views. Stay weird, and don't give up, the world needs more free thinkers.
I'm serious about the documentation, deriving electrical connections from a picture is hard and often impossible.
p.s. I might have been the guy that helped you 6 or so months ago, I'm glad its working.