It's actually not a "hot" chip. The high idle temps is just by design. AMDs latest CPUs idles with high VCore to have the cores ready for high clockspeed spikes for when you fx launch a program or a game. Then under load, with a steady load, overall VCore lowers and that's why temps seem fine under load.
With AMDs 7000 series CPUs, they run "hot" under load too but that is also by design. They will boost until hitting around 95c, to squeeze every bit of performance out.
You and your girlfriends PCs may have a different temps because of different motherboards supplying different amount of voltage, could also be your girlfriends CPU is a golden one, a good sample. But anyhow, your chip is running just like it should. You can relax the fans and let it idle around 50/60c, it's just fine.