fuck me im dumb, i literally just took the 16 18 18 18 38 shit and left it, 3200mhz and went from 1.35v to 1.36v and honestly, my game hasn't crashed like it was at 3200mhz 1.35v, i had to run 3133mhz 1.35v to stop crashing, but after this discussion i just tried to up voltage...im going to have to invest a good 50hrs into studying ram ocing now, and i've been procrastinating on this for years so...fuck you for making me face this XD and thanks for the info
went with d10 and liquid spark with a pair of hifiman xxs...ended up having to buy a new mic, which i got a blue yeti...and i can't get mic monitoring/side tone to work with it and its killing me.