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Crush Problems...

antoainb

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blog-0887478001417113428.jpgI'm lost, I don't know what to do! I've been friends with this girl for a few years and last week we went to the movies together, we were supposed to go with a group of friends but they didn't get their tickets in time so we went alone. For some reason I don't know something changed between us, on Monday it was as usual but as the rumors of us dating intensified I felt this weird tension between us. Then today I find out she likes me, and I am lost. I like her as a friend, she's one of my best friends but I don't think I like her in the sense that I want to be her boyfriend. I feel really shitty though, breaking her heart makes me feel like crap, I'm friendzoning her, and I hate it. I'm afraid that if it doesn't work out it destroys our friendship and I don't want that. I feel like crap. :(
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TheSLSAMG

It's a position I have never been in, but one I have put people in.

 

It's odd. I don't really know how to deal with this, seeing as I have never been in a relationship in the 17 years that I have lived, but I will tell you not to let you down. Just tell her how you feel, do it in private and make sure she knows you still like her as a friend. That's all you can really do.

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Tech_Dreamer

So you're telling me you're friendzoning a girl who has a crush on you?

 

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Anyways on topic, i think it's right for you to do so, but do give it a chance "if" possible (one or two dates won't mean too much posssibly may change your mind about her),

 

But on Subject , tell her clearly how you feel , just don't say outright you don't like her & just leave or stop talking to her it'll make the situation real awkward, explain to her in a bit detail (come up with some reason that you're not interested & rehearse that shit before you say it) all they need is explanation that's all & they follow what you say..

 

Hope this works out for you..

 

PS: is she kind of ugly or something?

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antoainb

So you're telling me you're friendzoning a girl who has a crush on you?

 

 

 

 

Anyways on topic, i think it's right for you to do so, but do give it a chance "if" possible (one or two dates won't mean too much posssibly may change your mind about her),

 

But on Subject , tell her clearly how you feel , just don't say outright you don't like her & just leave or stop talking to her it'll make the situation real awkward, explain to her in a bit detail (come up with some reason that you're not interested & rehearse that shit before you say it) all they need is explanation that's all & they follow what you say..

 

Hope this works out for you..

 

PS: is she kind of ugly or something?

 

No, she's fine, she's just someone I think of as a friend.

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Tech_Dreamer

No, she's fine, she's just someone I think of as a friend.

Cool , tell her that exact thing, also do a followup post after a few weeks after that..about you guys.

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nekro

Somehow life don't give always what you want but what you need. Maybe this girl may be a good partner for you for the reason she already know your character your needs your problems etc etc. It's veeery rarely for this to happen though. Never been on that. I wish i will. Never mind. Just be yourself give it a try if you want but as far i can see things will not be the same again :/ sorry for my english not my natuve lang:)

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