I'm just going to spend some time with my wife and then afterwards watch my wrestling and play some video games. Tomorrow I'm taking her out to eat to celebrate our anniversary. Technically it was yesterday but we weren't able to celebrate it then. We'll be celebrating it tomorrow.
If you're not in a hurry, I'd wait for LG's new monitor. It's basically the creme of the crop when it comes to ultrawides, and will be the monitor I upgrade to myself.
It's this: https://www.digitaltrends.com/computing/lg-38-inch-144hz-g-sync-gaming-display/
He might have come across as slightly rude, but I can see where @vojta.pokorny is coming from. It seems like a colossal waste to have purchased a gaming monitor to use for multitasking, when a monitor significantly cheaper would have had the same effect.
Most games can't do 60fps in ultra. But, at 4k, most games don't need a lot of the settings cranked (like most people review them). So higher refresh rates are attainable.