Giving an update:
I literally unplug everything, I disassembled the computer almost entirely, took the gpu out, the motherboard, switched the ram positions, didn't bother taking the psu out and re-sorting cables, same with the ssd and hdd, and then assembled it all back together and now it turned on properly.
I'm still worried wtf was that? Why did it do that? Is it going to happen again? Is something in my pc going to die? I'm like super stressed with this