Again, as always, seems that there is no point in arguing. People will always troll on purpose, on accident, or just be plain ignorant. We can't do anything either way, only make sure that this doesn't get swept under the rug. If half of this stuff turns out to be true, it's really bad.
Main point is: don't assume that your experience is valid for everyone and that your opinion is the one everyone should listen to and follow.
And for the love of God, please be civil to the parties involved and to the others. Everyone involved is a real person