I'm not entirely sure i understand your problem. The problem i have is i use ITunes on both my PC and Mac and if i download some music on the PC or rip some or you know;) i just have to homeshare it to the other computer, this works fine but when i move all the files to my Nexus some of it doesn't sort right even though in ITunes it's all sorted fine. I started using google play music and uploading my library to that but it's not 100% sorted it.
Don't get me wrong I love my nexus but for that one little feature about my music not sorting correctly makes me want to change.
The problem is all of Apple's products are so expensive so people call them overpriced but when you use one you realise the quality of it all, to get the same quality off a Windows laptop you pay roughly the same so i don't think they're overpriced at all. They're just expensive