I got nothing against the ladies but they are a lot of work to be honest and im sure even the girls here will agree with me. takes a lot of work to pique their interest, takes a lot of work to keep that interest, takes a lot of work maintaining "the spark", and it takes a lot of work to earn the cash for things like gifts, dates etc. and it also take a lot of work to lose an argument (because in the end lads, she always wins and we all know it). But then again if your dead set on getting a girlfriend then just talk to a girl find out something about them or whatever, dont be rude or a dick (it aint gunna work pal ) and eventually you will know if you like that person. if you eventually get a girlfriend then make sure its easy. a relationship should never be difficult (i.e fights all the time, lack of verbal contact for a long time and being ok with it etc.) and when it is difficult then its not right. of course arguments will come into play as they do with everyone but its about trying to see things through your partners eyes and not always trying to be "the right" person in the argument. Give and take is a major thing in relationships. And for any women reading this post im sure you can agree with me here