No worries! Thanks for taking the time to help out-
1) Yes, all four are exactly the same, all brand new: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B015FXXBW0/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
2) Yes, I only loaded default settings, no XMP profiles or anything like that.
3) Haven't tested yet, as this would force single channel, no? I'll test it and get back to you though.
4) I tried with only two sticks, in DIMMA2 and DIMMB2, per manual suggestion. Same exact issue. Recognizes both in BIOS (8GB each), but DRAM size is only 8GB. I thought the issue might be the two kits together, but it seems with even just 1 kit, it doesn't work.