Thanks @h3xlay @thinwalrus @LogicalDrm
You guys hit the nail right on the head. After some research on overclocking, I was able to run 1.19v on stock clock speeds. Temps at this voltage were what I was expecting from this NH-D15. 25-30c idle, 60c under load. Probably could have gone lower but decided to overclock.
I achieved an overclock of 4.9ghz with 1.275v. Still testing stability but Cinebench ran successfully with score of 5007 and Prime95 (Smallets FFTs) dose not crash after 5 min. Max temp was around 80c.
Some people are getting way better overclock's though. Maybe they just lucky with good chips.
This dude probably has the best i9 in the world cause I cant even get close to his voltages at those clock speeds.
I tried 5ghz on all cores but I need around 1.35v and temps easily reach 90c in Prime95 (smallest FFTs) I don't know how some people can do 5ghz on 1.2v - 1.25v. Either im yet again doing something wrong or its just how my particular i9 is.
My new settings: