Follow up, one month later. I have gotten it to work! I removed all connections to gpu then connected only the TV that would not connect, restarted and BAM! logon screen with no boot loop. I then added all the rest of the connections, adjusted resolution and display positions and now I am good to go. Except, audio. So I was using my Onkyo Tx-NR676 receiver as one of the displays but resolution or use of nvidia settings would not save. So after some digging on threads, I learned to run hdmi directly to the tv then output the audio thru Digital Optical audio to the receiver. This is the setup I am running now. The setup only allows for 2 channel stereo but I have a 7.2 surround setup. I have updated the receiver to latest/last firmware but nvidia control panel will not recognize it under the new setup. I think I can run a separate hdmi then set audio playback to the receiver so that I can get back my full 7.2 surround. Any suggestions? Thank you and sorry for all the words again.