Ok, i will try to say it better. I want to have my media stored on a server, myself lying on a bed, take my phone, use it to start playing media stored on a server and outputted to a connected to a server monitor, controll the process from my phone. Basically i just want my phone to act as a remote, which is built in some android phones (via IR), but requiers a newer compatible phone and a newer compatible TV. I absolutely do not want to spend an awfully huge load of bucks on it, so I am looking for a software solution.